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How to identify low self-confidence in chicks

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Bros, screw trying to up our own self-confidence, I say if it is puss we're all looking for we need to prey on the chicks with low self-confidence!

Think about it, these chicks need our attention to feel better about themselves, all we ask is if they suck it, '**** it, and duck it. Now all we have to do is figure out which ones are running low in self-confidence.

Your thoughts...
 

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Haha maybe...could you have worded that in a more sleazy way?

Confident girls need to be sexed too though, and they usually seem to care less about being viewed as a slut because they're confident and proud of who they are.
 

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Yeah, slaog hit the nail on the head for practical reasons to avoid these girls. Also tune into Fatal Attraction and imagine where HER self-confidence is at.

The main reason though is that if you specifically seek out low-confident low-esteem girls because they are easier for you then it sounds like you run a good chance of creating a vicious cycle that feeds into your own low self-esteem.
 

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the piano master, pimps use this tactic to recruit ho's. First you have to be completely confident in your self and in order to have an eye for prey you must become the preditor. You also must be strong minded to spot weak minded people. In nature eagles hunt weak injured prey, their vision is thier number one hunting tool. Your vision will be your number one hunting tool. So in order to spot a low confidence woman, look at what kind of car she drives, what shes wearing, how well is her make up, how well is her hair done? Is she smiling? Does she walk with her head down? What kind of friends does she have? Where does she work? Does she stand in the corner with her friends at the club? Does she need attention? How in shape is her body? Does she got small breast? Look for cue's that scream weak/low status.

An easy way to spot low confidence women is by going on okcupid.com and plentyoffish.com. Dont actually talk to the women on the site. But look at thier pictures, look at the kind of stuff thier interested. And make notes on what to look for. Theres beautiful women with low confidence too, these women are usually the ones who like animals because they dont get attention from human beings. You can find many beautiful low confidence women at the grocery store, because they like to eat.
 

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hot chicks are confident, fat chicks aren't. why do you only want to nail fat chicks?

Mind boggling
 

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slaog said:
Stay away from chicks with low self confidence. They're a nightmare and their low self confidence is likely to lead to other bad things, like bad mood, poor hygiene, being untrustworthy and generally have all sorts of mental issues.
I dont think the OP was talking about making them your gfs, or even your friends.

Most low selfsteem girls can be identified after talking for 30 secs. I think a very easy way to spot one is by giving them a compliment, if they get embarrased then they are low selfesteem.
 

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synergy1 said:
hot chicks are confident, fat chicks aren't. why do you only want to nail fat chicks?

Mind boggling
Wrong wrong, hot chicks can be a lot more insecure.

However, fact is, ALL girls are insecure and have low confidence. Some moreso than others, but all can be manipulated.

Low confidence has it's advantages though..
 

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Ease said:
Wrong wrong, hot chicks can be a lot more insecure.

However, fact is, ALL girls are insecure and have low confidence. Some moreso than others, but all can be manipulated.

Low confidence has it's advantages though..
as wrong as my blatant ( and purposefully ) generalization is, how low do you have to go to try and leverage someones insecurities for your gain?

Enjoy the fatties and mental cases. That just means more worthwhile hot women for people like me.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The Piano Master said:
Your thoughts...
They're easy to spot and I push them away fast. Have fun with them. High quality - independent, that's how I roll.

Anyway, ask how boyfriends have treated her. When she starts talking about how they all treat her like crap and men are all *******s....

.....100% chance you've got a very low confidence girl.

Confident girls will (when chasing, even in the first few minutes) will try to attract you with things besides sex and "boo hoo I'm a victim/doormat". You have to play long-ball with these girls but it's well worth the effort. For example, they won't biatch about other girls in your life. In fact, they'll be proud you get so much attention as well as excited you spend time with her considering how much competition she's facing.

Keep going after the low-hanging fruit. That's that much more good stuff for me.
 
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r0cky said:
I dont think the OP was talking about making them your gfs, or even your friends.

Most low selfsteem girls can be identified after talking for 30 secs. I think a very easy way to spot one is by giving them a compliment, if they get embarrased then they are low selfesteem.
You know what I'm talking about, bro.
 
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Ease said:
Wrong wrong, hot chicks can be a lot more insecure.

However, fact is, ALL girls are insecure and have low confidence. Some moreso than others, but all can be manipulated.

Low confidence has it's advantages though..
Do tell, bro. That is what this thread is all about. :rockon:
 
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