How to get girls to STFU about their exes...

jdawgmcb

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alright, im gaming a few girls right now...except the only problem is that they wont STFU about their god damn exes...and it's hindering my game as it brings up those emotional moments.

Bla bla bla, still have feelings for them, bla bla bla.

What's the best manuver to get rid of this remorse?
 

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simply respond...oh, i see. well i have to get going.

dont ****ing listen to that ****. it is disrespectful.

these girls arent that into you dude. they are talking about the ex cause they are thinking about him. as soon as the ex comes around again you are yesterdays news.
 

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drmeathead said:
simply respond...oh, i see. well i have to get going.

dont ****ing listen to that ****. it is disrespectful.

these girls arent that into you dude. they are talking about the ex cause they are thinking about him. as soon as the ex comes around again you are yesterdays news.
So should i be simply blunt and say "Get over it, there are worse problems." or just completely ditch them?
 

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I'd do neither. Letting them see that it bothers you is bad. You have to not care, or make them think you don't. Tell them that the ex seems like a really nice guy, and that they should get back together. Then she'll be the one to insult him - you don't have to.

If a girl is on my d!ck right now, that is all that matters. She can love whoever the hell she wants, go back to an ex tomorrow, whatever. As long as I am getting sex right now, I could not care less.
 

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Michele said:

You took the time to actually read his post, the very least you could do is stfu yourself or show alittle respect and add something to the thread.


Anyhow i would personally ignore it unless she was talking about her ex all the time in which case i'd tell her to stfu or i'd just ditch her.


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Ask her what she's learned and changed from the old relationship because you'd rather not be the next guy she's complaining about in the future.
 

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Say, "suck my big brown (white/black/purple) dyck, depending what color it is... and shut the **** up"
 

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There is reason they mention their x's. Either its jeolusy fuel to lower your self esteem. Or beatch about them and use you as an emotional tampoon.

Which both you shouldn't let give a **** about or you'll up as a tool.

Simply don't respond/react to it and they'll eventauly give up talking about them.
 

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Either ignore it or tell her about the girls you are gonna bang/take out this weekend. If you choose the latter, it's like dangling a mouse in front of a cat, just use moderation and act aloof with a few properly placed grins here and there. You don't wanna be bothered by it, but pulling something like that on her will show her ur not an emotional tampon. It can show ambition towards the future for you and that you yourself aren't the type to dwell on the past.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I'd do neither. Letting them see that it bothers you is bad. Tell them that the ex seems like a really nice guy, and that they should get back together. Then she'll be the one to insult him - you don't have to.
 

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punch the b!tch in the mouth
 

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haha^^ or if you want her jaw 2 drop w/o touching her, tell her: "I can fvck you better than he can, if you're not satisfied I'll refund your dignity."
 

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jdawgmcb said:
alright, im gaming a few girls right now...except the only problem is that they wont STFU about their god damn exes...and it's hindering my game as it brings up those emotional moments.

Bla bla bla, still have feelings for them, bla bla bla.

What's the best manuver to get rid of this remorse?
I don't put up with it at all, I just get it out there. I let them know I don't like hearing them whinge and that I'm not the type of guy that she should be telling these things to.

It may seem like I'm coming out a little harsh, but I haven't had a single negative response as of yet. It depends on how you say it, and whether what you've said is congruent with the way you act.
 

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Say somethin sarcastic like "hey just to remind you I'm interested in you and not your ex's k thanks". She'll get the hint.
 

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demonic said:
You took the time to actually read his post, the very least you could do is stfu yourself or show alittle respect and add something to the thread.

Demonic
you're an idiot. i told him to yawn. dipsh1t. now apologize.

who types out their expressions anyways...?

*sigh*, that's so gay, *shrugs*. *yawns*, i'm going to go to bed, i'm tired... *logs off sosuave* and *goes to bed*.
 

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Lacey: He was just so forgiving. You know, I mean, you could treat him badly and he'd say I'm sorry.
Brent: Heartless bastard.
Lacey: You think there's something wrong with me.
Brent: No. Other than that you'll never be happy, or satisfied. Probably die alone, house full of cats.
Corner Gas
 

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Michele said:
you're an idiot. i told him to yawn. dipsh1t. now apologize.

who types out their expressions anyways...?

*sigh*, that's so gay, *shrugs*. *yawns*, i'm going to go to bed, i'm tired... *logs off sosuave* and *goes to bed*.
Try to make things you write down alittle clearer in future.

LIKE

"Just "yawn" or some **** and she'll get the hint"

See that clears up confusion does'nt it?.

thankyou

Demonic
 
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