Let me explain...
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Originally posted by jprjrjr
I totally disagree. If your girlfriend is going to leave you because of what her friend thinks, she's an untrustworthy bytch, and you wouldn't want to be with her anyway.
Never reward someone for being a cvnt.
P.S. She already hates you. Being nice to her isn't going to change that. Showing her you don't take **** might.
Have YOU, or anyone that is saying that "slapping" this girl and "tuning the sh!t" out of her ever DONE that and have it work for them? If so, then go ahead and keep on doing it, but from personal experiences (my own AND those that I have seen) by "tuning the sh!t out of them" etc only makes her hate you MORE, causes MORE sh!t for you, AND in some cases have the guys girlfriend tell him to stop being such an @sshole to her friends.
In my post I did NOT say that your girlfriend would LEAVE you, I said that she will TRY get your girlfriend to leave you buy only having bad things to say about you and constantly trying to brainwash your girlfriend that you are "bad" etc. And yes, I have seen situations where the girlfriend had to leave the bf because her friends were giving her hell about it and she couldn’t take it anymore (this is after a 1 and a half year HAPPY relationship) The girlfriend in most cases WONT leave her bf because of friends, but having her friends hate you is a big minus, as appose to having them LIKE you.
This has nothing to do with "dignity", "pride", or "being a man", this has to do with you being clever and coming out on top.
I'll give you an example:
Burglers (thieves) that want to rob a house, but there is this god that they just wished would die, because that would save them a lot of trouble.... but they don’t let the dog chase them away... What do they do?
a) Aggregate the dog (girlfriend's friend) more, slap it around causing it to bark (speak badly about you etc) even MORE?
or
b) ACT friendly to the dog (girlfriend's friend), give it a piece of tasty meat (act nicely to her) so that it will like you and wont bark at you, and therefore make your time robbing the house (going out with your girlfriend) a lot easier.
Now you don’t have to LIKE the dog, deep inside you probably still hope that the dog would just f*ckoff and die, but you ACT towards the dog in a way to get it off your back.
Anyways, I hope you understand what I am trying to say, and I guarantee you, this way DOES work, I have been down this road before, and tuning her and putting her in her place and all that bullsh!t might make u feel/seem like a man, but in essence all you are doing is making her hate you more, causing her to try even harder to convince your girlfriend that u are bad news etc, which will lead to making your life harder. I learnt that these 2 sayings ("Pat the head that you want to slice off" and "Keep your friends close, but keep your enemy's closer") hold more truth in them than what people think.
And one more thing... Get the idea of "you are rewarding her" out of your head, you aren’t rewarding her for anything, you are doing what YOU need to do to get what YOU want, so you might give her that piece of meat (refer to the example that I gave above), but its a small effort for achieving what you want to achieve, and if you are not going to be willing to do THAT much, then that’s just your ego speaking, but unlike her, you need to think ahead, and at the end of the day, you are the one coming out on top, not her, because she will still be your girlfriend's friend, but she just wont be trying to cause sh!t for you anymore, and all that, just because u threw her a piece of "meat" to shut her up. You are doing it for YOURSELF, NOT for her, remember that.
If you STILL disagree with me, then that’s fine, you are entitled to your opinion, I am just saying what i have experienced, seen, and found to work, with MANY situations like/similar to this, not just my own.
Laterz...
