I really don't like asking for help.
But i need help. I need all the top experts on this. Thanks.
Ok i have to admit. I kind of have oneitis.
Here's the deal. I have been out of this country for 6 months. This 2 yr LTR mentioned a break up half a year ago but said she still loved me blah blah. And since i was basically attracting her long distance she was still needy for me until i came back.
Found out she kinda likes some guy over long distance too. And has new "friends" after her and she is accepting attention( as usual)
Now im back for about a month (holiday) and we are going out and all that. Like i mentioned in an earlier "can't do normal game to LTR" post, i have basically not been at my best.
I still have been trying to get her to ask me to be her BF again without much success. (It's a challenge) She still wants me to treat her like a GF ( hugs, kisses)
(I have been saying stuff like " i cant be your bf anymore, i look at u differently since i found out u like someone who is not me". Been criticizing her a lot and implying she easily likes others.)
But still 2 days ago we messed around in bed, she gave me a handjob and a ******* and i fingered her and made her *** hard.
But still she has said that she would not want to be my GF and just did it because she knows ilove her and thought i wanted it (yea rite)
My very good theory is (i have theories for everything) that she she does not want me to be her official boyfriend because that would mean she has to tell all her "friends" and she would lose their attention. And of course im not a safe bet because im just here for a holiday.
However it toally pisses me off that she is trying to play games with me and is trying to keep everyone elses attention.
How do i make her so hungry for me that she begs me to be her boyfriend? ( I have been using criticism and being cold too much so no cold games are going to work.)
my conversational rapport with her is no longer as good with her as i have criticized her a lot so juggler method or any rapport advice will be good too.
Even SS patterning might work here, im open to all advice (besides the usual go out and sarge)
-Intime
p.s if possible please only answer the question "how to get get her to beg me to be her bf?" please refrain from giving opinions on how to progress in the relationship or mind reading her or me ( I regretfully am unable to convey much of our relationship dynamic or her psychology which i am familiar with)
But i need help. I need all the top experts on this. Thanks.
Ok i have to admit. I kind of have oneitis.
Here's the deal. I have been out of this country for 6 months. This 2 yr LTR mentioned a break up half a year ago but said she still loved me blah blah. And since i was basically attracting her long distance she was still needy for me until i came back.
Found out she kinda likes some guy over long distance too. And has new "friends" after her and she is accepting attention( as usual)
Now im back for about a month (holiday) and we are going out and all that. Like i mentioned in an earlier "can't do normal game to LTR" post, i have basically not been at my best.
I still have been trying to get her to ask me to be her BF again without much success. (It's a challenge) She still wants me to treat her like a GF ( hugs, kisses)
(I have been saying stuff like " i cant be your bf anymore, i look at u differently since i found out u like someone who is not me". Been criticizing her a lot and implying she easily likes others.)
But still 2 days ago we messed around in bed, she gave me a handjob and a ******* and i fingered her and made her *** hard.
But still she has said that she would not want to be my GF and just did it because she knows ilove her and thought i wanted it (yea rite)
My very good theory is (i have theories for everything) that she she does not want me to be her official boyfriend because that would mean she has to tell all her "friends" and she would lose their attention. And of course im not a safe bet because im just here for a holiday.
However it toally pisses me off that she is trying to play games with me and is trying to keep everyone elses attention.
How do i make her so hungry for me that she begs me to be her boyfriend? ( I have been using criticism and being cold too much so no cold games are going to work.)
my conversational rapport with her is no longer as good with her as i have criticized her a lot so juggler method or any rapport advice will be good too.
Even SS patterning might work here, im open to all advice (besides the usual go out and sarge)
-Intime
p.s if possible please only answer the question "how to get get her to beg me to be her bf?" please refrain from giving opinions on how to progress in the relationship or mind reading her or me ( I regretfully am unable to convey much of our relationship dynamic or her psychology which i am familiar with)
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