How to get your girl to lose weight

[Alle_Gory]

7I do love her but i feel i desrerve better, so its a dilemma for me cuz i think my whimpy behavior caused her to b like this. I take alot of blame thats why im not dumping her yet. If i stop being a whimp and she still has no attributes then thats it shes gone.

You did not make her into a sloth, but you accepted her with open arms when she became one.

You became too accepting of everything she did, when you should be ignoring the bad stuff and praising her whenever she does something you like.

She yells or eats garbage? Tell her its unacceptable and ignore her for a few days or be cold.
She's been going to the gym for awhile and acts very warm towards you? Tell her what an awesome job shes been doing and how you can really see that she's been getting in better shape. Take her out to a fancy restaurant, and fvck her brains out to show your appreciation... etc.

That's the way you're going to make a nice girl out of her. Use both the stick and the carrot. Women love attention, that's what YOU control.

 

[WaterTiger]

She has a broken WRIST, not a broken leg! Drag her ass out for a jog! I'm about ready to come over and smack this chick for you! Where do you live?:trouble:

 

[DJinTraining06]

I thought women were perceptive? I keep being cold and distant right after she ignores my sexual advances, and ill be cold for like a whole day. She never picks up on the fact that im in a goodmood then whenever she ignores or turns down my hints that i want sex, such as kissing her and touching her all over, she never seems to figure out why im pissed. Do i have to spell it out to her? I thought women were perceptive with these things?

Weve had the lack of sex discussion 3 times now in the past 2 years and each time shell have sex with me twice a week for like 2 weeks and then it goes right back to once or nothing. Then the next time i complain bout lack of sex shes like wat the hell r u talking about, we did it a few times this week. And im like huh? we havent done it a few times a week even once in about 2 years


Is this some kind og mind game, she doesnt make any sense. She said herself that we never do it early on when we first moved in together and we were doing it the same amount as we do now. Am i missiuing soimethig? why was once or nothing a week little then but not now? im so angry with this relationship i think i may have to end it. I was gonna go ring shoping this month and now im def not until shes outta that cast and proves her worth.

Apparently she thinks its every guys dream to move in with a girl who doesnt have sex, doesnt cook, doesn't clean, and doesn't take care of her body or at least maintain her weight. fun fun fun right?

 

[Alle_Gory]

Apparently she thinks its every guys dream to move in with a girl who doesnt have sex, doesnt cook, doesn't clean, and doesn't take care of her body or at least maintain her weight. fun fun fun right?

LOL. You should tell her that in the most sarcastic way you can.

 

[DJinTraining06]

LOL. You should tell her that in the most sarcastic way you can.

Yea but i cant cuz of her damm wrist, it will just look like im an insensitive jerk. I gotta wait 5 weeks till her cast is off. Not quite sure there is a sarcastic way to say that tho lol.