So I had a rather strange thing happen to me tonight. My best friend's rather good looking roommate text me out of the blue and asked me if I was coming over tonight because she made dinner for us. Why is that strange you ask? Several reasons. The girl have never cooked a d@mn thing in her life in the 2 years I've known her, she's never really talked to me anything out of the ordinary, I didn't know she even had my number much less know how she got it. I go over to their house and my friend isn't even there. Something's is weird going on, this feels like that scene from Varsity Blues where the guy shows up at the girls house and she's in a whip cream bikini.lol Too bad this girl didn't do that! I'm waiting for the Canded Camera people to show up and this be a prank or something but it never happened. She then asked if I felt like going out to have a beer after we ate. Sure why not. We go to a bar that I usually go to whenever I go out but I hadn't been there in awhile, however the same d@mn people that were there last time are there this night (it's like they live at this place).
Here's where it REALLY get's interesting. We talk alot on here about social proof, and yeah it works but I've NEVER seen it work this well before. I see girls that I've been rejected by when I asked them out, girls that read and deleted my messages when I was on plenty of fish for a short while, girls that never gave me a first look much less a second one other time I've been out to this place with my friends. As soon as we walked in I felt like I was being stared at. I had to look down to make sure my fly was zipped it was so bad! I mean this girl I was with is hot, but I've dated girls on her hotness level, it isn't like she's some girl I've never been with on a looks-wise scale. For some reason though being with her sure was drawing me alot of attention from women. It was sort of making me a little mad because I was the SAME guy they had rejected before but now that I'm with someone else all of a sudden they stare? wtf?
I walked up to the bar to get some change and this girl is sitting there by herself, georgeous as he!!, wouldn't have talked to me in a million years if I was there by myself or with my guy friends. She says "you have nice arms" (ummm, thanks I guess?). I mean what the he11? If it was this d@mn easy all the time this site wouldn't even exist! All because I'm with a girl who looks better then 90% of the girls in the place I get treated like I'm Channing Tatum. I'm dressed like I always dress when I go out, I'm acting the same, look the same, everything yet my success rate could have been 100% if I had wanted to talk to any girl in the place, all because of a girl I'm seen with. I didn't even acknowledge most of the stares because they were from girls that could have had me but didn't want me. Just frustrating as he!!.
This ever happen to anyone else? I've had social proof before and had similar situations happen before but not this bad and especially not when the whole place is full of girls that have rejected me recently. It's like fate made them all go there on this night at that exact time.haha I bet I could go there by myself or with my guy friends this weekend and not a d@mn one would talk to me, much less stare at me.
Here's where it REALLY get's interesting. We talk alot on here about social proof, and yeah it works but I've NEVER seen it work this well before. I see girls that I've been rejected by when I asked them out, girls that read and deleted my messages when I was on plenty of fish for a short while, girls that never gave me a first look much less a second one other time I've been out to this place with my friends. As soon as we walked in I felt like I was being stared at. I had to look down to make sure my fly was zipped it was so bad! I mean this girl I was with is hot, but I've dated girls on her hotness level, it isn't like she's some girl I've never been with on a looks-wise scale. For some reason though being with her sure was drawing me alot of attention from women. It was sort of making me a little mad because I was the SAME guy they had rejected before but now that I'm with someone else all of a sudden they stare? wtf?
I walked up to the bar to get some change and this girl is sitting there by herself, georgeous as he!!, wouldn't have talked to me in a million years if I was there by myself or with my guy friends. She says "you have nice arms" (ummm, thanks I guess?). I mean what the he11? If it was this d@mn easy all the time this site wouldn't even exist! All because I'm with a girl who looks better then 90% of the girls in the place I get treated like I'm Channing Tatum. I'm dressed like I always dress when I go out, I'm acting the same, look the same, everything yet my success rate could have been 100% if I had wanted to talk to any girl in the place, all because of a girl I'm seen with. I didn't even acknowledge most of the stares because they were from girls that could have had me but didn't want me. Just frustrating as he!!.
This ever happen to anyone else? I've had social proof before and had similar situations happen before but not this bad and especially not when the whole place is full of girls that have rejected me recently. It's like fate made them all go there on this night at that exact time.haha I bet I could go there by myself or with my guy friends this weekend and not a d@mn one would talk to me, much less stare at me.
