How to Deal with Hot/Cold sh*t Tests?

[No1]

I am looking for some advice regarding Hot/Cold sh*t testing from women. There is a particular girl I am interested for but she is constantly giving me mixed signals.

When we happen to be together we have a good time. However, she doesn't respond to the E-mails I send her but after I see her she behaves like nothing happened. In the past I had called her 2 times on her "sh*t" once after canceling a date by telling her in a nice manner that this behavior was unacceptable and the second time I went full balistic on her for canceling another date on the last minute. The first time I call her on her sh*t she became apologetic and she started calling me at work a couple of times to make arrangements and the second time she took the offensive by telling me that she didn't have any feeling about me and that she just wanted to be friends.

After that I cut contact from her for a couple of months but she started talking back to me and I am just trying to be her friend.

However, I find myself back in the same old routine. She recently asked me to e-mail her some pictures from an overseas business trip of mine, no response to the e-mail. Next time I saw her she said she liked the pictures, I e-mailed her a couple of days ago to wish her happy thanksgiving and wish her luck on her move since she is moving this weeked. No response.

I really can't take this sh*t anymone but I beleive I also do not have the right to go full balistic on her again. I guess I will have to do the neutral approach.

Any suggestions.

Thanks

Mike

BTW: I think some people have missunderstood me. I am not spamming her with any E-mails or anything like that. I don't even e-mail her more than once every 3-4 months.

 

[chicago#one]

next

NEXT.

 

[jbbrain]

dude, you have NO RIGHT TO GO APE SHYT ON HER, you're not even togther.

She's probbaly not interested, just chill out about it and NEXT.

 

[Legend]

geez what a cry baby.

You sound like a nut and a person that is not in control of your feelings or emotions. This girl would be lucky to have you out of her life.

Next her? I think you have already be nexted.

 

[Slickster]

Women who are interested don't send mixed signals.

So your goal should be to increase her interest level or move on and quit wasting your time.

Harassing, and bothering her all the time is only going to drive her away. ie. You chase - she runs.

 

[Elimidate]

Simple bro....When you chase things they run away right??

Give her no contact (at all! nor funny email fwd, etc ) for one month!

If she has any interest in you she'll show it.

Elimidate

 

[DJ_Dork]

Originally posted by Legend
geez what a cry baby.

You sound like a nut and a person that is not in control of your feelings or emotions. This girl would be lucky to have you out of her life.

Next her? I think you have already be nexted.

I Concur, be a man. Control your emotions. Be angry when it's required not when you feel like it.