how to deal with a AW

[sexy_kuta]

aight then

i am going to continue to cut contact with her

but one quesition

if she tries to phone me later on in the future maybe like 2 or more weeks

should i pick up and see what she wants to say

or just ignore her like i dont ever want her in my life again?

i just feel un comfortable trying to aviod her..

 

[Eccentric]

Download Gangstarr "Ex Girl to the Next Girl"

Great advice.

 

[KontrollerX]

"my cousin told me she was talking to her and she wants to talk to me badly

but i told her i dont want too then she told me to think twice about this..

am i doing something wrong?"

No, this sad woman only wants to talk to you to prove that she still has you under her spell to herself. To get you to talk to her makes her feel that she is in control and important. Do not feed this sickness.

"she never went with my money, never

she just wanted to talk to me all the time thats all

and she never cheated in her life and i backed that up too, and she never lied to me

im her 3th bf.."

A true AW/HPD always cheats. Always. They are extremely good liars and manipulators. Even enough so to fool trained professionals. Bottom line is there is no way you can be 100% sure she never cheated on you and if we were betting and she was to undergo a lie detector test by the FBI I would put down $50 that she cheated on you and everyone else she's ever been with before as well.

"but when i picked up that time when she phoned.. she asked if i phoned my cousin to tell her to phone me which i didnt then she reliped.. " oh some guy phoned"
is she really playing games or just finding an excuse to talk to me? cuz i know theres a difference between that.

should i let her talk to me and see what she has to say or just continue to block her off with contact?"

Just cut off contact. She only wants your attention to prove to herself she can still control you once again. Yes she is playing games to accomplish this.

"i just dont wanna fall again for nothing

maybe shes not that bad at all?

i know alot of girls that want attention

so i cant really blame her on that"

She is an empty shell of a person occupying a likely gorgeous human body. There is nothing there resembling a soul for you to truly love or connect with if she fits the HPD description I'm sorry to say.

"i wanna get something out of her,
haha maybe sleep with her and move on is there a way?"

The only thing you can get out of an HPD is emotional pain but if you are determined to sleep with her just follow the advice I gave you earlier in the thread and make sure to use protection as HPD's are very reckless with their bodies.

"i just feel un comfortable trying to aviod her.."

If you're feeling uncomfortable ask yourself this...

How uncomfortable are you going to feel when you pick up that phone and talk to her and then she ignores you again or she cons you into a relationship with her and she cheats on you and you catch her in the act?

Seriously dude I know they are hot, I know they are addictive but for your own sake just drop all contact with her. Like another wise poster on this forum said an AW is so crazy they will take you down with them. Don't be that guy. Don't let her ruin you inside. Seek out a healthy normal woman.

 

[sexy_kuta]

well i feel GREAT

i actually feel like i dont need that stupid hoee to run my life...

i just need to stay away from that hoe..

if i talk to her just once.. i know i will fall for her again..

right now i wish i could give the stupid cunnt a big FU to the face..

but im not going to scoup that low to her level.. im better than that.

the funny thing is my 20 year old cousin told me from the beginning.. that it wasnt going to work out and that she was going to fuk me over in some way and hes right.. he was Always right but im glad i learned the hard way... now i experienced it and i know i will do better... im aware of these kind..

the more i think about her... and the excuses she gave me.. the bigger wh0re she becomes in my mind..

but i know my other side now... i didnt know i could become this sweet..

chasing women aint my type,

thanks alot to you Djs... i didnt know there was this kind of help in this world..

a big thanks to KontrollerX too... his advise was off the hook haha

i'll keep you guys updated if anything happend..

 

[resilient]

I hope my PM helped you kuta. Remember to read the DJ bible and check out Rollo's Plate Spin Theory.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=90482&highlight=plate+spin+theory

It'll help you get over your one-i-itis in no time and help re-build your confidence.

Good luck