How to deal with this bytch test?

[ImpossibleIsNothing]

OK so if you check my last thread you will learn about this girl who recently showed some interest in me( I think), she IMed me out of nowhere(she got my SN from someone) and was playful and stuff.

Anyway, this girls good, she is a huge flirt, and I almost flipped out last night on her. Im thinking more and more she is an attention *****... and I need you're guys assessment,

Here it goes...

Ok so we're doing this fundraiser thing, and a bunch of my friends and acquantinces are working a food stand. My best friend is there, and HB8(attnetion *****?) is there, a few other friends are there.

OK so throughout the nights, my AFC best friend, who you know when you can tell someone REALLY likes someone but tries to play it off cool? Yea thats him. He shows her all the attention she wants, and he even tried some akward neg hits on her he learned from me, lol.

Anyway, Im basically working my ass off the whole night doing the register and my best friend is right next to my register. HB8 is a food runner, and she is helping with drinks in between registers. IN the beginning of the night we were joking and stuff a bit, but really, I was just trying to do my job.

My best friend, however is constantly talking and supplicating to her, giving her all the attention she wants. HB8 is playing along(she CRAVES attention, I have stories I'll save them for now though). I KNOW she has NO interest in him. She took a lunch break with my best friend who was trying to hide his excitement cause he thinks he's got her.

Anyway, she is constantly touching and flirting with a few other guy friends(including one 6 years older then her who has a GF, shes not even 18!). She walks past them and taps them on the shoulder while they are working, just for the hell of it.

One point during the night my bestfriend takes a break and Im working, she comes up to me and says "Hey, where is your best friend?". I say he's out there, and she walks out of the stand and starts talking to him.

Honestly, I tried to let it not get to me, I just kept doing my job, but she would be talking behind my back saying "Why is he so mean to me" loud enough just so I could hear it. Then she would whisper with my friends "whhy isnt he talking tonight?". I turned around a made some wise ass comment like "hey are you guys talking about me, feel free to say it to my face" and was honestly, pretty mean to her the rest of the night.

I know she wanted my attention so bad, and I didn't give it to her so she tried some bullshyt on me.

As a matter of fact, I've never given her much attention while my best friend always has,

I think maybe she isn't all that interested and trying to WIN my attention, instead of WIN me? IS this a possibility? Anyone ever come across this?

What should I have done in this situation?

And this girl couldn't possibly be worth my time right?


Im just pissed because I let her get to me. And she is leading my best friend on who probably is falling in love with her. This is what REALLY pisses me off, not so much the attention ****.

Thanks guys. Sorry this is long.


P.S. - I see her today at a partay, what do I say if anything? Last night I was so heated I was thinking I would pull he aside and call her out on the **** she is doing.

How should I approach this?

 

[spider_007]

Why do you care so much, who cares what a ho does. YOU ARE SUPOSED TO BE DOING YOUR OWN THING. You are smart enough to recognize tests, and AWs......so why are you reacting to them....

You see it- you recognize it- you lean back and laugh to yours self about her unseccessfull attempts- and you go back to what ever you ware doing.

as simple as that.

 

[ImpossibleIsNothing]

Originally posted by spider_007
Why do you care so much, who cares what a ho does. YOU ARE SUPOSED TO BE DOING YOUR OWN THING. You are smart enough to recognize tests, and AWs......so why are you reacting to them....

Thanks, but that doesn't answer my questions. I WAS doing my own thing, I was ****ing working my ass off while she was fooling around, I seriously don't care what she was doing, till she was purposely being a hor trying to get a rise out of me by talking behind my back and what not, theres only so much I can block out.

Also, I am trying to learn how to handle tests like these for future situations and to be honest, I did have interest in this girl, still do, so I want to know what's up.

I agree I didn't handle the test well, I THINK her goal was to get me flustered and she accomplished that. Thats just HALF of why I am pissed off.

The other half, well, I've WARNED my best friend about this girl last summer when she had a boyfriend. I told him to not fall for her **** cause she is using him as an attention source. Thing is, this girl totally leads my BEST FRIEND on... she was even smacking his ass right in front of my ****ing face and she has no interest in him, none. My best friend was buying into it, and was even starting to side with her.

Anyone who would like to take a shot at my ?'s, thanks.

