How to keep her interested until we meet again

personal02

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I met this amazing Argentinian girl during my vacation last week. I just went upto her and started chatting, it went really smooth. I couldn't believe myself, for a moment thought she was out of my league. But she was totally into me, giving away all the signs. She almost kissed me at one point. But may be I'm over thinking, it's just her nature. Anyway..

So after our meeting that day, we exchanged numbers and decided to meet again however couldn't. Now I'm back home in the US, and she is going back to Argentina this week. Great news is, i'm traveling to Argentina next month for work for over 5 weeks. She reached out to me and i told her that, she was happy and said will definitely hang with me when i'm there.
I really really like this girl, not sure how she feels but i don't want to miss out on this opportunity. My work travel plane all of sudden is a positive sign that things may work out between us.

Please give me your advice experts, so i convert this into a relationship or atleast get to know her and she gets to know me.

how should i maintain the same level of attraction and keep her engaged until we meet, almost a month from now.

Thanks in advance!
 

english24

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Sounds like you placed a lot of value on this girl just from the way you've wrote about her. Personally, I wouldnt be bothered keeping her attracted for 5 weeks. But thats just me. You could keep her engaged every day through snapchat, fb with funny pictures and jokes. I would leave it until a week before you're about to got there, and slowly get back in the attention radar. Don't over think it.
 

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I was in a similar situation, but not with a girl from another country. Rather it was a different state and it was a month away. I just made sure I did a funny text one day a week and on sunday evenings would call her and chatted about our weeks.

I think the key is to keep the conversation fun and humorous. Stay away from the sappy, lovey dovey stuff. This SHOULD keep her interest level high and keep her thinking of you. Good Luck.
 

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Dear All,
Hands up those who think Personal 02 is a troll?
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear All,
Hands up those who think Personal 02 is a troll?
@Scaramouche - what makes you think like that?
I'm looking for serious advice here.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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