How to GET TO the sex??

[Captin Krunch]

After getting to know the girl or whatever for a little while, how to you take it to the next level with sex? like i KNOW, but i just need a nice scenario..
I have this situation where me and this girl were both out for school, she texted me asked what i was doing, i said nothing. She said she was cleaning. I told her to come clean my room after that. (so she could come over my house) she was like nah, you come clean up my room lol...i was like aite koo (i wasnt going to clean up duuh...im just trying to get over there)
I made sure that she wasnt just playing...and she was like so what are we going to do? i said we will find something ...(we have never really been together by ourselves tho so i didnt want it to be an awkward moment with us both just sitting there talking..that was my one fear)..later i was just like something came up and ill try to come over later, because im not going to talk, i already know what i want..i want to get to the point and drop some panties!! lol...so help me out here fellas, what would you have done/said differently?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

quadruple post. Thanx SS

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

quadruple post.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

quadruple post.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

The way that works best for me, these days (I'm 32, so I tend to be bit more relaxed about this stuff) is I make sure I am in no hurry to get in her pants.

I just show her a good time without any intentions or planned outcomes, we have a lot of fun, I act cool and un-needy with a healthy dose of non-creepy inuendo and after a date or two or 5 and a few heavy make out sessions, sex becomes "her idea".

If you're too eager, and aggressive too soon, it will put her defenses up. Let her lower them on her own terms and then she'll want to sleep with you and you don't need to convince her, or trick her in any way.

And of course, all the stuff about being "alpha" or whatever and being in control are always implied in this scenario.

 

[ARrocket]

(we have never really been together by ourselves tho so i didnt want it to be an awkward moment with us both just sitting there talking..that was my one fear)..later i was just like something came up and ill try to come over later, because im not going to talk, i already know what i want..i want to get to the point and drop some panties!! lol...so help me out here fellas, what would you have done/said differently?

Your problem is here.

You can ask for advice all day on here, but experience is the best teacher.

Next time go over there, and try. Have fun. Escalate. See what works, see what doesn't work. Then you'll be the one advising instead of asking. You'll be the one getting laid. As cliche as it sounds, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. So take them!

 

[dhizzyballuh]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=181892

read this

 

[bilboteabaggins]

brother here lately I have just been flat out asking for BJ's and sex after talking to a girl for just a week or so in person, text, facebook whatever, just work your way into it gradually

I have killed myself and suffered the last 2 years of my life and have went way up the scale in looks LOL, you be surprised how many girls will just take you up on it if you are a good looking dude in shape

 

[Maximus Rex]

Have you built enough rapport with this chick to have sex with her? Sex doesn't happen in a vaccum you know. I suggest that you read "The Mystery Method."