TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Met her true a dating app.
We went for dinner and the second date we cooked dinner at my place and we hooked up.
So we went on for about a month, another dinner night and casual good hook ups. She is very cudly, texts all day, comes over when I want and we have loads of long cex sessions. All over me, all good.
I got a small company, my own house, car so I am a stable guy, just to let you guys know that I got my sh*t straight so you can better judge this case.
Some small important information, she asked me a couple of times to do something fun on saturdays which I declined because Im working, she didnt like that. She is a psychologist, so she is very good in communication and weeding out deep feelings which I am good in avoiding. Yet I still told her I went to prison for a week 10 years ago and that I am a fighter and are able to kill someone in combat if someone hurts someone I love. This information shocked her but she got it out of me when we were talking one day. But still if a girl loves you, she doesnt care, when things go bad these things become an issue imo. Also my gut feeling says that she told her parents about me and im not sure if that has an positive affect.
Then one evening she starts complaining that she doesnt see me on fridays and saturdays (I always go out those days and dont give it to new plates until she proves herself) and also she cooked for me that evening, did her best and wanted me to sleep over but I couldnt. I had to work early in the morning. She acted distant and like a child and I left. Next day she texts me long story about how she didnt like how things went and I ignored that. She also texted are things going to be good ? And I said ''ye think so, just come over tonight''. A bit indifferent because she acted childish at her home and told me to leave because I couldnt sleep over.
A day later she calls and I tell her ''im tired cant talk'' next day I invite her over. We talk, she tells me that she felt really really bad those 2 days while i little bit ignored her.
We have cex she goes and then the day where some things change comes up. She went for dinner to her parents and I called her and she didnt pick up she said Im tired cant talk. So she copies me.
I go silent for 2 days and she calls, we talk a bit but she seems very unenthustiac and I tell her to come over and she says ''im busy''. Then I tell her ok no problem and go NC for 6 full days. I text her after 6 days ''have a good christmas'' She leaves me on read for a couple of hours then replies, thanks ! you too.
Then she texts me in the middle of the night ''come over if you want'' I was downtown 20 minutes away so I went and we had cex. All good, all cudly all lovey, all over me. Great.
We text a bit back and forth and 2 days later on christmas eve she says im not going out anymore downtown. So i text her come over to my place which she replies ''sorry im still going out my nephew and neece want me to go''. 1 hour later she texts me come to my place i wanna go home. Which I kinda doubt but agree. I felt in her answer that she didn't like it that I agreed. I just know, I dealt with enough women and gathered so much info that it was a bit weak that she declined me earlier and I agree middle of the night to come and fvck her. but yea i was horney and went to get laid. I would suggest someone else to not pick up or tell her if its not something necessary lets talk tommorow morning. but I went to her place.
We had a great night together, all good and some talking about her feelings, I didnt talk to much...
Then in the morning she tells me come visit my work, I tell them I took my boyfriend with me blablabla.. all good signs which I laugh off.
She also mentions children, how i like to raise them when i want to have kids and when she does blablabla
Now the main issue!!!
We been dating now for 2 months since our first date.
After saterday she initiates 5 times and I texted her once so I keep it at least 80% - 20%. I tell her ''lets have dinner at a nice restaurant when are you free to get together''
She replies; ''Hey good that your out tonight, where you at? ''uhm i am busy this weekend and mather of fact im busy whole month of january!''
Which brings up all alarm bells. I replie ''uhm ok'' she replies ''yea im just busy all upcoming weekends, maybe we can meet on a weekday ?''
I tell her. ''no thanks, I don't like to spend time with somone who's ''to busy''.
She replies: Well a date night is fun again! But I am full the upcoming weekends, and when I told you a couple of weeks ago that I was busy you really took distance from me and then we don't see eachother at all haha''
I replie::
Im getting to know you better and I dont like it when someone is ''too busy''.
She replies well I understand that you dont like that and people that like eachother will make time to see eachother! but you also are very busy and you dont want to plan upfront.
She says lets call
I agree in 15 minutes.
Phone call went like this.
