How To Drop A Nice Plate?

[soulforge]

She is a really nice girl, has spent quite alot of money on me, even though I never once asked her to.. and has always been respectful and drama free..

However it's always been casual and we never went into LTR and she knows this wasn't a possibility.

The reason why I want to drop her is, because I no longer fancy her at all.. last two times she came over, I didn't even fuk her.

I simply don't fancy her anymore. Kinda feel it's unfair to string her along.

I have already text her tonight and told her I can't see her next weekend, as I have some personal life things going on, on not in the right frame of mind to meet her.

I feel bad about it, as she is a nice person... I haven't completely fuked her off.. Simply told her right now I cannot meet, but we can stay in touch.

I reckon I will need to do a slow fade out with her?

Slow fade out? Or simply tell her that we are done?

 

[Dr.Suave]

She sounds like a nice, respectful, and drama free plate. Im sorry you dont feel like f0cking her anymore.

Why string her along with a slow fade out? If she has been nothing but nice to you at least have the decency to rip the band aid off.

 

[soulforge]

She sounds like a nice, respectful, and drama free plate. Im sorry you dont feel like f0cking her anymore.

Why string her along with a slow fade out? If she has been nothing but nice to you at least have the decency to rip the band aid off.

I agree with you man.. I think simply ending it, is for the best... I just feel really bad about just dropping her like that.. She been a great girl.

Even though she is a great chick, it's pointless keeping her around if I don't even want to fuk her.

I have told her, that we can stay intouch, but meeting up isn't a possibility right now.

I might have to tell her straight up that she needs to meet someone else

 

[Dr.Suave]

I might have to tell her straight up that she needs to meet someone else

Yeah bro. Its time.

May I ask why you dont wanna f0ck her anymore? One day she passed the boner test and then overnight she magically didnt?

 

[manfrombelow]

As a man myself, the only reason I would invest my brain power to think of ways to drop a "nice plate" is either she's too ugly or she's begun to get attached or cause drama.

Anyway, drop her the way women have been dropping men since forever: Ghosting.

 

[soulforge]

Yeah bro. Its time.

May I ask why you dont wanna f0ck her anymore? One day she passed the boner test and then overnight she magically didnt?

Straight up man... When I met her, I was going through a dry patch lol

When a dude has gone without sex for a while, even some 5-6's become appealing..

She is nice looking in the face, but she a little on the large side.. not fat, but more like thick with big boobs...

It's been casual from day one with her, never been LTR.

She has a successful business and has a bigger income than me, so it wouldn't work out anyway.

So since her, I managed to get two other plates... Both slim, sexy, and fit... They are not as nice as her, but I can't simply LTR a girl because she is nice and not fancy her.

It's like when you are banging hotties, solid 8's it's difficult to bang a 5

 

[soulforge]

As a man myself, the only reason I would invest my brain power to think of ways to drop a "nice plate" is either she's too ugly or she's begun to get attached or cause drama.

Anyway, drop her the way women have been dropping men since forever: Ghosting.

No man, she been a really good plate. So can't just ghost her like that

 

[Stanley]

No man, she been a really good plate. So can't just ghost her like that

ghosting is for *****s, probably why women do it. Just leave this girl with love man, let her know you're not feeling it and want to see other people or whatever. No need to fade

 

[manfrombelow]

No man, she been a really good plate. So can't just ghost her like that

Great. Since she's a "really good plate", just tell her directly that you think it's in your mutual best interest to end your relationship, and that you wish her good luck.

You already knew the answer, you just want to hear it from us. It's a waste of time if you ask me.

 

[soulforge]

ghosting is for *****s, probably why women do it. Just leave this girl with love man, let her know you're not feeling it and want to see other people or whatever. No need to fade

Yeh I mean seriously, she been a quality girl at all times.

She text me every single day without fail, for last 6 months.. and I rarely text her.

Over Christmas the girl spent maybe £1000 on me with presents.

I feel like shvt for doing this to her... But I don't find her attractive no more... Probably because I am banging other girls who are hotter than her.

 

[TheGambino]

Tell her you need some time on yourself to focus on things. maybe we can meet in the future sometime.

she will go nuts in a couple of days and blow your phone up if she likes u after that text lmao.

act like a needy afc if you really want to get rid off her lol

 

[manfrombelow]

act like a needy afc if you really want to get rid off her lol

Exactly. The best way to drop a girl without feeling guilty is to act like a AFC a.k.a texting her day and night, blowing up her phone, and appearing as needy and clingy as possible. Damn, she'd drop your sorry azz faster than the speed of light.

