How to get this girl back

Crissco

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We used to talk when we were 14, she used to be OBSESSED with me and i mean obssesed, put my pictures in her locker and everything,funny part was we never met and we only talked on the phone. Funny part is now im the one wanting her lol. We talked on facebook last night I told her ide call her around 11 or 12. I called 12 30 and her phone was off. I hit her up on FB she signed off right away. She seems pissed at me, I just hit her up again today saying i was sorry and something came up. Now shes not messaging me back. How do i get this girl back?
 

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Crissco said:
We used to talk when we were 14, she used to be OBSESSED with me and i mean obssesed, put my pictures in her locker and everything,funny part was we never met and we only talked on the phone. Funny part is now im the one wanting her lol. We talked on facebook last night I told her ide call her around 11 or 12. I called 12 30 and her phone was off. I hit her up on FB she signed off right away. She seems pissed at me, I just hit her up again today saying i was sorry and something came up. Now shes not messaging me back. How do i get this girl back?
Get her back from what? I can't tell if you're drunk or just a bad storyteller.

So she liked you when you were 14. How long ago was that? 5 years? 10 years? Yesterday?

All I know is some girl liked you when you were 14, you never met her, and today she isn't returning your calls. And you want to "get her back" which sounds strange because it seems like you never had her in the first place.

Gayest story ever.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Get her back from what? I can't tell if you're drunk or just a bad storyteller.

So she liked you when you were 14. How long ago was that? 5 years? 10 years? Yesterday?

All I know is some girl liked you when you were 14, you never met her, and today she isn't returning your calls. And you want to "get her back" which sounds strange because it seems like you never had her in the first place.

Gayest story ever.
lol Yea im a pretty bad story teller, but this is a true story.
 

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sent her another message


"I dont know if you signed off on purpose or not last night but if u did thats a bit ****ed up, i only called u a half an hr later. this is gonna be my last attempt to contact u, if you dont want to talk anymore, thats cool with me?


then she signed off right away. Maybe that was a bit too much? ehh i guess im better off saying **** it and move on to another girl
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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**** it, it aint worth it, im gonig for other girls.
Ive had a few situations where I could have saved TONS of time if I would have done that , when in doubt , Fv#k em...
 

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Crissco said:
sent her another message


"I dont know if you signed off on purpose or not last night but if u did thats a bit ****ed up, i only called u a half an hr later. this is gonna be my last attempt to contact u, if you dont want to talk anymore, thats cool with me?


then she signed off right away. Maybe that was a bit too much? ehh i guess im better off saying **** it and move on to another girl

Bad move. If she had any interest at all there is a SMALL chance that it will make her take action, but more likely makes her think you're a reactive psycho. You HAVE to play stuff like that off like it doesnt bother you in the slightest.
 

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Crissco, I bet you $20 that if you get off the computer, game some other girls, and stop over-thinking everything, you can come back to this post in like 2 months and be embarrassed by how much of a pvssy you are here. I KNOW you're better than this.

What you SHOULD have done is not sent her any Facebook message at all, and then just called her up in a few days. While gaming other girls. You've been posting here awhile; you know better.

And then your second message just reeked of desperation and insecurity. I mean come on man...wtf? I feel like anybody who has been on this site longer than 15 minutes should know better than that.

Seriously were you drunk?

You've had some pretty good posts in the past, I'm just really surprised at all of this. You don't need advice from SoSuave, you need to just chill. What's helped me a lot is to lean WAY back and look at your girl situations with some objectivity. Think of your life as a post on here. How would you reply if somebody started this same thread? That forces you to think things through in a crisp and clean manner, without having any biases. Try it, it'll help a lot.

I know this got off topic but I feel like this thread of yours is a sudden outburst that if you really tried solving your own issues first, you'd easily find your solution. Which is why you could have been drunk.

Anyway, you know what to do. Now go do it and stop thinking so fvcking much.
 

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ARrocket said:
Crissco, I bet you $20 that if you get off the computer, game some other girls, and stop over-thinking everything, you can come back to this post in like 2 months and be embarrassed by how much of a pvssy you are here. I KNOW you're better than this.

What you SHOULD have done is not sent her any Facebook message at all, and then just called her up in a few days. While gaming other girls. You've been posting here awhile; you know better.

And then your second message just reeked of desperation and insecurity. I mean come on man...wtf? I feel like anybody who has been on this site longer than 15 minutes should know better than that.

Seriously were you drunk?

You've had some pretty good posts in the past, I'm just really surprised at all of this. You don't need advice from SoSuave, you need to just chill. What's helped me a lot is to lean WAY back and look at your girl situations with some objectivity. Think of your life as a post on here. How would you reply if somebody started this same thread? That forces you to think things through in a crisp and clean manner, without having any biases. Try it, it'll help a lot.

I know this got off topic but I feel like this thread of yours is a sudden outburst that if you really tried solving your own issues first, you'd easily find your solution. Which is why you could have been drunk.

Anyway, you know what to do. Now go do it and stop thinking so fvcking much.
Your 100% right bro. No other way around it. She did hit back up though, which is good thing, not with much interest but better then nothing. My next day off im thinknig abotu going to the local college and gaming as much girls as humanly possible to get my mind off of this chick
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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great news man, i haven't been on here long but i think people are confusing this site for an instructions manual when its really a guidebook.
 

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Thundernuts said:
great news man, i haven't been on here long but i think people are confusing this site for an instructions manual when its really a guidebook.
Def aggree with you on that one, Its like the DJ bible, thats a guideline for a lot of things, more then just women.
 
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