We talk 5 mins about random fun stuff, i dont wanna sound butthurt, just my normal self. She mentions in the beginning ''you can come over for a drink if you want'' But I dont want to fail the availability test AGAIN like last weekend so I tell her no im going to the gym with a friend.
Then she starts about the texting.
She says a lot of stuff. You are also busy in the weekends, I told you a weekday is maybe possible for a date night and then she says something. I say Im still getting to know you and thats why I like it to have fun together with some dinner again and im getting to know you, how you think about things how you react, what kind of person you are.
VERY INTERESTING.
*I really like it when we are together doing our thing but that's also possible with someone else. (sounds like a threat)
I say well ok, ye same for me. she says ye we are both very social and likeable so it wouldnt be a problem to find the same thing with another one person.
I say yes I agree, its true....
Then she says so do you see someone else?
I say, no not really. She says what does that mean? I say well ofc other women are interested in me. she says ye also other guys are interested in me.
I say ok so whats the conclusion? she says so you been f*cking other women while dating me? I say well were just dating, we dont have a relationship or were not exclusive. she says well I didnt see a single man while dating you the whole time and you?
I say well in the beginningI was seeing another girl but that stopped when I started seeing you more often. so she replies so you f8vked methen the other day you f8cked another??
I say no. I didnt see another woman for weeks. I quit seeing her after our date.
She says ok how would you like it if i f8vked another man last week? I say obv not nice and bad. she says thats all??? I say yes, bad but we dont have a relationship so you can do what you want. If we are exclusive i would never think about another woman but ye like I said Im getting to know you better thats important for me. She says okk... well For now im done talking, lets chat again on whatsapp goodnight.
Since then radio silence.
Obv I like this girl, shes not my dreamwoman but we are going forward but obv this is not good, and maybe somethings didnt go like they should.
I want to date her more to see if she is right for me or not or keep it as it is. What do you guys think of the whole situaton and more important.
NC and wait for her to replie and talk this out, NC until she talks.
Reach out myself tommorow or in a couple of days and see what happens?
My gut feeling says that she is freeroaming again thinking if were a match or not and maybe she is open to new guys since she is so busy the upcoming weekends.... what do you guys think? help a brother out
We went for dinner and the second date we cooked dinner at my place and we hooked up.
So we went on for about a month, another dinner night and casual good hook ups. She is very cudly, texts all day, comes over when I want and we have loads of long cex sessions. All over me, all good.
I got a small company, my own house, car so I am a stable guy, just to let you guys know that I got my sh*t straight so you can better judge this case.
Some small important information, she asked me a couple of times to do something fun on saturdays which I declined because Im working, she didnt like that. She is a psychologist, so she is very good in communication and weeding out deep feelings which I am good in avoiding. Yet I still told her I went to prison for a week 10 years ago and that I am a fighter and are able to kill someone in combat if someone hurts someone I love. This information shocked her but she got it out of me when we were talking one day. But still if a girl loves you, she doesnt care, when things go bad these things become an issue imo. Also my gut feeling says that she told her parents about me and im not sure if that has an positive affect.
Then one evening she starts complaining that she doesnt see me on fridays and saturdays (I always go out those days and dont give it to new plates until she proves herself) and also she cooked for me that evening, did her best and wanted me to sleep over but I couldnt. I had to work early in the morning. She acted distant and like a child and I left. Next day she texts me long story about how she didnt like how things went and I ignored that. She also texted are things going to be good ? And I said ''ye think so, just come over tonight''. A bit indifferent because she acted childish at her home and told me to leave because I couldnt sleep over.
A day later she calls and I tell her ''im tired cant talk'' next day I invite her over. We talk, she tells me that she felt really really bad those 2 days while i little bit ignored her.
We have cex she goes and then the day where some things change comes up. She went for dinner to her parents and I called her and she didnt pick up she said Im tired cant talk. So she copies me.
I go silent for 2 days and she calls, we talk a bit but she seems very unenthustiac and I tell her to come over and she says ''im busy''. Then I tell her ok no problem and go NC for 6 full days. I text her after 6 days ''have a good christmas'' She leaves me on read for a couple of hours then replies, thanks ! you too.
Then she texts me in the middle of the night ''come over if you want'' I was downtown 20 minutes away so I went and we had cex. All good, all cudly all lovey, all over me. Great.
