how to get a girl

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how would you go about getting a girl that you previously pursued when you had bad game and she rejected you? and now that you have game you want to go out and pursue her?
i think this could apply to alot of guys who want 2nd chances on girls



so far mytheory was to not talk to her for a a few years and then pursue her like any other girl
does anyone have any ideas
 

fckmyashol

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Make loud birdcalls, like the n1gerz in africa. hopefully they approach you and then you must mate.

-fckmyashol
 

jeffthechef

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i had somethign similar

i had this oneitis for a girl for a full school year...made about 3 afc moves on her
the thing is, i know she was physically attracted..but i came off as desperate/afc

i did a whole year of basically no contact..i still catch her checking me out...but she probably still views me as an afc cause we aren't in close social circles

i doubt i'm going to try another move right now..cause i have so many other options that i have as higher priorities

if she does approach me, then we'll see where it goes..chances are i wont try her unless i have absolutely no options..which might happen, but i doubt it

i wouldn't discourage you..but if she has an afc image of you ingrained in her mind, then it'll be hard convincing her that you've changed without coming off as an afc desperate for another chance...the only possible way to change her mind is to get other girls..and word will spread, eventually reaching her

depending on what year you're in, in high school...if you're a fresh/soph/junior this year...i would recommend...working on some other girls..and then going for her..but i don't advocate going with girls for merely rep. reasons...so do consider morals..haha

find some other girls you may have a meaningful connection with...or don't mind a non-serious relationsihp..then go for her again
 

Evzone

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Read the DJ Bible.

Short story: in all likelihood, this girl in particular is a lost cause, and you need to skip that for better opportunities elsewhere. Just look around; I imagine that there are plenty of hot girls in your high school.

There is nothing special about that particular girl. You only think she is special because 1) she is attractive, and 2) you thought you had a chance with her. Find other attractive girls, and when you step your game up, you will have a chance with them as well.
 
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