How to get rid of some old friends...

[DJoneday]

Ok so here's my problem.

I've come such a damn long way since I first came here, it's incredible. Once, I would be afraid to say hello to girls. I built computers and spent lunch time in the library playing games on the computer. These days, I can walk up to any girl I want and just entrance her with my oh sosuave ways . Anyways, back in the day (8th - 9th grade) I was in that nerd stage, so naturally, all my friends were nerds.

Well here I am, a Junior in high school, and the skills are up. The problem is that last year was really my big transition, and this year I'm just putting the icing on the cake....but I'm having problems with some of the old friends. For example, in one class there's this guy I used to be real buddy buddy with. And now during breaks and lunch etc, he tries to come up and talk to me. I'm not rude to him, but I just kind of try to keep him away...Unfortunately, guys like this are keeping me back from really chilling with the more popular guys (Who I am cool with, but don't really chill with due to these old friends who still insist on following me around). So what do you all suggest to get rid of these old guys, and come in with the new? I'm so different now it isn't really like we have that much in common or anything anymore...they just see me with the gorgeous girls all day and want a piece of the action, it's just keeping me from getting some of the action. Any advice would be great-

 

[CoreD11]

well ill be the first to address this so-called "controversial" argument, me and my friends were talking about this one time at lunch, do you lose your friends or no? I say yes they said no....

It all comes down to one simple question...What means more to you; your past friendships with these kids, or your possible future with other kids?

I personally would take the latter because in your statement you made it clear you were unhappy with those friends, so i would get rid of them

My 2 cents

 

[Julian]

Man fucc friends. They're good to have but you can always get new ones. And obviously these arent the type of people your going to be associating with after highschool so fucc em.

Ill tell you like this, no one gives a sh1t about you in highschool. After highschool real life begins and real life friends are made. In highschool no one knows who the hell they are, people change so much throughout its only natural to lose and gain many different friends.

If you dont have a bond with them, then fucc them they are only holding you down from the glory that is rightfully yours.

People use the term friend way too loosely. To me, a friend is someone who id trust my kids with. A friend is someone who is down to ride and die if it came to it. Everyone else is an acquaintance.

Acquaintances are good an plenty and obsolete, very expendable. Your nerd homies are expendable. Fucc em, they are into counter strike and your into macking sluts.

I probably sound like a bastard but thats how this world is. I do have friends, i have acquaintances. Theres a very distinct line. I can tell you one thing, if any of those nerd "friends" of yours ever scored a girlfriend you can bet they'd leave you at a drop of a hat to be with their newly acquired masters just because they are AFC nerds.

Highschool is fuccing gay instead of worrying about all the politics just do what you do. Forget the nerds they are worthless.

 

[DirkPitt]

You could just piss them off very badly.

haha, thats what i did few days ago. different situation though.

I was stuck in a friendly oneitis. I wasn't attracted to her too much but she was great social proof. In fact, she was so great social proof that I stopped DJ'ing. I was in a neutral Safe ground and I had to get out of it the only way i knew how. And i pissed her off soo soo badly that she's put me on ignore on msn for a half a week and she hasn't called. haha she usually called few times a day. Oh well, i'm out of my rump and on the prowl again.
problem is, her friend is starting to look attractive and its gonna be hard snatching her from under the pissed off girl. i'm rambling. must be late.

 

[DJoneday]

The problem wasn't whether or not I should say fvck em, it was HOW i should...Thanks for all the input though. I'm already past them, it's them that keep trying to bond with me, despite my ignoring them etc. More help would be grand.

 

[Blowfish]

Why do you want to ditch your old friends? Honestly I would never do that, people ditch me, but I would ditch my friends even if I've changed the way you have. If they have done something really bad to you then yes, I say fucc them, but if they haven't I would keep them as friends, just find other times to hang out with them, and if your popular friends laugh at you, then you be a man and stand up for what you believe in, say "I don't ditch my friends" or something like that.

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

Well, hey there DJOD

I've been through it lately, except for the fact the I didn't ditch nerds, but semi-popular people!

These guys were only leeching me. I got to know like, 75% of the girls of the school, and then they'd come by and get in my way whenever I was macking a hottie or just making friends.

And to make matters worse, other people in school that hated them started being agressive towards me, because I was their friend.

Start becoming quiet when they come around. Don't engage in small talk, don't try to be polite.
If they come around to talk to you, just stay quiet or leave to talk to some other popular kids.

You'll be polite because you aren't telling them to f*ck off, but at the same time you'll be rude because you keep quiet around them or leave when they arrive. They should get a clue.

If they don't, well, then you tell them to f*ck off.
It's not very hard... they just have to feel uncomfortable when they're around you... you can achieve that by closing yourself to them...

BBB

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

GOD WHAT A TRENDY SELLOUT *******!!

That's just low man. Just because those guys are not like you anymore or whatever doesn't mean you should totally push em aside and go with the crowd or whatever the hell you think you're doing.

If you're gonna ditch old loyal friends over some girls then you're not a Don Juan. You are far from it.

You think those new ppl you have met or hang out with now are better friends than those geeks you built computers with? probably not.

If I was you, I'd take those guys under my wing and teach them about your success and new found power with women.

I've got a lot of popular friends now, and what not, but I've never ditched my weed smokin, gangster ass, friends because they're the ones who actually know me and I feel more comfortable with. Yeah sometimes I might feel a little ashamed of them, but I'll never sellout and I'll never conform.

And if you have also ditched a skill that could make you wealthy in the future. In a couple of years those geeks who rot away their time on computers and what not are the ones who are gonna be rolling in nice cars, living in nice homes, and are gonna have your cash in their wallets.

You might have upped your status at school, but you've regressed as a person. Think about it bro.

 

[DJoneday]

These guys weren't around during my transitional phase, they just jumped in after they saw the puzzy i was getting.

I'm not selling them out, they sold me out when I started to change, they just want some of the new action....and I can still do the computer stuff - it just isn't my life anymore.

 

[Julian]

In a couple of years those geeks who rot away their time on computers and what not are the ones who are gonna be rolling in nice cars, living in nice homes, and are gonna have your cash in their wallets.

Thats so false. Just because your a fuccing computer nerd doesnt make you a Bill gates. Just because your a fuccing foot ball jock doesnt may you a Emmit Smith and just because your a wanna gangsta rapper doesnt make you a 50 cent.

Your logic is blown.