Let’s be real. Without being rejected is a tough guarantee to make. A guarantee is mathematical. You know, 2 + 2 = 4. That’s a guarantee.
Women are biological. No reaction is guaranteed.
Sure, you can predict how they’ll react, but the success rate is pretty much guaranteed to be less than 100%.
But what you can do is to swing the odds in your favour. Think of it as managing a theater show: not only do you have to get her to buy the ticket to come and watch, you also have to arrange everything – the actors, the props, the décor, the food – to impress her so that she wants to come back, over and over again.
Remember, it isn’t just about getting her number; its also about her giving you the right number (and not the number of her octogenarian grandmother with Tourette’s) and actually answering when you do call (not file your number under the name ‘Do Not Answer’).
1. Avoid corny pick-up lines. At all costs. Using a pick-up line is like shooting yourself in the leg.
2. Be confident. Walk, talk, breathe confidently. Women dig confidence. Acting nervous won’t endear you to her; women like men to take charge and you should act like you’re a man in charge and more. So even if your knees are knocking from anxiety, man up, and approach her with your back straight.
3. Initiate the conversation by talking about common points of interest. She’s drinking a daiquiri? Tell her about the awesome daiquiris at a bar you know. She has a tan? Tell her about the great diving trip you went on recently. Don’t lie though; you’ll look like a tool if she calls you out.
Once the conversation is going well, stage an exit but before you go, casually tell her you had a great time with her and ask if she’d like to meet up again, preferably involving one of the earlier talking points.
If she interested, she’ll respond. Get her to type her number into your phone; give her an immediate missed call so she knows your number and will know it’s you when you call, not an annoying telemarketer.
To your dating success,
Andrew Wang (Allurre)
CEO/Artist/Producer/Designer
Creator of Sync Dating
Check out http://www.absolutedatingtips.com (personal blog) for more powerful & practical dating tips at your fingertips.
Women are biological. No reaction is guaranteed.
Sure, you can predict how they’ll react, but the success rate is pretty much guaranteed to be less than 100%.
But what you can do is to swing the odds in your favour. Think of it as managing a theater show: not only do you have to get her to buy the ticket to come and watch, you also have to arrange everything – the actors, the props, the décor, the food – to impress her so that she wants to come back, over and over again.
Remember, it isn’t just about getting her number; its also about her giving you the right number (and not the number of her octogenarian grandmother with Tourette’s) and actually answering when you do call (not file your number under the name ‘Do Not Answer’).
1. Avoid corny pick-up lines. At all costs. Using a pick-up line is like shooting yourself in the leg.
2. Be confident. Walk, talk, breathe confidently. Women dig confidence. Acting nervous won’t endear you to her; women like men to take charge and you should act like you’re a man in charge and more. So even if your knees are knocking from anxiety, man up, and approach her with your back straight.
3. Initiate the conversation by talking about common points of interest. She’s drinking a daiquiri? Tell her about the awesome daiquiris at a bar you know. She has a tan? Tell her about the great diving trip you went on recently. Don’t lie though; you’ll look like a tool if she calls you out.
Once the conversation is going well, stage an exit but before you go, casually tell her you had a great time with her and ask if she’d like to meet up again, preferably involving one of the earlier talking points.
If she interested, she’ll respond. Get her to type her number into your phone; give her an immediate missed call so she knows your number and will know it’s you when you call, not an annoying telemarketer.
To your dating success,
Andrew Wang (Allurre)
CEO/Artist/Producer/Designer
Creator of Sync Dating
Check out http://www.absolutedatingtips.com (personal blog) for more powerful & practical dating tips at your fingertips.
