how to get a better life

[gambit21680]

my life has not been the easiest thing right now bc there are to many things that bother me. I don't hangout with anyone i play to many video games i am lazy and unorganized. I do try and work out and i work for a vitamin company and make a decent amount of money but i have to many bills to pay and it pisses me off that i can't spend any of it.

 

[dietzcoi]

Get rid of your so-called fiancee.

Dietzcoi

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

Well, it seems to me you know what your problem is. Work it out and find a solution. Occupy your time. If you find that your bills are taking all your money from your full time, consider getting a part-time job instead of being lazy and unproductive and playing video games.

Responsibilty. You will have to learn to make it work at some point in life. You want to have a family some day, right.

 

[gambit21680]

yes but i also want to experince my life like going on vacation bc i like to travel go to baseball games not just in new york its were i live and also i live with my parents and my dad is very lazy and i see it all the time

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

So, you are going to use your dad's laziness as an excuse for yours?? That is pathetic. There are plenty of people with drug addict parents and you don't see them doped up.

You have to work you way up to travel. Travel and vacation is something earn. It is a bonus, after the hard work. You aren't special. Everyone, except for the rich do this.

You sound like a spoiled litle kid. Please tell me you are under 21. Why are you still with your parents? Instead of worryimg about wasting money on travel, go out and spend that money getting you own digs. That is something that can be appreciated far longer than a trip.

It seems you don't want help, you just want to complain and make excuses.

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
...Please tell me you are under 21. Why are you still with your parents?

Don't you go there

Exuses are what stop us from doing what we want. The only way to feel better about your life is to be genuanly interasted and exited about it...... and the only way to get exited about it is to QUIT MAKING GOD DAMN EXUSES, and start doing things.

And when it gets hard and you wana say fvck it, say to your self "IT'S NOTTIN I CAN'T HANDLE (i wish i could give credit to the guy who posted it first but i can't remember his nick)

 

[diablo]

Moved to AE...


Your life is what you make it. If you want to be a lazy video gaming nerd, that's what you'll be. If you want to be successful, to have money and go on vacation... guess what - you'll earn it. There is no "magic bullet", it takes hard work (gasp!).