How to get the girl to ask you out?

[Ringleader41]

So I'm in a fraternity and the sororities have formals which are pretty much dressed up dances with alcohol. Obviously the girl has to ask you to these and I didn't get invited to any last semester while a lot of my brothers did. I don't know that many girls though.

 

[SeymourCake]

Socialize with them, have a positive attitude, be an interesting character and they will bound to ask you out.

 

[Ringleader41]

Socialize with them, have a positive attitude, be an interesting character and they will bound to ask you out.

How do I compete against guys better looking than me

 

[SeymourCake]

How do I compete against guys better looking than me

First get rid of that woman mentality that you have where you feel like it's only looks that matters and is a factor when it comes to being successful in the dating world.

Get a stable job that can financially support multiple people at once, buy new fashionable clothes, drive a nice car, find a hobby and be passionate about it, workout in the gym, etc .

I can go on and on, and guess what? Women should be on the bottom of the list when it comes to your priority. Why? Because women will sense your priorities and will do anything to make them number one on that list.

 

[Iceberg]

How do I compete against guys better looking than me

You already asked that question a week ago? Remember?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194098

And if it the question was dumb enough to get shut down then, it's even dumber now.

The world is full of people better looking than you. Apparently it's even more full of people smarter than you. All you can be is the best version of yourself. Stop worrying about outside factors. The only thing you can control is your own self improvement.

 

[theMac]

Get a stable job that can financially support multiple people at once, buy new fashionable clothes, drive a nice car, find a hobby and be passionate about it, workout in the gym, etc

He's a college kid. The rules aren't the same as in the real world. That's why "frat boy" types tend to suck in bars/clubs: the Game they learned worked in college, but doesn't work outside it.

In college, girls are much more interested in status and having "exciting" experiences. Have a plan for each.

Status: get to a gym. Be in the cool frat. Be a leader (read: main party planner) in your frat.

Exciting experiences: throw crazy parties. Do crazy things at parties, so that you get a reputation as an "exciting" guy. And ESCALATE. QUICKLY.

Hobbies/travel/interesting thoughts are great when you want to date a chick. Most college chicks don't want to date. Ergo, they're good for you long term, but they aren't likely to help you much short-term.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

So I'm in a fraternity and the sororities have formals which are pretty much dressed up dances with alcohol. Obviously the girl has to ask you to these and I didn't get invited to any last semester while a lot of my brothers did. I don't know that many girls though.

Unfortuneately you can't, because the overwhelming vast majority of girls, women, are old-fashioned and feel it is the guy's job to make the first move, approach and do the asking out, initiating.

 

[PapiChulo]

women dont ask out, they drop pretty strong hints and by then it is pretty obvious that they wanna be around you. Sometimes they jump on opportunity to come meet you somewhere, say, you mention you always wanted to go rock climbing and she suddenly decides to join you.

 

[Ringleader41]

You can't ask yourself out to her formal

 

[Zerro]

women dont ask out, they drop pretty strong hints and by then it is pretty obvious that they wanna be around you. Sometimes they jump on opportunity to come meet you somewhere, say, you mention you always wanted to go rock climbing and she suddenly decides to join you.

Most of the time they won't ask but sometimes they will if the interest is high enough, however them asking you for the first date is extremely unlikely. Them setting up the second date (like my new girl did) is much more likely if the first one went really well.

 

[bigneil]

Steps to get hot women asking you out:

1) Have strong attraction
2) Have sex
3) Have game
4) Have them fall for you secretly
5) Have them confess their feelings eventually
6) Have them telling their friends about you
7) Have them asking you out

It's that easy.

 

[Single4Life]

Some women will -never- ask a guy out.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

don't count on it to happen

 

[JPlaya]

lol a lot people didn't even read tc's post

 

[SharinganUser]

Ask her out first, screw her hard, and then she'll invite you to one of these things. Easy peezy.