they are IMHO the hardest chicks to get, at least in that element. One, it's a gym. No shortage of good looking guys in the gym. It's like a club except no one is drunk (I hope). Secondly, the girl behind the counter usually is a health nut herself so she's in tip top condition which means she is usually banging.
I have been going to the same gym now for almost 3 years, the same girl works behind the counter in the mid morning which is when I go to gym, she's in college. GREAT body, I mean, you could bounce a penny off her stomach, and not only has a tight ass, she actually has an ass, like a real one. great smile, really nice.
I mean i'm taken, and i never made a move but still I keep my eyes open. The first 9 months -1 year or so, i mean we would make small talk, especially when no one else is really there she would get on the treadmill next to me and we will kill time, but nothing serious at all. I found out she is a "hardcore" christian, I mean hardcore lol, she's still a virgin, Chasity ring and all, likes to read, studying to be a nutritionist.. a little bland for my taste but she looks great.. I mean I like good girls but I mean at the same time, you have have somewhat of a wild streak/ like to drink every once in a while do something, live a little. Just thinking out loud now.
We built rapport, but not in that kinda way, again i go to the gym damn near everyday, you get to know people. NO big deal. I am at an advantage because I go to the gym when hardly no one else is in there everyday, between 8 and 10am
I have to paint the picture here as well, i drive, or drove utnil i got jumped and it got stolen, a 98 lexus sc300 knock around car. nice car, but nothing really out there, semintemal more than anything, but i took care of it, was in perfect condition, so she saw the car all the time when i pulled up, and i would be in my gym clothes, would take a shower and leave. One day I left my wallett in my locker, and i did not realize this until i tried to get into the horse track, so i had to turn around and go back to the gym, and go to my locker, by now i'm driving my real car which is nicer than that car, and i'm dressed like i normally dress outside of the gym, which she had never seen before, and i could see the light switch kinda go off at that point. she started exercising more when i was exercising, she inquired about how i make a living, etc, basically she was flirting with me. I like to keep my skills honed so i played along lol. hell you never know. A week goes by and she is now getting pretty brazen adn she is talking about hte bad date she went on a few nights earlier. Basically letting me kn oww she's single, and i suppose in turn wanting me to open up about my personal life. Then the next day she just comes out and asks me am I single, at the time i didn't have a ring or anything, and i tell her no i'm not, but honestly if i wasn't i would take her out in a second, it's nothing against her, even though it's about a 7 year age difference. She says that's "too bad". My GF/now wife has come in a few times with me and she says "so is that her?". I don't wish anything bad on my relationship but if it did i pretty much have a standing invenation to that and she wouldn't be gone one night and i would be on a date with her. I think every guy has "a list".. you know what the list is. you hope you don't have to use it but it's there lol.
Anyway, my point to all that, and bear with me because i know i ramble but the best way i get points across is to tell my experiences and how they relate, is that you have to keep in mind, she's at work. when she see you in your gym clothes everyday, doing the same thing everyday, she's at work.
your best bet, is to treat it like dating a stripper or asking out a stripper, the first thing you have to do is switch battle grounds so to speak. You are'nt going to win many battles with a stripper in a strip club. My point being, as long as she is "the girl behind the gym counter" she has an advantagge. I mean what guy doesn't check in to the gym and look at the gym girl behind the counter and think what it would be like to rail her ass over the bench press bench...okay maybe that's just me lol. And they know that too. I assure you girls like being the "girl behind the gym counter". That's a pretty freaking prestigious position for a woman.
You aren't going to win many battles with the woman behind the gym desk at the gym, or at least in your everyday gym garb looking like everyone else. You have to change the battle ground, by bringing in other elements. Me coming in that day, while i didn't take her anywhere, it was somewhat like changing the battle field because i wasn't coming to work out. I was in my real life element and at that point i wasn't a guy coming to the gym looking to get a workout on while thinking about fapping to the girl behind the counter.
When she saw I had my **** together, she perked up.