how to deal with flakes

sunnykhatri736

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Guys can anyone tell me how to deal with flakes ?
I got 5 dates this week and 2 of them flaked
and we almost planned our date and the place where we were about to have sex and then she flaked.
Im new to dating stuff
so tell me how to deal with the flakes ?
 

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Unless she explicitly offers to reschedule the only response needed before you delete their number is:

Fvck Off.
 

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if she can't be bothered to show up for the dates there's nothing you can do but say fvck her and move on.

if she contacts you she gets a second chance, after a second chance if she flakes forget her forever

however if her flakes are far apart with lots of success inbetween you give extra chances.(flaking twice in 2 dates is horrible, flaking twice in 10 dates isn't so bad)
 

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The Same Way You Deal with a Chick That's HIV Positive

sunnykhatri736 said:
so tell me how to deal with the flakes ?
You don't.
 

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Ditch that b**ch and move on! You know you can do better!

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
You don't.
I would say ^this.

Women ARE going to flake, some will, some won't. You HAVE to understand this in order to be a 'DJ'. Don't take it personal or get jaded. It's part of dating. You can learn from it though, then move on to the next one. And, if there isn't a next one, go find a next one.
 
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