How to handle women (aka play mind games)

Aenigma

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Know how to handle women, or they will handle you.


-Pook


Looking back at my marriage in retrospect I realize that even though I eventually saw through the mind games, manipulations, and lies that she played on me I never reversed the situation on her and played mind games of my own. I would simply try to defuse her manipulations and games in a straightfoward manner (which isn't to say they didnt drive me batty- I'll be the first to admit that it took a while before I realized what she was doing).

Having freed myself, I did some reading on the site- and I found a few interesting quotes- specifically from KontrollerX.....

The goal of being a DJ is to get chicks as pathetically crazy over you as SunnyD is over her on again off again hookup buddy who she has recently told us all for the 55th billionth time she is done with but we all know quite well that she's going to be used and tossed by him for many more years to come because he got inside her mind so well.

This guy fvcks Sunny and a bunch of different chicks all the time.

Sunny throws a tantrum at him, cries and pouts for a few weeks, makes a pathetic attempt to manipulate him into validating her and making her his one and only and of course fails at her objective and then she goes and repeats the cycle with the guy again.
Chicks actually get hotter if you mind fvck them anyway then make them think that they could lose you any minute to another girl so work on making her emotionally attached to you without letting her get comfortable with it and hey if you still can't make this stop bothering you just use her for sex and BJ's as long as you can while looking for a new chick behind her back in the meantime to trade her up for.
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Originally Posted by Remulak
Either you cheat on the wh0re and give her all those negative emotions or she'll cheat on you! Women pretty much expect you to and when you don't they take you for granted and sh!t all over you. They're pissed you have the nerve to treat them with some decency and not treat them like the stinking piece of foul garbage that they are. Don't think your little angel will cheat? Watch how she acts when you become boring and she's branch swinging to some other guy's c0ck, it's like an exorcism took place. One day she'll start treating you like absolute crap and you won't understand why. Then she'll grow very very distant and yup! you guessed it your little princess fycked another guy behind your back. The only way to prevent this from happening is to beat them to the punch, they'll love you even more for it. $1000 says the girl In2theGame hooked up with had an AFC fiance who treated her like gold.

After you cheat make sure she finds out. She'll probably be pissed for a day or two don't believe it, it's a charade. Her p0ssy is secretly dripping, you'll probably get the best sex this side of the Mississippi.

Just a note, funny that 60% of the guys here never cheated on their girlfriend and we have tons of whiners who have been cheated on. Correlation?


As outrageous as this might seem to the AFC reader who has just found this site and read this first it is sadly, sadly true.

Generate some drama for your chickie and let her stew and simmer with it for a few days and she'll be all over you.

Repeat as necessary to keep the fvck buddy/girlfriend for as long as you want.

So- how do you guys go about playing mind games? What do you to keep her feed with drama and on edge? What can you do to "manage your woman" so that she's on the defensive instead of the offensive- namely scheming for ways she can take control of the frame and the relationship.
 

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From my random thoughts log- written about a year ago.



Emotional Control

Letting other people determine your emotions is giving them control over you.

Wanting others to be happy is opening yourself up to manipulation through their pretending to not be happy.

Caring what other people think of you is also a form of control you give them- you're like a doggie wating for a treat- they can make you sit, stay, roll over, play dead, all for that emotional bisquit.
 

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So the desire to wish good among fellow men and women (Wanting others to be happy) should be avoided? There's a difference between people pleaser/suckup and wishing good for friends and people. The rest of the random thoughts I like.

I'll be honest, the stuff KontrollerX said on mind ****ing them and the quote about cheating, I don't like it, at all. Perhaps I should kill my conscience, but I dislike the idea of cheating for she will cheat on you and it's the key to keeping her around too. I don't like the idea of making girls be on edge continuously as a way to keep control of the frame, competition anxiety to the extreme. In that Potato thread with the one post that give him any serious response and he agreed on one point Potato made, I too agree that it should be a cooperative effort instead of relentless powerplays.

If this is just strs, hook-ups, and plates: powerplays and high amounts of competition anxiety is fine. Reading what KontrollerX repeatedly explained, his advice is tailored for those types and it works. Though it seems the cheating tactic work for LTRs (how can you cheat without commitment), and if the above meant that, I have to disagree. At the least, I don't think you have to go to that level of creating drama, cheating, and mind ****ing to get a good thing going. I remember KontrollerX said his tactics are done for women today who only want cheap thrills. It is effective it seems, but currently I don't desire to keep them by that and so far I'm pretty happy getting along with my friends, male and female, and my girl without taking such actions. Though I won't be surprised taking such actions would get me more good, but I'm happy without stirring stuff instead. At least for now.
 

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I highly do not recommend cheating. She will leave you if she has any kind of appreciation for herself. If you don't believe me go ahead, see what happens and post back the results.
 

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This is total crap from an obvious psycho.

You don't have to cheat to keep control of your woman. All that is required is that she knows you easily COULD "cheat" (find another woman) if she treats you bad.

You don't worship the pu$$y, nor do you treat it like total dogsh!t. That's like saying you either beat your child senseless, or let them become a spoiled brat from hell. No, there is a medium. You train the pu$$y, much in the way you train a child. Firm but loving...

In fact, cheating is going to hurt your relationship in the long run, not help it. The dude who posts this dung is causing a lot of harm, because he is probably creating psychotic b!tches who will cheat now. And so the cycle continues. Thanks dumb a$$!
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Similar question: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150048

Just yesterday, I was sitting at a table with a girl I've been seeing who asked, "so, why are you sitting all the way over there?" She thought for a moment that I was in a bad mood or angry at her, because I wasn't sitting right next to her.

Really, that's all the drama you need.
 
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