how to deal with jealousy

[sav]

eh i guess my intuition was right..she finally decided to call and i called her up and asked her what happened the last 3 days and shes like nothing. then i ask her what happend on thursday and she starts saying why u asking me questions and why r u keeping tabs.

then she hangs up i text her saying i am done. she says thank u for breaking up with me. i ask her if she wants to breakup and she says yes she does and she was thinking about it the last 3 days and also when she came back that day from the city. and she tells me through text and doesnt even want to talk to me about it. She says the relationship wasnt working for a while and now after i actually ask her about it she finally tells me how she feels.
i am guessing she met a guy there and just doesnt want to tell me which i wouldnt be surprised at.

i am so pissed, angry, sad, hurt, and depressed. i cannot sleep. this is ****ing bull****. i am so down right now i knew she never gave a **** about me at all and i stayed in it for too long.

you opened yourself up, and each time you do that you run the risk of getting hurt.. thats the risk and why you shouldnt open urself up unless you are absolutely sure in the person.. cant blame you for trying, everybody goes through this... keep ur head up and know that it gets better..


good luck.


PS. know that she was cheating on u.. and that she's worthless..

 

[Sofomore]

eh i guess my intuition was right..she finally decided to call and i called her up and asked her what happened the last 3 days and shes like nothing. then i ask her what happend on thursday and she starts saying why u asking me questions and why r u keeping tabs.

then she hangs up i text her saying i am done. she says thank u for breaking up with me. i ask her if she wants to breakup and she says yes she does and she was thinking about it the last 3 days and also when she came back that day from the city. and she tells me through text and doesnt even want to talk to me about it. She says the relationship wasnt working for a while and now after i actually ask her about it she finally tells me how she feels.
i am guessing she met a guy there and just doesnt want to tell me which i wouldnt be surprised at.

i am so pissed, angry, sad, hurt, and depressed. i cannot sleep. this is ****ing bull****. i am so down right now i knew she never gave a **** about me at all and i stayed in it for too long.

Hey man i hope you dont get too down. I havent been in the same situation but i feel for you.

I am the guy in that other thread up there.


You should check out this book I just started reading. "The Way of the Peaceful Warrior"

It really is inspiring and helpful. This book has changed a lot of lives. I personally am not a big reader...i think the last time i read a book for fun was like in 2005 or something. I cant put this book down. In one day i read to page 175 haha. Holy ****, i need to get back to my real life.

Best of Luck man,

"Experience is not what happens to a man. It is what a man does with what happens to him. "


Think about it, you will understand.

 

[cooldragon23]

ah this sucks. i have had a horrible day. no sleep and just a zombie today. going to work distracted me and i talked to a few buddies that helped, but there are a few things that i am realizing.

i for some reason had the thought this would never work out because i wasnt good enough. i kept thinking i am not interesting i am too boring, and she wil get tired of me and see and realize that i am not that great and she will leave. and thats what happened. I really thinki i cant get no one else. i see my friends happily getting married and i am at square one dont know how to flirt or keep them interested.

i need to work on my confidence and believe in myself but i dont know where and how to begin.

 

[cooldragon23]

well its been an interesting few days and i have been busy with school and work. Havent slept much and have been thinking alot.

my ex ended up calling my friend asking how i am doing. her friend who is also a friend of mines told me my ex isnt doing too great with the breakup. I was surprised at that cause she didnt really seem to give a ****. i guess maybe she feels bad about breaking up. my ex just a few hours ago texted me how i was doing and i havent responded though i am tempted to. i am reevaluating what i need to do from here and she doesnt need to be a part of my life though a little bit of me wants her back.