 

[Hal9000]

If you don't want to be direct, without ghosting, you can always slow roll her. Women are usually pretty good at picking up on that kind of thing. If she makes a big deal out of it you've got your opportunity to be direct. If not, and she just fades away, then more the better.

 

[Stanley]

Yeh I mean seriously, she been a quality girl at all times.

She text me every single day without fail, for last 6 months.. and I rarely text her.

Over Christmas the girl spent maybe £1000 on me with presents.

I feel like shvt for doing this to her... But I don't find her attractive no more... Probably because I am banging other girls who are hotter than her.

Then dropping her is the right call man, you're doing the right thing. If shes hitting you up that much she thinks of you more than a casual thing or is moving towards it. Don't give her false hope just let her go. I would personally just tell her you're not feeling it directly and fade out

 

[pranshu]

She is a really nice girl, has spent quite alot of money on me, even though I never once asked her to.. and has always been respectful and drama free..

However it's always been casual and we never went into LTR and she knows this wasn't a possibility.

The reason why I want to drop her is, because I no longer fancy her at all.. last two times she came over, I didn't even fuk her.

I simply don't fancy her anymore. Kinda feel it's unfair to string her along.

I have already text her tonight and told her I can't see her next weekend, as I have some personal life things going on, on not in the right frame of mind to meet her.

I feel bad about it, as she is a nice person... I haven't completely fuked her off.. Simply told her right now I cannot meet, but we can stay in touch.

I reckon I will need to do a slow fade out with her?

Slow fade out? Or simply tell her that we are done?

If she is really nice and you still like her company but you are not sexually attracted to her anymore, just friendzone her..she might be useful to you in the future if she is such a wonderful woman and successful business woman..

 

[soulforge]

Exactly. The best way to drop a girl without feeling guilty is to act like a AFC a.k.a texting her day and night, blowing up her phone, and appearing as needy and clingy as possible. Damn, she'd drop your sorry azz faster than the speed of light.

Or she might love it, and ask me to move in with her haha

 

[BackInTheGame78]

How about just telling her the truth?

I know...I know...blasphemy on here apparently

 

[Gamisch]

Soulforge, I think you are a decent bloke but somehow you have a preference for drama.

Blame the D. We recently had a thread, I believe it was from Lefty the moderator, where we talked about the pros and cons from being with a woman with less SMV.

One of these days your Ukrainian plate will stir up shyt loads of drama again (and againand again), and you'll be longing to this woman's peacefulness. Just saying...

But oke. If you dont feel it, you dont feel it. At least be a fecking man about and tell her straight up that you ain't down with her no more. This is good for YOUR development as a man. You running the bizz, so you should also be the one who takes the lead when there is bad news.

 

[soulforge]

Soulforge, I think you are a decent bloke but somehow you have a preference for drama.

Blame the D. We recently had a thread, I believe it was from Lefty the moderator, where we talked about the pros and cons from being with a woman with less SMV.

One of these days your Ukrainian plate will stir up shyt loads of drama again (and againand again), and you'll be longing to this woman's peacefulness. Just saying...

But oke. If you dont feel it, you dont feel it. At least be a fecking man about and tell her straight up that you ain't down with her no more. This is good for YOUR development as a man. You running the bizz, so you should also be the one who takes the lead when there is bad news.

Haha to be fair, your likely right about the Russian girl... However to be honest man, a girl can be the most peaceful girl ever, but if she isn't sexualy arousing me, then all she is, is a nice caring FREIND.

Also consider the dynamics here.. This nice plate has a successful business, very high income compared to me, it would never work as an LTR.. Chicks date along and up..

Also you are right... But I have considered both situations through thoroughly.

I'm willing to drop both chicks, Russian girl and Super nice girl... Both have a limited shelf life with me.

Clean slate.. but yeh I agree... I need to be honest with her about calling it a day... However I think it's worthwhile keeping her in the freind zone

 

[soulforge]

Here's an off-the-wall idea: Maybe bring her along to the gym when you work out?

What will that do? Probably take her 2-3 years to get to a good fitness level