How to find out if she's interested...

[Caldus]

Hi,

I've kinda been flirting with this girl lately but not sure if she truly likes me or if she is single, etc. What are some good ways to find out if a girl is interested without asking her? Stupid question, I know, but I've always been bad at flirting.

 

[tmpgstx]

Girls love to flirt and do it for fun .. so you can't really go by this.

From my experience the most tride and true tell-tale sign above any other is if you catch her looking. It's easy to spot before or after you talk to her.

If she is doing this, her attraction to you is strong.

 

[london99]

Get it out. She will either touch it or slap you.

 

[disguise]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
....From my experience the most tride and true tell-tale sign above any other is if you catch her looking. It's easy to spot before or after you talk to her.

If she is doing this, her attraction to you is strong.

Either that or you look funny.

Seriously, don't ASK her anything. There are few things more annoying than a shy guy 'asking' a girl out - "will you be my girlfriend?" it's just lame.

Don't whip it out either - I can pretty much guarantee that wont work unless you are already well acquainted!

Have you been using kino up until this point?

I'd suggest upping it dramatically and seeing where that takes you. (standing very close, extended eye-contact, holding her hand ->eg. one of those palm-reading jokes or something, or putting your hand on her waist *note- NOT her arse at this point!!*) You will pretty much be able to judge from her reaction if she is interested in taking things further.

 

[yunghova35]

Originally posted by Caldus
Hi,

I've kinda been flirting with this girl lately but not sure if she truly likes me or if she is single, etc. What are some good ways to find out if a girl is interested without asking her? Stupid question, I know, but I've always been bad at flirting.

Wording, wording, WORDING...se if you werent KINDA flinting with her and you were actually FLIRTING with her, you might not be asking this...

but umm lets start slow, how about you tell her to JOIN you for coffee/at the mall. SOMEWHERE. I think the thing MOST of the guy here miss is that you MAKE a person attracted to you, you dont leave it to fate, you go somewhere with her and BUILD attraction.

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by Caldus
Hi,

I've kinda been flirting with this girl lately but not sure if she truly likes me or if she is single, etc. What are some good ways to find out if a girl is interested without asking her? Stupid question, I know, but I've always been bad at flirting.

UMMMMM....I know this might sound a little crazy to you but....ASK HER OUT!!! DAMN! Why not? There are no safe way with women. You're just going to have to put your azz on the line and find out if she wants you..how you do that? Show her that you like her-get flirty back with her..see if she reciprocates or at least gives you affirmation that she likes what your doing..

 

[Royal Elite]

Re: Re: How to find out if she's interested...

Originally posted by Freeman
UMMMMM....I know this might sound a little crazy to you but....ASK HER OUT!!! DAMN! Why not? There are no safe way with women. You're just going to have to put your azz on the line and find out if she wants you..how you do that? Show her that you like her-get flirty back with her..see if she reciprocates or at least gives you affirmation that she likes what your doing..

Isn't it amazing how many of us come and say "I wish women wouldnt play games and just be straight forward", and then turn around and try to find out ways to not be straight forward and just give hints.

JUST GO AND BE A MAN AND ASK HER OUT!

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Ask for her phone number, if she gives it to you, then chances are she's interested. If you weren't so timid, you'd have done this already. I think you need to start getting yourself used to the idea of possibly getting rejected and realising that just around the corner is your next target, whether you get rejected or not.

No pain, no gain. It applies to women as well. Why complicate things by wondering if she's interested? Ask her out, if she says no, then you have your answer, don't need to waste anymore time that could be used pursuing your next target.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Caldus
Hi,

I've kinda been flirting with this girl lately but not sure if she truly likes me or if she is single, etc. What are some good ways to find out if a girl is interested without asking her? Stupid question, I know, but I've always been bad at flirting.

No offense, but with 136 posts you should already either:

• Know the answer to this question yourself.
• Know what to read to find the answer to the question.
• Know where what you need to read is located.

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