How to investigate a possible cheater.

Dave710

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This is my first tip post on here, I am usually at girlproblems. Feel free to criticize.

I am bored and taking a break from my studies so I will throw some tips up for those who think they me be cheated on, as this is common for this website.

The signs of being cheated should be pretty well known what matters the most is to have facts to back up those suspicions.

1. Change of sexual conduct. This could be an increase of sex to cover up the cheating or a lack of sex because the person is worn out or guilty.

2. Change in mood. This could indicate the stress from cheating or acting suspicious towards you. This is common sense.

3. Keeping track of miles. People who cheat must meet the other person involved somewhere. Most people drive the same about of miles each day, to work and home, to the grocery store, and such. Keep track of your partner’s car miles, they add up.


4. Search their wallet or purses and car. Key items are phone numbers, receipts. Why would a guy have lipstick in his car that isn't yours or his mom's? Why would a girl have an electric razor that you don't recognize?

5. Examine all transactions carefully. Receipts, checks, and ATM withdrawals. Note the date, time, and location. Did your partner lie to you about where they were on this day? Why would they get gas or eat at a restaurant two towns over?

6. Check clothing. Why would your partners clothes smell like smoke or perfume? Don't forget to check for hairs and if your a good detective, the type of detergent. (Only I am that good/pathetic, which ever you call it)

7. Get an informant. A guy is easier to catch through your use of informants, generally his guy friends and male co-workers. A girl is more difficult as she may not tell anyone and if so, they are difficult to get information out of.

8. Ask your partner. Don't accuse or point fingers, just ask.

Some Techniques and Tips:

Buy several cheap quality analog watches from a resale shop or dollar store. Set them to the correct time. Place one under the tires of your partners vehicle where it cannot be seen but will be ran over when he or she leaves. When it is crushed it will destroy the timing mechanism and the time will display exactly the time it was crushed, thus the time your partner left.

Search your partners trash. This doesn't seem pretty, but neither is being cheated on. This is one your best techniques to use in my opinion. Check for the following:

Receipts- Do as you were told above, they contain good information especially when gathered in chronological order.

Bills- You can see what your partner buys on a regular basis and also phone calls that are made on the phone bill. Check those numbers on an internet database to find out who and where that phone number is registered. Ask me for that web address and I will supply.

Medical supplies- Track all empty medicine bottles, toothbrushes, or anything to indicate someone from the opposite sex may be with your partner. Empty medicine bottles can be a good indicator of the persons health or even the health and information of the person your partner is cheating with.

Sexual supplies- Log all used condoms or other birth control items. Look for condoms wadded up in tissues. Foil condom wrappers are often not covered well. Lots of jelly may indicate homosexual activities or anal sex. Flavored and scented oils may indicate oral sex or sexual activities. Look at newspapers for circled numbers in the personal ads and check the inside of old phone books for hand written numbers.

Other- Make note of any alcoholic containers and discarded mail. The return address may serve handy. Also look for love notes, flowers, and anything else that you find suspicious.

Only do the detective work if you truly believe you are being cheated on. Let this be your silent technique. Don't use these tactics to keep track your lovers every move if you aren't suspicious of them. Don't be the over protective father who logs all of his daughters miles in a special log book. Use these only when needed and remember that one or all of these acts do not guarantee that you are being cheated.

I hope this helps those who need it. If you would like any other information or more tips specifically for your problem, do not hesitate to send me a private message me or contact me on my messengers listed on my user info.

Take Care,
Dave
 

Jester

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take this crap back to girlproblems before i puke.

search her purse? omfg, if you dont just her, just dump her, end of ****ing story.

NO ONE listen to this afc. my god he hasnt a clue.
 

Dave710

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Hey, I am just saying HOW to do it. Whether someone is willing to search all that is up to them. I know I wouldn't unless I am married or about to get married, other wise I would next her.

Hardly AFC.
 
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