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Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 7, 2003
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Ladies and gents,
I come to you not as a teenager who is obsessed over his first gf, i come to you as a young adult who is 28 and have just lost the love of his life.
After years of dating and being in long term relationships, i can tell you that the woman i've lost is no doubt the person i'd like to spend the rest of my life with. I know many of you nay sayers will flame me for such statement, but whatever.
So here's the situation. We've been together for 1.5 year, i proposed to her a year ago on new year's eve and she said yes. The reason we broke up has nothing to do with our relationship but outside forces; thus, it is hard on both of us.
Often, she texts me or call me for chit chat and hints that she's miserable. She sometimes even calls me "hunie" and "babie" amidst the conversation. She wants to hang out and watch a movie sometime next week.
It is hard for me to say no to hanging out but i feel like she's still on the fence about the break up and that i need to give her time to think it through and not be there to ease her healing process. Now keep in mind that this isn't a girl i want to screw and forget about, this is a woman i have respect for and willing to spend the rest of my life with.
I feel like if i leave her alone completely she will eventually move on and there won't be another try; whereas if i continue to hang out with her, i can show her that what we had is special and whatever reason she had for breaking up is in-legit.
Please share your advice as to how to get back the girl of my dreams.
I come to you not as a teenager who is obsessed over his first gf, i come to you as a young adult who is 28 and have just lost the love of his life.
After years of dating and being in long term relationships, i can tell you that the woman i've lost is no doubt the person i'd like to spend the rest of my life with. I know many of you nay sayers will flame me for such statement, but whatever.
So here's the situation. We've been together for 1.5 year, i proposed to her a year ago on new year's eve and she said yes. The reason we broke up has nothing to do with our relationship but outside forces; thus, it is hard on both of us.
Often, she texts me or call me for chit chat and hints that she's miserable. She sometimes even calls me "hunie" and "babie" amidst the conversation. She wants to hang out and watch a movie sometime next week.
It is hard for me to say no to hanging out but i feel like she's still on the fence about the break up and that i need to give her time to think it through and not be there to ease her healing process. Now keep in mind that this isn't a girl i want to screw and forget about, this is a woman i have respect for and willing to spend the rest of my life with.
I feel like if i leave her alone completely she will eventually move on and there won't be another try; whereas if i continue to hang out with her, i can show her that what we had is special and whatever reason she had for breaking up is in-legit.
Please share your advice as to how to get back the girl of my dreams.