How to Handle Last Minute Resistance to Sex

[Hate the game..]

So say your walking a girl back to her place, she's being very flirty tons of kino, you've been making out hard for most of the night ect. You get to her door and then suddenly she says I don't do this with the guys the first night.. But she still is smiling and looking directly at you; like if you say the magic words you'll be in.

How would you all handle this? Or talk about some real life examples.

 

[thevilittletroll]

say i need to use your bathroom. that gets you in the house, proceeed from there. the general rule of thumb is when you get token resistance take 2 steps back, she should then initiate back. then take it forward. also keep this in mind, when a girl says she's not gonna have sex with you, she's already thinking of having sex with you. she just needs an excuse. she needs to be able to tell her girlfriends the next day one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. stay calm, cool and collected when she gives resistance, 2 steps back 1 step forward. also blame her for trying to seduce you.

 

[Who Dares Win]

And dont forget to keep alchool at your place, not because you have to make them drunk but because even if they drink a single glass of wine in their head thats enough to rationalize that its not their responsibility.

They remain good girls it was just the alchool which temporarily drove them into slvuts.

Most of the time last minute resistance is about her fear of moral conseguences or implicitly meaning that they like you, with alchool involved they can say that "it just happened" or that they dont usually do or some other bvllsh1t.

Most of the time it even them to ask for it.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Honestly, I rarely get laid on the first date. The only girls I've had ONS with did not involve a date beforehand, nor were they girls I wanted to do stuff with beyond just sex.

However, I'm a GREAT second date closer. The reason for this is because, when I go out with a girl (and I tend to go for nice girls, not rebellious chicks with attitude), I'm already of the mindset that almost every guy she's been out with in life has tried to bang her on the first date. So, I purposefully do NOT push for sex that hard the first time out. I use the first date to show them a good time, what a cool guy I am, and push away any guards they may have up about me just being with them for sex.

When I get to the end of the date and DON'T push for sex, on some level it's gotta mess with their head. On one hand they're relieved I didn't make them get physical... but on the other hand, they're wondering if maybe it's because I didn't find them desirable. So, they spend the second date trying to prove to themselves that they're still desirable, which usually results in them having sex with me.

So, to answer the question: I handle last minute resistance by being indifferent (as I said on another post earlier today). If they decide they don't want to have sex, I don't make them feel bad about it and continue treating them like I was treating them the whole date; if they decide they DO want sex... we have sex, and I continue treating them like I was treating them the whole date.

 

[marmel75]

And dont forget to keep alchool at your place, not because you have to make them drunk but because even if they drink a single glass of wine in their head thats enough to rationalize that its not their responsibility.

They remain good girls it was just the alchool which temporarily drove them into slvuts.

Most of the time last minute resistance is about her fear of moral conseguences or implicitly meaning that they like you, with alchool involved they can say that "it just happened" or that they dont usually do or some other bvllsh1t.

Most of the time it even them to ask for it.

Lol, funny you should bring this up...I had a girl I was talking to online just shooting the sh!t with for a few minutes before I left and she was telling me how she was out with a guy the other day and they were drinking and at some point she was just f it, I had enough drinks, I'll have sex with him...

Said she wasn't even really attracted to the guy or anything he did, just happened cause she decided she was drunk and wanted sex at that point...I was like, yeah, alcohol really can even out the score in a hurry...lol