How to Date Strippers
First, it is something that you really do not want to do. I have dated three and each one was a bigger headache than the last. Never again. They are all nothing but problems. But if you still want to try, here’s how.
If you are meeting her at the Club/place of work
The outer game
Dress Well
Speak Well
Smell Well
Most of the people they meet there are very trashy and don’t care what they look like. Naturally, why should they care if all it takes is $20 to get a HB’s attention. You though should put all your effort into looking as sharp as possible. They will pay attention. Going more formal with a suit is okay if you can work it, but I suggest a more business casual look. Basically, nice slacks, good shoes, and a high quality dress shirt. No tie. Spend your money on a very high quality cologne, they will notice it. If that is not you and you already have some style, pimp to the max. Just do not go too casual.
When speaking to her
Maintain eye contact most of the time ( 70%)
Apply Kino gently but consistently
Talk slowly or slower than usual
Talk a little lower than usual as well
The reason why is to do these things is mainly to make her pay attention to you and you alone, not to all the other customers where she could be making some $$$. She expects you to check out her body, so do it but not all the time. Look here in the eye and force her to stay. Applying Kino is a great subconscious way to reinforce that. She will tell you when its too much. The way you talk though is what is most important I feel. By slowing down and speaking lower, she will pay more attention to what you are saying and therefore more attention to your game that you are unleashing. Don’t get too ridiculous, these clubs are loud, annoying places. Don’t mumble, Don’t stare , and don’t grab her ( well until later).
Other outer elements
Bring gum or mints
Bring a pack of cigarettes
Spend money
The reason for the following is simple. Almost every girl I have meant in a club smokes, so offering to smoke with her is a way to keep her at your table. I recommend a decent national brand like Marlboro. Don’t get those any of those generic 2 pack for $5 stuff. They are nasty and show you as being cheap as well. Strippers hate cheap guys. Obviously, if you smoke, bring mints or gum to hide the smell later. Doesn’t matter what kind, just something that will work. The last thing is spending money. Definitely do spend, on drinks, on smokes, and tipping the waitresses (very very important). Try your best to not buy dances from a girl you may be interested in. Not only will you save money, but she will remember you better as that cool guy who I sat and partied with not the creepy one I rubbed up against. Tipping the waitress is really important because they are the one’s who will help you out in finding the really cool girls and will give you a good rep around the club. Remember women talk. Finally, don’t go too often. It is a sure fire signifier that you are a creepy loser.
More importantly, the inner game
Okay strip clubs are all about $$$ and power. Essentially, patrons pay to have power over the girls for 5 minutes. What you need to do is eliminate the $$$ and time from the equation. Strippers in general are damaged goods and only enter the profession for one reason, $$$. Basically, she’s a legal prostitute. There are only two mentalities that cause them to choose this profession, desperation and ignorance. The desperate ones are usually single mothers, recent divorcees, drug addicts, and high school drop outs. They have no future and this is the best it is going to get. There are the ones you will see there day after day and are a little older.
The ignorant ones are basically college students who just want some quick cash for a vacation, or new clothes, or a car. Basically very materialistic sorority girl types. They are ignorant because they have yet to grasp the consequences of their lifestyle. They tend to be big partiers and spend their money recklessly on crap. They love coke. They tend to be a little younger and only work occasionally.
I think you can see the weakness that both types have. Basically the inner game on your part is simple, just be confident and very, very firm. Treat her like the Ho she is. Not with disrespect, but with attitude that you are the one in charge. Because you are. If she does not want to get in line immediately, go to the next one. Don’t be rude, just forward. They will respect you.
Minor points
These women are stupid, but they know one thing, how to separate you from your $$$
Don’t expect any charity
The sex is great, but so what
Getting a phone # is the easiest thing, do it, but don’t call her
Have her call you
To repeat what was said at the beginning, Strippers are nothing but trouble. Do not date them. Do not encourage them. Do not close them. Read and understand what Puerto Rican Lover wrote about ho’s.