We text a bit back and forth and 2 days later on christmas eve she says im not going out anymore downtown. So i text her come over to my place which she replies ''sorry im still going out my nephew and neece want me to go''. 1 hour later she texts me come to my place i wanna go home. Which I kinda doubt but agree. I felt in her answer that she didn't like it that I agreed. I just know, I dealt with enough women and gathered so much info that it was a bit weak that she declined me earlier and I agree middle of the night to come and fvck her. but yea i was horney and went to get laid. I would suggest someone else to not pick up or tell her if its not something necessary lets talk tommorow morning. but I went to her place.
We had a great night together, all good and some talking about her feelings, I didnt talk to much...
Then in the morning she tells me come visit my work, I tell them I took my boyfriend with me blablabla.. all good signs which I laugh off.
She also mentions children, how i like to raise them when i want to have kids and when she does blablabla
Now the main issue!!!
We been dating now for 2 months since our first date.
After saterday she initiates 5 times and I texted her once so I keep it at least 80% - 20%. I tell her ''lets have dinner at a nice restaurant when are you free to get together''
She replies; ''Hey good that your out tonight, where you at? ''uhm i am busy this weekend and mather of fact im busy whole month of january!''
Which brings up all alarm bells. I replie ''uhm ok'' she replies ''yea im just busy all upcoming weekends, maybe we can meet on a weekday ?''
I tell her. ''no thanks, I don't like to spend time with somone who's ''to busy''.
She replies: Well a date night is fun again! But I am full the upcoming weekends, and when I told you a couple of weeks ago that I was busy you really took distance from me and then we don't see eachother at all haha''
I replie::
Im getting to know you better and I dont like it when someone is ''too busy''.
She replies well I understand that you dont like that and people that like eachother will make time to see eachother! but you also are very busy and you dont want to plan upfront.
She says lets call
I agree in 15 minutes.
Phone call went like this.
We talk 5 mins about random fun stuff, i dont wanna sound butthurt, just my normal self. She mentions in the beginning ''you can come over for a drink if you want'' But I dont want to fail the availability test AGAIN like last weekend so I tell her no im going to the gym with a friend.
Then she starts about the texting.
She says a lot of stuff. You are also busy in the weekends, I told you a weekday is maybe possible for a date night and then she says something. I say Im still getting to know you and thats why I like it to have fun together with some dinner again and im getting to know you, how you think about things how you react, what kind of person you are.
VERY INTERESTING.
*I really like it when we are together doing our thing but that's also possible with someone else. (sounds like a threat)
I say well ok, ye same for me. she says ye we are both very social and likeable so it wouldnt be a problem to find the same thing with another one person.
I say yes I agree, its true....
Then she says so do you see someone else?
I say, no not really. She says what does that mean? I say well ofc other women are interested in me. she says ye also other guys are interested in me.
I say ok so whats the conclusion? she says so you been f*cking other women while dating me? I say well were just dating, we dont have a relationship or were not exclusive. she says well I didnt see a single man while dating you the whole time and you?
I say well in the beginningI was seeing another girl but that stopped when I started seeing you more often. so she replies so you f8vked methen the other day you f8cked another??
I say no. I didnt see another woman for weeks. I quit seeing her after our date.
She says ok how would you like it if i f8vked another man last week? I say obv not nice and bad. she says thats all??? I say yes, bad but we dont have a relationship so you can do what you want. If we are exclusive i would never think about another woman but ye like I said Im getting to know you better thats important for me. She says okk... well For now im done talking, lets chat again on whatsapp goodnight.
Since then radio silence.
Obv I like this girl, shes not my dreamwoman but we are going forward but obv this is not good, and maybe somethings didnt go like they should.
I want to date her more to see if she is right for me or not or keep it as it is. What do you guys think of the whole situaton and more important.
NC and wait for her to replie and talk this out, NC until she talks.
Reach out myself tommorow or in a couple of days and see what happens?
My gut feeling says that she is freeroaming again thinking if were a match or not and maybe she is open to new guys since she is so busy the upcoming weekends.... what do you guys think? help a brother out
