This comes from personal experience, and has worked for me three times. We all know it's next to impossible to just waltz up to the smoking hot bartender, get the number and actually pique her interest. They've been hit on a million times, heard every line, drunk guys, sober guys, etc.
If you want to get in their pants, you have to get in their head. This requires you to have a certain amount of plates spinning, but you can kill two birds with one stone with this technique. Now these hotties work the weekends, but they're usually scheduled on a slow day or two during the week - a Monday or Tuesday.
What I did was bring a plate of mine in to the bar EVERY Monday night (around 7 or 8 o'clock) for a drink or two when the hottie was working. This is ideally the best time because it's going to be extremely slow, and there probably won't be many people in the bar (if any). When I walk in, we're usually the only two people there. I did this for about two months in a row, and this created an immense amount of social value. After a while, when I walked in with a plate, the HB 9 bartender would have this wry half smile, almost holding back laughter. She definitely was amused and this incited her curiosity.
I worked game on my plates, and on the bartender without her even knowing it. She's going to remember you, so try to keep the conversation with your plate neutral, at least when she's around. This is important for the final step.
After you do this consistently for a couple months and you know the bartender recognizes you (her facial expressions will give it away), take two months off from that particular bar and bring the plates somewhere else.
Now after two months have passed, go back to the bar where the hottie works. This time by yourself, and during the weekend when it's packed. I guarantee you she will remember you. Bartenders have a phenomenal memory. The real mind fvck here is that you're sending the impression she isn't going to remember you.
At this point, you've already established social value, mystery, and confidence. I call this "The Big 3". Now you go up to her (again, Saturday night, alone, when there's tons of people), and act like you never saw her before. Order two shots. This is implying you're with somebody. Now you go for the number. Tell her:
You are a cutie. We gotta grab a drink sometime when you're not busy. What's your number?
Now she's either going to play dumb, or say something like "Am I going to be in rotation with all those other girls you brought here?" Just smile, feign being surprised and say "Oh no, those were just my friends." Get the number, and walk off with the two shots (make sure she can't see you.) Down the two shots, and leave the bar. I repeat, leave the bar. She will be looking for you, and will think you're with someone, but won't be able to find you because you disappeared into the crowd and left. A little extra mystery for good measure.
Am I devious or what? lol
If you want to get in their pants, you have to get in their head. This requires you to have a certain amount of plates spinning, but you can kill two birds with one stone with this technique. Now these hotties work the weekends, but they're usually scheduled on a slow day or two during the week - a Monday or Tuesday.
What I did was bring a plate of mine in to the bar EVERY Monday night (around 7 or 8 o'clock) for a drink or two when the hottie was working. This is ideally the best time because it's going to be extremely slow, and there probably won't be many people in the bar (if any). When I walk in, we're usually the only two people there. I did this for about two months in a row, and this created an immense amount of social value. After a while, when I walked in with a plate, the HB 9 bartender would have this wry half smile, almost holding back laughter. She definitely was amused and this incited her curiosity.
I worked game on my plates, and on the bartender without her even knowing it. She's going to remember you, so try to keep the conversation with your plate neutral, at least when she's around. This is important for the final step.
After you do this consistently for a couple months and you know the bartender recognizes you (her facial expressions will give it away), take two months off from that particular bar and bring the plates somewhere else.
Now after two months have passed, go back to the bar where the hottie works. This time by yourself, and during the weekend when it's packed. I guarantee you she will remember you. Bartenders have a phenomenal memory. The real mind fvck here is that you're sending the impression she isn't going to remember you.
At this point, you've already established social value, mystery, and confidence. I call this "The Big 3". Now you go up to her (again, Saturday night, alone, when there's tons of people), and act like you never saw her before. Order two shots. This is implying you're with somebody. Now you go for the number. Tell her:
You are a cutie. We gotta grab a drink sometime when you're not busy. What's your number?
Now she's either going to play dumb, or say something like "Am I going to be in rotation with all those other girls you brought here?" Just smile, feign being surprised and say "Oh no, those were just my friends." Get the number, and walk off with the two shots (make sure she can't see you.) Down the two shots, and leave the bar. I repeat, leave the bar. She will be looking for you, and will think you're with someone, but won't be able to find you because you disappeared into the crowd and left. A little extra mystery for good measure.
Am I devious or what? lol
