CrimsonPanther
Senior Don Juan
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had some easy lays this way when i started my firm and was looking for employees (phony sexual harassment lawsuits are VERY rare here).
i did it like this: had an interview with the woman, told her she was one of the best candidates, then casually asked her to "go grab a coffee sometimes". they all said yes, and while out for a coffee, i escalated normally / not too aggressive. they always had the opportunity to opt out without being embarrassing for neither of us (i do this on normal dates also).
more than 50% of them was in. they got the job some of them initiated even after they got it, and one of my current plates is one of these girls.
the trick was to NEVER be blunt and say "i help you if you help me" keep up that "no strings attached and no pressure" atmosphere. if you make them feel like a ho, or pressured,
1. you will be a creep who must blackmail to get laid - they will not like you
2. they will feel cheap, and reject you AND the job.
but if you play it cool, you can land a few plates from it, and even good friends.
in my firm we are almost like a family now, mostly because of this friendly start.
i did it like this: had an interview with the woman, told her she was one of the best candidates, then casually asked her to "go grab a coffee sometimes". they all said yes, and while out for a coffee, i escalated normally / not too aggressive. they always had the opportunity to opt out without being embarrassing for neither of us (i do this on normal dates also).
more than 50% of them was in. they got the job some of them initiated even after they got it, and one of my current plates is one of these girls.
the trick was to NEVER be blunt and say "i help you if you help me" keep up that "no strings attached and no pressure" atmosphere. if you make them feel like a ho, or pressured,
1. you will be a creep who must blackmail to get laid - they will not like you
2. they will feel cheap, and reject you AND the job.
but if you play it cool, you can land a few plates from it, and even good friends.
in my firm we are almost like a family now, mostly because of this friendly start.