Know how to handle women, or they will handle you.
-Pook
Looking back at my marriage in retrospect I realize that even though I eventually saw through the mind games, manipulations, and lies that she played on me I never reversed the situation on her and played mind games of my own. I would simply try to defuse her manipulations and games in a straightfoward manner (which isn't to say they didnt drive me batty- I'll be the first to admit that it took a while before I realized what she was doing).
Having freed myself, I did some reading on the site- and I found a few interesting quotes- specifically from KontrollerX.....
The goal of being a DJ is to get chicks as pathetically crazy over you as SunnyD is over her on again off again hookup buddy who she has recently told us all for the 55th billionth time she is done with but we all know quite well that she's going to be used and tossed by him for many more years to come because he got inside her mind so well.
This guy fvcks Sunny and a bunch of different chicks all the time.
Sunny throws a tantrum at him, cries and pouts for a few weeks, makes a pathetic attempt to manipulate him into validating her and making her his one and only and of course fails at her objective and then she goes and repeats the cycle with the guy again.
Chicks actually get hotter if you mind fvck them anyway then make them think that they could lose you any minute to another girl so work on making her emotionally attached to you without letting her get comfortable with it and hey if you still can't make this stop bothering you just use her for sex and BJ's as long as you can while looking for a new chick behind her back in the meantime to trade her up for.
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Originally Posted by Remulak
Either you cheat on the wh0re and give her all those negative emotions or she'll cheat on you! Women pretty much expect you to and when you don't they take you for granted and sh!t all over you. They're pissed you have the nerve to treat them with some decency and not treat them like the stinking piece of foul garbage that they are. Don't think your little angel will cheat? Watch how she acts when you become boring and she's branch swinging to some other guy's c0ck, it's like an exorcism took place. One day she'll start treating you like absolute crap and you won't understand why. Then she'll grow very very distant and yup! you guessed it your little princess fycked another guy behind your back. The only way to prevent this from happening is to beat them to the punch, they'll love you even more for it. $1000 says the girl In2theGame hooked up with had an AFC fiance who treated her like gold.
After you cheat make sure she finds out. She'll probably be pissed for a day or two don't believe it, it's a charade. Her p0ssy is secretly dripping, you'll probably get the best sex this side of the Mississippi.
Just a note, funny that 60% of the guys here never cheated on their girlfriend and we have tons of whiners who have been cheated on. Correlation?
As outrageous as this might seem to the AFC reader who has just found this site and read this first it is sadly, sadly true.
Generate some drama for your chickie and let her stew and simmer with it for a few days and she'll be all over you.
Repeat as necessary to keep the fvck buddy/girlfriend for as long as you want.
So- how do you guys go about playing mind games? What do you to keep her feed with drama and on edge? What can you do to "manage your woman" so that she's on the defensive instead of the offensive- namely scheming for ways she can take control of the frame and the relationship.