How to give her a dose of her own medicine...

[The Comeback Kid]

There's this girl in my school who I used to like. I DO NOT LIKE HER AT THE MOMENT.

I first liked her last year when I thought for sure she'd say yes when I ask her out. Unfortunately, I apparently wasn't ready yet (I was too jealous) and I may have scared her away.

Then, earlier this year (before I joined the site), she is giving me over the top, obvious signs that she likes me. I ask her out...I get a no.

That's just a history of what's happened, and I feel it looks like I got played. We still talk, but mainly when she starts the conversation - her timing is sudden as well. It seems like she does give some unintended signs which show she may be hiding something, perhaps that she may have some feeling for me, or maybe she doesn't - I don't know.

I have wanted to try to "play" her if she starts acting like she usually will when it seems she likes me, but I can't think of a good idea and need some help on a smart, clever scheme.

She's pretty hot (HB 8-9) and a friendly person, so I would go out with her if she asked (probably). The thing is, if she starts talking to me constantly (like she did hte other two times), I want to somehow be able to decipher if it's a fake or not.

Any help on being able to tell if a flirty girl that is smart enough to know exactly what she's doing and can identify an obvious test is appreciated (I don't "like" her now, so I am definately not asking her out to get a response). By this, I mean just something in our usual interactions that can give it away - maybe something I can do to get it out of her without her saying it straighfoward.

In short, she's very flirty, but also very smart (book smart as well) - she can identify tests guys use on her if the test is not well thought out and she knows what she's doing (when flirting and things like that).

P.S. I've read the DJ Bible

 

[The Comeback Kid]

I know this may seem easier for you DJ's who have been here a while (or even some new ones), but I really need the help. I know this seems basic, but she seems to know exactly what she's doing (in regard to guys) and if I try a "simple" test, she'll probably see right through it. She isn't really a ditzy flirt, sine she has an entire gameplan in her mind and does things for a particular reason.

She's tough to figure out - she can get into the minds of my friends and even some of her guy friends (I've seen it happen)!

Again, any help is appreciated.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

bump? I need some help here...

 

[SmoothTalker]

If you don't really like her, what do you care if she's sincere? If it's fun, then flirt back for the hell of it. However.. as for tests, asking out is generally a good one, kino is nice too. If you're getting a lot of kino and have a lot of balls, kiss her sometime and see how she reacts.

 

[Stratocaster]

That type of girl is known around my town as a 'female player'.

I hate them. The only way I deal with them is not to be nice to them at all. I call them trash, hoes, etc. I sound 100% serious when I say it but it is still fairly jokingly. They laugh usually and whatever.

When they try and work their game, ignore them. One of these girls walked by me in class and purposefully fiddled with her belly button piercing in front of me. I just kept reading my textbook.(which is something I never do, btw lol.)

When I do that though, its just cause I hate female players with a passion, and they get no satisfaction from me whatsoever. There are plenty of women, or girls, out there to get with rather then spending my time ****ing around with one of these girls.

Female players suck cause they are doing to you what you are doing to them. My advice is to ignore her and let her do the calling, talking, etc. Then you will know if she wants you or not. Thats not the DJ way to do it, but with female players its tough.

Just find a new girl bro.

 

[Anomalous]

DUDE, if you don't really want her, than why did you post 3 times in a row (desparate). Anyways, if you dont really like her than you have nothing to lose. Act like your the man and then she will probably ask you out. DONT BE A CHUMP, I'VE READ YOUR POST/REPLIES BEFORE, AND IT SEEM LIKE YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THE HELL YOUR DOING.

If you said that you've read the DJ bible, which i think you did, then you wouldn't be wasting everyones time writing this DESPERATO post.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Originally posted by whyshy
DUDE, if you don't really want her, than why did you post 3 times in a row (desparate). Anyways, if you dont really like her than you have nothing to lose. Act like your the man and then she will probably ask you out. DONT BE A CHUMP, I'VE READ YOUR POST/REPLIES BEFORE, AND IT SEEM LIKE YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THE HELL YOUR DOING.

If you said that you've read the DJ bible, which i think you did, then you wouldn't be wasting everyones time writing this DESPERATO post.

1.) Chances are, I probably don't know exactly what I m doing , since I've never had a gf and I'm trying to find what's "right." That's why I came here.

2.) You've read my posts and replies and you think I have no clue in the world what I'm doing? I've doubt you've seen most of them, since my last "reply" was a story about how Mao Zedong became the ruler of China (seriously) and that one is actually correct.

3.) Alright, here's the truth - I don't really "like" this girl, but for some reason, I still have a little bit of feelings towards her and I don't know why. But it's not like I truly "like" her - I just have a little bit of feelings.

4.) You've never "bumped" a post in your life before? I doubt it.

I'm not mad or angry in any way WhyShy - I just some replies/questions of what you said - it's like a critique.

And, based on the last few replies YOU have written, located on hte top of the forum, it seems as if you got of the wrong side of the bed this morning - relax.

 

[Anomalous]

Originally posted by The Comeback Kid

2.) You've read my posts and replies and you think I have no clue in the world what I'm doing? I've doubt you've seen most of them, since my last "reply" was a story about how Mao Zedong became the ruler of China (seriously) and that one is actually correct.

4.) You've never "bumped" a post in your life before? I doubt it.



And, based on the last few replies YOU have written, located on hte top of the forum, it seems as if you got of the wrong side of the bed this morning - relax.

2.) Well what does Mao zedong have anything to do with............DJing.

4.)NO i havent.! and if i will, i'd write bump.

I was goin for a record!!

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Originally posted by whyshy
2.) Well what does Mao zedong have anything to do with............DJing.

I do have a history final on Tuesday..but that's not the point. The guy was talking about how to become popular in school, and someone else mentioned that a popular person in school needs to get along with the "non-popular" kids as well, which seems less common nowadays IMO. I was comparing that to Mao Zedong and how he became the ruler of China and how that is similar to gaining popularity in school (if you wanted to become "homecoming king" or something like that").

Just a little history lesson for the DJ's lol.