I am going to tell you something you don't want to hear OP but will thank me tremendously for in the future. Now granted you are in Spain so the culture is likely different there but here is what I would recommend for your specific situation.
Forget investing time into "game" and pickup stuff, get your life sorted out first.
You are 20 years old and live with your parents, while this might be normal in Spain, it is a turnoff to most women when a guy is not independent. Even at your age, a lot of guys are away at college living with others their age. You still live with your parents right now, get that resolved ASAP. Maybe get a roommate situation in town or see what you can do there but don't focus on "game" and "pickup" until you have your life sorted out.
I see guys living with their moms gaming women and putting in hours into pickup when they should be putting in the work to be independent, it is cringey and makes you want to slap them. Now I get in Spain it might be common but still, become independent of your parents fast!
You can use this time to get in good shape, build a good routine, find shortcuts for learning, and maybe find quality friendships on here or other online communities (vet carefully).
Work on making quality male friendships in your classes and activities.
Find friends who are guys and chill AF, a lot of guys your age who are chill will have access to cool women as well. DO NOT DO GAME in those circles or any of that cheesy pickup ****. Heck, I'd even let a close enough friend you know in on the fact that you are not very experienced with women, high SMV and cool guys love helping a guy who is inexperienced. Whatever you do, do not do any of that Simple Pickup palm reading cheesy crap, it is social suicide. Ignore the PUA videos for good, ignore them, like let them burn to hell ignore them.
You will meet some women naturally, let it happen and focus on them, not on fantasies of being a Dan Bilzerian yet. You'll be shocked to find how many friendships you make at this age turn into fruition in the future.
Have a plan to not just leave your parents and town but also Spain.
Women have good stereotypes of Spaniard men abroad and to be frankly honest with you, you are wasting your time on the women in Spain. Many of them will treat you beneath a visitor from the Nordic countries when it comes to quick easy lays and tend to pass you up. Meanwhile, you can likely go to other countries and do really well as a Spaniard that looks good because once again, Spanish men are top tier when it comes to being desired by women.
Clean your mindset, please don't touch any bad communities out there.
Consume good material, generate a strong mindset, get in shape, get quality friends, and avoid toxic communities out there that just whine about looks and women being shallow all day. Your sanity WILL think you for it years down the road.
The funny thing about sex and women is when you least want them, you get them.
Have a plan for how you intend to be that playboy long-term.
Crawl then walk then run.
Looking good is one way but know where you will live and the lifestyle needed to be that guy, the money really adds up.
Forget investing time into "game" and pickup stuff, get your life sorted out first.
You are 20 years old and live with your parents, while this might be normal in Spain, it is a turnoff to most women when a guy is not independent. Even at your age, a lot of guys are away at college living with others their age. You still live with your parents right now, get that resolved ASAP. Maybe get a roommate situation in town or see what you can do there but don't focus on "game" and "pickup" until you have your life sorted out.
I see guys living with their moms gaming women and putting in hours into pickup when they should be putting in the work to be independent, it is cringey and makes you want to slap them. Now I get in Spain it might be common but still, become independent of your parents fast!
You can use this time to get in good shape, build a good routine, find shortcuts for learning, and maybe find quality friendships on here or other online communities (vet carefully).
Work on making quality male friendships in your classes and activities.
Find friends who are guys and chill AF, a lot of guys your age who are chill will have access to cool women as well. DO NOT DO GAME in those circles or any of that cheesy pickup ****. Heck, I'd even let a close enough friend you know in on the fact that you are not very experienced with women, high SMV and cool guys love helping a guy who is inexperienced. Whatever you do, do not do any of that Simple Pickup palm reading cheesy crap, it is social suicide. Ignore the PUA videos for good, ignore them, like let them burn to hell ignore them.
You will meet some women naturally, let it happen and focus on them, not on fantasies of being a Dan Bilzerian yet. You'll be shocked to find how many friendships you make at this age turn into fruition in the future.
Have a plan to not just leave your parents and town but also Spain.
Women have good stereotypes of Spaniard men abroad and to be frankly honest with you, you are wasting your time on the women in Spain. Many of them will treat you beneath a visitor from the Nordic countries when it comes to quick easy lays and tend to pass you up. Meanwhile, you can likely go to other countries and do really well as a Spaniard that looks good because once again, Spanish men are top tier when it comes to being desired by women.
Clean your mindset, please don't touch any bad communities out there.
Consume good material, generate a strong mindset, get in shape, get quality friends, and avoid toxic communities out there that just whine about looks and women being shallow all day. Your sanity WILL think you for it years down the road.
The funny thing about sex and women is when you least want them, you get them.
Have a plan for how you intend to be that playboy long-term.
Crawl then walk then run.
Looking good is one way but know where you will live and the lifestyle needed to be that guy, the money really adds up.