First, it is something that you really do not want to do. I have dated three and each one was a bigger headache than the last. Never again. They are all nothing but problems. But if you still want to try, here’s how.
If you are meeting her at the Club/place of work
The outer game
Dress Well
Speak Well
Smell Well
Most of the people they meet there are very trashy and don’t care what they look like. Naturally, why should they care if all it takes is $20 to get a HB’s attention. You though should put all your effort into looking as sharp as possible. They will pay attention. Going more formal with a suit is okay if you can work it, but I suggest a more business casual look. Basically, nice slacks, good shoes, and a high quality dress shirt. No tie. Spend your money on a very high quality cologne, they will notice it. If that is not you and you already have some style, pimp to the max. Just do not go too casual.
When speaking to her
Maintain eye contact most of the time ( 70%)
Apply Kino gently but consistently
Talk slowly or slower than usual
Talk a little lower than usual as well
The reason why is to do these things is mainly to make her pay attention to you and you alone, not to all the other customers where she could be making some $$$. She expects you to check out her body, so do it but not all the time. Look here in the eye and force her to stay. Applying Kino is a great subconscious way to reinforce that. She will tell you when its too much. The way you talk though is what is most important I feel. By slowing down and speaking lower, she will pay more attention to what you are saying and therefore more attention to your game that you are unleashing. Don’t get too ridiculous, these clubs are loud, annoying places. Don’t mumble, Don’t stare , and don’t grab her ( well until later).
Other outer elements
Bring gum or mints
Bring a pack of cigarettes
Spend money
The reason for the following is simple. Almost every girl I have meant in a club smokes, so offering to smoke with her is a way to keep her at your table. I recommend a decent national brand like Marlboro. Don’t get those any of those generic 2 pack for $5 stuff. They are nasty and show you as being cheap as well. Strippers hate cheap guys. Obviously, if you smoke, bring mints or gum to hide the smell later. Doesn’t matter what kind, just something that will work. The last thing is spending money. Definitely do spend, on drinks, on smokes, and tipping the waitresses (very very important). Try your best to not buy dances from a girl you may be interested in. Not only will you save money, but she will remember you better as that cool guy who I sat and partied with not the creepy one I rubbed up against. Tipping the waitress is really important because they are the one’s who will help you out in finding the really cool girls and will give you a good rep around the club. Remember women talk. Finally, don’t go too often. It is a sure fire signifier that you are a creepy loser.
More importantly, the inner game
Okay strip clubs are all about $$$ and power. Essentially, patrons pay to have power over the girls for 5 minutes. What you need to do is eliminate the $$$ and time from the equation. Strippers in general are damaged goods and only enter the profession for one reason, $$$. Basically, she’s a legal prostitute. There are only two mentalities that cause them to choose this profession, desperation and ignorance. The desperate ones are usually single mothers, recent divorcees, drug addicts, and high school drop outs. They have no future and this is the best it is going to get. There are the ones you will see there day after day and are a little older.
The ignorant ones are basically college students who just want some quick cash for a vacation, or new clothes, or a car. Basically very materialistic sorority girl types. They are ignorant because they have yet to grasp the consequences of their lifestyle. They tend to be big partiers and spend their money recklessly on crap. They love coke. They tend to be a little younger and only work occasionally.
I think you can see the weakness that both types have. Basically the inner game on your part is simple, just be confident and very, very firm. Treat her like the Ho she is. Not with disrespect, but with attitude that you are the one in charge. Because you are. If she does not want to get in line immediately, go to the next one. Don’t be rude, just forward. They will respect you.
Minor points
These women are stupid, but they know one thing, how to separate you from your $$$
Don’t expect any charity
The sex is great, but so what
Getting a phone # is the easiest thing, do it, but don’t call her
Have her call you
To repeat what was said at the beginning, Strippers are nothing but trouble. Do not date them. Do not encourage them. Do not close them. Read and understand what Puerto Rican Lover wrote about ho’s.
