Firestar786
Senior Don Juan
How should you deal with a lying girlfreind?
My girlfreind has lied to me on numerous occasions about different things such as
1) her familys stance towards her religion
2) her familys stance towards the type of man shes with
3) Asking her to stop talking to her freind of hers whom I deem bad(the freind takes hard drugs) - then seeing said freind behind my back.
I have discussed her going behind my back and lying to me, and saying it is ruining trust between us and that if she continues the relationship will end.
Only a few days ago I asked her where she was, to which she told me shes at a charity event. I asked her to take a pic as proof, to which she refused. I told her I cant trust her and she needs to rebuild the trust to which she said - you need to learn to trust me and believe I'm at a charity event.
I told her I cant believe her without proof so I'm ending the relationship as I believe shes lying to me.
I ended the relationship and now my thoughts on the matter are that I give it a few weeks to relax and think, then perhaps move on and find someone else who does not have lying traits.
Please advise on my situation,
Thanks
My girlfreind has lied to me on numerous occasions about different things such as
1) her familys stance towards her religion
2) her familys stance towards the type of man shes with
3) Asking her to stop talking to her freind of hers whom I deem bad(the freind takes hard drugs) - then seeing said freind behind my back.
I have discussed her going behind my back and lying to me, and saying it is ruining trust between us and that if she continues the relationship will end.
Only a few days ago I asked her where she was, to which she told me shes at a charity event. I asked her to take a pic as proof, to which she refused. I told her I cant trust her and she needs to rebuild the trust to which she said - you need to learn to trust me and believe I'm at a charity event.
I told her I cant believe her without proof so I'm ending the relationship as I believe shes lying to me.
I ended the relationship and now my thoughts on the matter are that I give it a few weeks to relax and think, then perhaps move on and find someone else who does not have lying traits.
Please advise on my situation,
Thanks