How to get laid

[naes420]

its all about the way you think...when you think about what your going to do too much...like OMG DOES SHE LIKE ME...or OMG WHAT WILL SHE THINK IF I DO THIS...you are just going to fail over and over and over again

when you read this consider i am about a mediam hight, and moderatly attractive, more then most

im frsh out of highschool...my highschool went like this

Freshman year: i was shy as hell...had no female friends and no social circle...still had crushes i never spoke to in my life...one girl i realy liked i became best friends with over summer over MSN massager...never hung out (she was absolutely gorgeous girl)..that year i also REALY cared about what i looked like everyday and always dressed up..i honestly wanted to kill myself everyday because life was so misserable
Terrible grades


sophmore year: became i huge stoner and got tons or firends and a terrible reputaion throughout my whole school, everyone only knew me as a stoner...i lost my best friend girl periodicly, when she tryed to come back i was still shy, and with all girls i always thought i has to plan everything out and make sure i didnt screw up..i half way got over my suicide thoughts...always thinking WHAT IF about everything..
Terrible grades


juniour year: did way less drugs....and that year.....i just thought **** IT ALL...i went all out, never thought twice about what i did, i just followed my gut with everything..i wore pjs to school, i said whatever i felt like without getting to out of control...i touched girls even when i wasnt sure theyed like it...and guess what happened this year?? i got laid probaly about 4 or 5 times, one of them actualy being my ex best friend girl LOL, i had finaly gotten a girlfriend...and all of a sudden things where just perfect..i loved my life...nothing could get better
Strait A's


senoir year: a repeat of junior year..also got my life together and got all of my credits together...



something everyone should know is something called the life triangle is what i like to call it (my version of maslows hierarchy of needs)


self actualization
===education==
=Need to feel loved===
=Need to feel safe and secure==
=======need to eat and sleep=======


the big thing is your failing school because you arent loved...love is a necesary part of your life...whether it is from firends or family...i significant other is what makes life life....you need it to get good grades even...love is so important and should be in everyone

my advice is just let go...dont be so tense, and dont be afrain do try new things...you dont need to be a quite person...you dont need to care what other people think unless you care about them...do everything for you, not someone else...its your life...take advantage of it......let go

 

[ligyron]

I agree

Get out there and have some fun and stop thinking so much. There's plenty of time to think when you're drifting off to sleep. The thing many people don't realize is, that just from reading this material and sleeping on it, and going about your day as you normally would without thinking about what you've learned, over the course of several days/weeks it will become a part of you unconsciously. I repeat, you DO NOT need to consciously think of this stuff when you're in situations where it applies, just go with your instincts and first intuition. Sure, you'll do plenty of things that "aren't from the book" but that's fine, you're learning. Think about it when you're going to sleep and what you could've done differently. Grow this way, and you'll grow healthy and natural, and everyday you'll notice how you are developing into an improved you, and you will be amazed and so will others around you

 

[naes420]

I agree

Get out there and have some fun and stop thinking so much. There's plenty of time to think when you're drifting off to sleep. The thing many people don't realize is, that just from reading this material and sleeping on it, and going about your day as you normally would without thinking about what you've learned, over the course of several days/weeks it will become a part of you unconsciously. I repeat, you DO NOT need to consciously think of this stuff when you're in situations where it applies, just go with your instincts and first intuition. Sure, you'll do plenty of things that "aren't from the book" but that's fine, you're learning. Think about it when you're going to sleep and what you could've done differently. Grow this way, and you'll grow healthy and natural, and everyday you'll notice how you are developing into an improved you, and you will be amazed and so will others around you

true, but negative....just dont even read any of the things on this site, although the basics do help....you dotn need routines or openers...you just need your instincts and not your ego holding you back from saying what you want to say

 

[Kappe]

true, but negative....just dont even read any of the things on this site, although the basics do help....you dotn need routines or openers...you just need your instincts and not your ego holding you back from saying what you want to say

Couldn't agree with you more. I've never realy used any of the routines or canned openers, but I guess they can be good as training wheels for some people. Though with time everyone should drop that and try to do more natural game.

 

[miniPIMPIN]

thanks for the inspiration. i been readin this post every day before skool. im in a similar situation. but its only gettin better.

 

[naes420]

thanks for the inspiration. i been readin this post every day before skool. im in a similar situation. but its only gettin better.

how so? thats really cool

one thing i want to say is none of this is bull****. the only thing better then a handful of canned openers and pick up lines is your instincts. the more advicey side here is if you THINK a girl will liek it, but not sure, just do it...i dont mean like if shes drunk and you think she wants to have sex becuase shes drunk, do it....i mean like if you think its going to get you more...how can i say this, like dominent...and yet really fun to be around at the same time, its makeing her want to shag you more

the first thing i ever did like this, i ll never forget it, i was a junior, a girl stole a dollar out of my hand jokingly right in teh middle of the hall...so i actualy grabbed her hand and wrestled her down to the floor to get it, body on body and turned kind of overboard ( a little to sexual), i rememer how much fun i had that day too...and she too...she became really in to me after that day, very clearly. that was at that time the closet i had ever gotten to a girl, i remember the best part about that was how there where hot girls who walked by and saw it...
because yeah, if you get ONE, i mean ONE close female friend, you are attracting about 5 more girls to you, at least..if she happens to be attractive. if you befriend those 5 girls, or fvck them, thats like 20 more...one piece of advice that is very true on this forum is that girls want to fvck the people who every one else wants to fvck...its just true, simply....

just try your best to be seen around as many girls as possible,
you know how when your crush gets a new boyfriend, or you see her flirt with somone..not being you...and you get REALLY jeoulous..and you just get driven 5x harder to finaly aprouch her, well girls get that way too...ANOTHER THING OF ADVICE ISSSS...try and be the center of attention in your social circles, because girls will be paying all the attention to you and no one else...if all the girls are talking to you tehy are fighting for YOUR attention...and that makes them jeolous and you are practicly mind seducing them lol...if a girl not even in that circle comes up to you and gets or trys to get your attention, YOU ARE WINNING LIFE AT THAT MOMENT....
basicly. get seen around girls






P.S. dont know why i posted all that but hope it helps someone

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Thats awesome man, thats an example exactly how people can work to change themselves. Whats with the title "how to get laid" though?

 

[naes420]

Thats awesome man, thats an example exactly how people can work to change themselves. Whats with the title "how to get laid" though?

people will read it.

 

[miniPIMPIN]

how so? thats really cool

well i been in my district since 8th.

8th grade: 2 girlfriends, no *****, they approached me. became a huge stoner. got that reputation

9th grade: stopped smokin.got laid by a hb 4 that i knew for about 5 hours. 2 girlfriends. friend hooked me up with one. approached the other (idk how i got the courage but i just did it) she broke up with me after a week cuz i was a nice guy. thats when i found this site. read the hs bible and alot of other things. changed my attitude but still no girls... still hanging with the stoner group

10th grade (now): came back to school with a whole new look that everyone loves and an even better attitude. still have the reputation of a stoner. i try not to hang with the stoners anymore. still aint smokin. im definetly more social. but i feel that my reputation as that sexy loser/ stoner who doesnt get girls is holding me back and that ill never get girls in my school.

but lately like i said, i have been readin your story and it kind of lets me know that my reputation can be renewed and it drives me to go out there and get girls. in the past week i just said f*ck it all!! and i went all out. i got 4 numbers at last weeks football game and 3 at homecoming.. not to mention i danced with like 10 girls. this weekend if i get off gruondation im taking out the hottest girl that i number closed ^^.