How to initiate touch with a beautiful young lady.

Gasanova

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Alright pals so this post is going to be intricate and detailed.

If you're a dumbass who can barely read or you express yourself poorly please refrain from commenting under this thread. Thank you.

So a few weeks ago I met this interesting lady on the social network Instagram. 8/10, nice fit body, Redhead with blue eyes. Very kind and submissive.

Took her out to an expensive diner, and then it was an easy road back to the apartment. Really no effort at all, she knew what she was in for.

So we get there and a few moments later we're sitting on my couch while listening to a record on the turntable.

I start my moves, like an experienced Don Juan I don't take too long so I won't miss that precious window of opportunity.

I'm sitting next to her, getting closer and closer to her as we talk and I'm smiling, laughing and just keeping an easy light mood for her. (You NEED to keep the girl comfortable. And the way you do this is showing how relaxed YOU are, how much of a nice time YOU are having; she will mimick your behavior and attitudes).

I finally initiate touch by saying "This is not your natural hair color right?" As I grab the back of her head and caress her hair lightly. She says some dumb **** that I didn't even listen to something like "Yeah I dye my hair what about you?"

At this point I just go straight for the kiss and it's a home run.

It progresses very fast from there and in literally less than 3 minutes I'm sucking her tits and we ****ed multiple times that night. First date. Never seen her before.

I kinda wanted to ask her to leave so I could get a good night sleep alone but she ends up staying till next morning, which was OK. I got her an uber back to her place.

Gents, what I want to talk about here is the most crucial part of picking up girls: how to initiate touch.

How do you guys usually do it?

For me, keeping a very nice and fun mood, telling jokes, maybe watching some funny dumb **** (like the stupid TV show called "Skins") always helps.

Then I keep a smile on my face, tell jokes, maybe get some substances in us to feel less tense, and from that place it's usually a matter of minutes before me and the girl become one.

What are your tips on this?

Cheers
 

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When I was young I use to worry about sh!t like this, "how to touch her" "when to touch her" ect

Now that I'm older and more experienced I don't even care about touching her, because I realized it doesn't matter, you don't have to touch them.

If she wants sex it doesn't matter if you touch her or not, it's going to happen.

I see young guys all the time touching on these girls I think it's funny lol......Almost all the women I've smashed since my mid to late 20s didn't involve me touching them so go figure.

It's just more mental masturbation and will make inexperienced men overthink sh!t....

But ey, do what works for you and good job on the pull, now go get another 1.
 

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I don’t usually initiate touch. She does.

When I have to initiate, easy way is opening the door for her (hand on the waist) or walking down the sidewalk (have her hold my arm).
 

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Technique is less important - it’s the act of making a move.
Yes, you have to recognize her signals and mannerisms but a lot of men are blind sheep. I hear it time and time again from my platonic girlfriends complaining there dates didn’t attempt anything.
Reciprocation is interest. However, If she turns her head, directs you to a friendly hug, retracts her hand, etc., no need to entertain another date. Don’t waste your time trying to reel in a cold fish.
 
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If she wants sex it doesn't matter if you touch her or not, it's going to happen.
Well you have a good point.

Still I notice some girls are either too submissive or insecure or some other sh*t that leads them to not making any moves unless I make one first.

I like to go for the hands first, a small gentle caress, as my attention is elsewhere like looking at the TV or the view out the window.

The thing is you need to really go all in if you're using this approach because if you're lacking confidence it could go very wrong.
 

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Escalation was my issue when I became single after a decade of LTR. Read ‘Game’ by Roosh. Had some helpfull, aggressive ladies as well. At the very least, go for a neck, cheek kiss and hug at end of the date if you want another.
I have big hands, and girls like to compare hand sizes. That’s a good start too.
 

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