And what do I say to this girl today? Im so tempted to pull her aside and say stop leading my best friend on, but I know that would not be the best option. Any ideas? Act like it never happened? Oh yea, my best friend will be at the party too, probably all over her.

 

[spider_007]

BUT YOUR ACTING LIKE ITS BUGGING YOU. don't you see, she got what she wanted. You can't help your friend. Anything you say will not be taken seriously, and he will ocuse you of jealeousy. MAYBE SHE REALLY LIKES THEY GUY. Eather way, i'd forget about her. Think of it as a lost cause. ask your self, do you relly want to put up with that every time she feels down and needs a IGO BOOST. If you ONLY wanted to hit that ass, that is another story, and i'll be glad to help you there........

As for; how do you handle tests like these;

-There is not much you can do about it. You can eater give her your attention, and once she has had enough she will go to next one, leaving you all worked up.......
-or you can DECIDE THAT IT IS NOT GOING TO BOTHER YOU ANY MORE. Let it go. hit on other woman, If she comes to you, great, if she doesn't, oh well, it wasn't ment to be.

 

[ImpossibleIsNothing]

If you ONLY wanted to hit that ass, that is another story, and i'll be glad to help you there........

Let me know, I need some sort of redemption

Thanks for the replies bro, truth.

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by ImpossibleIsNothing
Let me know, I need some sort of redemption

all right then

-give her a week or so of time, you wana kinda strart fresh
-on top of always teasing her and making fun of her, you have to come accross as a SEXUAL BEAST.
When you guys are flirting Don't be afraid to look her in the eyes and say: "I WANA FVCK THE LIVING DAYLIGHT OUT OF YOU" with a half smile of corse. Or better yat call her over to you, and when she asks "what do you want" wisper it in her ear. lean back, smile a little, and wach her blush. I really hope you know what i mean when I say half smile (it's basic ****). The point of the whole thing is you WANA MAKE HER HORNY, BUT ALSO COMFORATABLE (that is why you give her a smille and wink, as if it is just something between two of you)
-But as you are doing that, don't get attached, DON'T BE CLINGY. DON'T ACT LIKE ONE OF THOSE PERVS YOU SEE AT CLUBS, FOLLOWING GURLS AROUND WITH A BONER......don't make her think you'll be folowing/stocking her afterwards
-be your own man, do your own thing, but give her a wink once in a while, she'll know what it means . use kino a lot, but in a sexuall manner. NO DON'T GRAB HER ASS , touch her, but make it look like you are getting horny just by rubbing her shoulder (but don't verbalize it), HAVE FUN WITH IT,

I can't really teach you this stuff, cause it is kinda AN ART (I hate to say it), it's being withy/charming/funny.... BUT MAKING YOUR INTENTIONS CLEAR. YOU ARE A MAN, IT'S ALRIGHT TO BE HORNY. what woman hate the most is guy that give her hope for somthing reall, and once they get pvssy they run.

Because she is an AW you need to give her more room then you would a normal gurll. You need to pull her toward you.....

JUST BE YOU HONEST/WITHY/FUNNY/CHARMING/ MANLY SELF

Oh and make sure she is comforatable with you doing this, you'll take the responsability if you get hit with sexual harasment suit.

 

[ImpossibleIsNothing]

Awesome. THanks Spider.

I just thought of something, Hey did I mention the party today is at her BEST FRIENDS house? The best friend who wants me very bad... hmmm, yea, sounds like a plan!

I can play that game too, biatch.


I'll let you know how it goes, haha, can't wait.


:crackup:

 

[NewMan]

Your problem is your to attached to this ho.

Everything should be based on you. Selfish, selfish selfish is the name of the game.

She obviously is not a quality chick - so for now just get what you want out of her whilst looking for other women.

On the AW stuff - Just be oblivious to the whole thing. Do your thing as you were doing - but control every action - you don
't want her to get anything from you. You will be leaving with her, and if you don't who cares anyways?

As for your so called best friend - get rid of him.

If you can't trust your boys - you've got nothing. He's your problem here,.

 

[big dizzle]

Newman you hit the last part right on the ****ing head. Get rid of your best friend. Real friends will hear you out and understand whats going on. Then the two of you can play this AW and make her look like the stupid ass she is for playing these ***** made games!

Dizz