How to get a girl to LOOSE interest

[SaucyBoy]

I've been fighting off a rather sad looking excuse for a woman for some time now.

It bothers me a bit that she sees me as a possible. Lots of needyness and desperation are blatantly communicated. This is in the workplace so it's sensitive.

Do I do a reverse DJ? Can I get her to friendzone me, as I cannot really avoid her (unless I change jobs).

I've worked on getting women to like me. Now, how do I get one of them to stop?

What turns women off is being a wimp. I'm known at work for not being one, but not a jerk either. How can I turn her off without becoming a wimp where it would put me in a bad light?

I'm thinking of continuing to work out, dress nicer and be a little more outspoken anyway. Maybe that'll put me totally out of reach and then I'll be free.

Thoughts?

 

[Poonani Maker]

Start validating yourself to her and bragging about your job, asking her what she thinks about this, what to do basically etc. and she'll drop in no time.

 

[Stuntmann]

Is it possible you meet her after work? If yea, then you can be yourself at work and play afterward.


Pulling her in will push her away. No sex. Game her as an AFC would. Need her a lot, ask her for permission to do things. Do go out with her to places you'd want to go, but tell her a week in advance where you taking her and what you'd do there, even ask her permission to take her there. Pay for drinks, but make her pay for the rest or 50/50. Otherwise this might end up costing.

In conversations, talk about mundane stuff.

When looking at her (other than work), do submissive stares. At her and then down. Be a submissive wimp!


I know you don't want to be a wimp, but if you're not at work you could do that.




P.S. Go as far as telling her when you two will be coming back home. And hm, leave 10 messages a day.

 

[SaucyBoy]

I think she would like a wimp. She would like anything -ANYTHING that moves. As she says "I just wish I had a fella beside me"

She knows what I do and it isn't that glamorous. I'm a programmer. I also am a non-believer and she is very religious. I have considered telling her I'm an Atheist, but she would try like hell to convert me.

I'm just been giving the cold shoulder. I must say that I might be winning in the long run since the encounters are less frequent. She did try to hug me last time I saw her. So less frequent but more intense. Now I kind of know what the babes go through a bit. Imagine that. I'm wondering if I did something to attract her?

 

[Kev07]

Call her fat, and you can't really "reverse DJ" a girl that likes you and, to me, sounds pretty desperate. Just be straightup, if she starts coming on too hard, just tell her you're not interested.

 

[kdnash82]

Girls usually can handle the truth. I would just tell her that I don't see her in that light and that you would appreciate it if she stopped making advances at you in the work place. Sexual harrassment can go both ways

 

[Luke Skywalker]

The solution is simple, simply be like me and she'll lose interest in no time. Start talking about your mom and how you need permission from her to date her.

 

[KontrollerX]

I'm just been giving the cold shoulder. I must say that I might be winning in the long run since the encounters are less frequent. She did try to hug me last time I saw her. So less frequent but more intense. Now I kind of know what the babes go through a bit. Imagine that. I'm wondering if I did something to attract her?

Seems like you can just keep on doing what you're doing and eventually she'll get the message.

If that doesn't work though just throw out the atheist wild card and when she tries to convert you explain to her all the flaws in her religion and always bring this stuff up whenever she comes around to bother you. Doing this she should subtley get the message that all you two would do as a couple is argue over this and she'd be better off trying to find someone else.

 

[J-Bone]

Is it possible you meet her after work? If yea, then you can be yourself at work and play afterward.


Pulling her in will push her away. No sex. Game her as an AFC would. Need her a lot, ask her for permission to do things. Do go out with her to places you'd want to go, but tell her a week in advance where you taking her and what you'd do there, even ask her permission to take her there. Pay for drinks, but make her pay for the rest or 50/50. Otherwise this might end up costing.

In conversations, talk about mundane stuff.

When looking at her (other than work), do submissive stares. At her and then down. Be a submissive wimp!


I know you don't want to be a wimp, but if you're not at work you could do that.




P.S. Go as far as telling her when you two will be coming back home. And hm, leave 10 messages a day.

go ahead and leave 30 make her scared to talk to you because she thinks your such a desperate mamas boy! and when shes gone you can be mr. cool don juan as it gets again

 

[J-Bone]

Call her fat, and you can't really "reverse DJ" a girl that likes you and, to me, sounds pretty desperate. Just be straightup, if she starts coming on too hard, just tell her you're not interested.

or you can do that ive done both before and got the desired result. but with the calling make sure that you call way too much. cmon the most desperate girl has a too much zone.

 

[jamescr73]

why would you actually want to practice being a reverse DJ? That is total bad form and even acting like an AFC is such a worthless move. Best bet is to just be a man and tell her "Im sorry, but you just arent what im looking for". Plain, simple, done. Keep the door open for booty calls. NEXT

 

[Scars]

Man up and just tell the girl you're not interested if she can't take a hint.

If you wanna be childish then:

Over neg her.
Make it apparently clear you just want her for her "body".
Make crude comments all the time.
Become annoying.
Act emo and tell her your life story.
Drop the word "friend" a lot.

 

[jesusrules]

Dude I have actually had the same problem, what I did was just stay away from the girl. Like before I did that this girl at my work always wanted me to hug her and s*it and I never wanted to. So what I did was avoided her and s*it and it ended up working. I was so f*cking happy to. Then I seen her go bother some other dude. lol

So thats what you have to do man. I hope this works.

 

[speakeasy]

Just act boring as hell, talk about why you think star trek is bettter than star wars and how much you love stamp collecting, and how you wish you could still join the boy scouts. If that fails, tell her you like tormenting small animals. If you still haven't shaken her at that point then you've got a psycho on your hands.

 

[SaucyBoy]

Scars, you are right man. Other people have seen her try to hug me, so I do have a defense against any sexual harasment bull**** later on. I'll just tell her straight up.

Thanks

 

[reset]

It's tough being desired isn't it.

I had something like this happen to me recently, and it really was an eye opener because in this girl's behavior I saw the AFC ways I had a long time ago... and realized why they must have been such a turn-off.

Think of it as a good lesson in how not to act around women.