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How to handle a very ****y/popular girl?

Eklipse

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Alrite so theres this girl and she doesn't go to my school but a nearby one. anyway after talking to her i convinced her and her friend to come drinking with me and my friend at his house while no ones home. The problem is shes very popular, shes one of the hottest girls in the entire school and knows it. My advantages is shes only a sophmore while im a senior but other than that she really needs to be brought down to earth i've never done neg hits before and i wouldn't know where to start she is like a HB 9.9.
 

Eklipse

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i know she thinks she the s**t though cuz all those AFC treat her like a goddess and it really pisses me off haha
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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1. Don't care what she thinks.
2. Treat her like an HB6 (Average Girl)
3. Playfully neg her all the time, like a neg-less comment from you is a treat to her.
4. Be alpha and powerful around her, act like you know everything but don't seem to be full of yourself.
5. Never say you're better than her in some way because she should already know you're better be like "yeah whatever."
6. She's probably a busy girl, so don't try to get her to spend time with you a lot unless she requests it.
7. Be FUNNY. Make her LAUGH. Do WHATEVER it takes to be entertaining.
8. Make sure to reject her a little bit here and there and try to show low interest and rarely high interest, unless you're already escalating.
9. Be able to show interest in her friends so she gets jealous.
10. Have fun, and don't get pissed if you mess up, she can't be as great as you say. In fact I bet she's only a 7.5 at best. 9.9 is way too outrageous. If you don't believe in 10s then a 9.9 is basically the same as a 10.
 

duffman360

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it would be easy to get with her cause u r older and a lot of girls in hs like older guys case they think that they are more mature that guys their age
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

SinJester

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What year is sophmore? 9? 10? 11? Sorry, Aussie here.

I made out with like the hottest, most popular girl at my school. She was a couple years younger though. All I did was talk to her like a normal person. We ended up in a little group and I talked to everyone else as much as her. But I did kino her when I was talking to her. I brought her into my world. I was having a good time and she was just there for the ride. Then I ran of and was chattin away to some other people and she came out of nowhere and wanted to make out. Didn't see it coming at the time.

Moral of the story. Just treat here like a person, not a 9.9 babe. If you treat her like a godess you will be just like all the other AFC chumps. Sounds like you already have her on a pedestal.

OR

Get her drunk :p
 

dj ben2

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im with u sin WTF is a sophmore and freshman like who the hell calls some who goes to school a fresh man lols
 

ExcelNPrevail

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I'm in the same situation but me and her are the same age. I do agree guys do kiss there ass and it gets frustrating because they get all air headed! Thinking there the sh**, but oh well.
 

SinJester

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I've met a lot of attractive girls who are actually really insecure on the inside.
 

Evolution

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This is called pedalstaling.

I have met lots of hot chicks, but I don't give them any special treatment. I still tease them and make fun of them. Sometimes I think I go "over" the line, but the girls love me even more.

Thats why you can't be too nice, you can't be afraid to let her go. The ones you want, you have to show your willing to walk away any time.
 
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