Two conflicting lines of advice.
Don't pursue, let them come to you.
Why it works: Elevates status, makes the girl feel it is her decision, etc...
Why it doesn't work: You may end up waiting a life time for a girl to come to you, many girls expect the guy to make a move, etc...
Be aggressive, persuade girls out bring them home, etc...
Why it works: Asserts male dominance, confidence, etc...
Why it doesn't work: Should never come on strong. Makes guy seem creepy, desperate, etc... Girl might worry if she goes back to the guys place he'll expect her to have sex or something shady...
So which is it?
Don't pursue, let them come to you.
Why it works: Elevates status, makes the girl feel it is her decision, etc...
Why it doesn't work: You may end up waiting a life time for a girl to come to you, many girls expect the guy to make a move, etc...
Be aggressive, persuade girls out bring them home, etc...
Why it works: Asserts male dominance, confidence, etc...
Why it doesn't work: Should never come on strong. Makes guy seem creepy, desperate, etc... Girl might worry if she goes back to the guys place he'll expect her to have sex or something shady...
So which is it?