Mr. Obvious
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- Jul 2, 2009
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It is time for you all to re-evaluate your approach to the dating game
there is ZERO reason that you need to have some committed "girlfriend" who is controlling what you can and can't do - the last thing you as a MAN need is to be sapped of your freedom by some typical societal expectation bull**** where you are committed to just one girl, even though you aren't going to be marrying her - and this expectation pollutes your mind, heart and soul, to the point where you FORCE YOURSELF to commit to just one girl, even though it is not what you TRULY want.
When will young guys learn this??? THERE IS NO POINT IN COMMITTING TO JUST ONE GIRL WHEN YOU ARE DATING, EVER.
feel free to tell her what she wants to hear so you can continue getting what you want from her, but you owe her NOTHING, because she will have no problem dropping you as soon as her "feelings" change (and they will, they always do). Yes, there is the rare exception where the girl will love you for life, and you will get married and be happy together, BUT THE EXCEPTION PROVES THE RULE - THE RULE BEING THAT WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY WHEN THEY TRY TO BE EXCLUSIVE WITH YOU.
I speak only from experience here, i can say there have been about 15 girls overall who told me how much they loved me one day, and it was as if i didn't exist a week later........and luckily for me, after the first one who did that (who i was faithful to 100%), i didn't fall for the L word again, and I ended up with 5 solid years of experience, mostly without any heartbreak at all.........how much can a guy care that a girl dumps him, if he has 2 other girlfriends already? My thought when i got dumped were "great, now I have time to find a better 3rd girlfriend for my rotation"
Let's talk some baseball here
my pitching staff once would have been able to win the World Series
I remember in late 2006, i had 4 women that I was seeing at the same time, 1 was a fvck buddy and 3 were "girlfriends", and that was such an amazing time for having fun and getting to know myself (aka HAVING GOOD SOLID EXPERIENCE) in the dating game, i had the best rotation, AND a top notch closer!!
The ace of my "staff" cooked for me, paid for me, massaged me anytime i wanted, and had sex with me any time i wanted, no matter when (love those midnight fake-rapes where she pretends she's sleeping but really she's into it).....lots of i love you stuff, all fake on my end of course, but she heard what she needed to hear, and as a result she gave me top notch results (just like a General Manager promises his best pitcher an amazing contract in the future, so that his pitcher pitches his ass off in the present)
My 2nd ace was a vetetan, someone I was seeing for 6 months already........sex anytime, and lots of "i love you" talk, "i wanna marry you" talk - i could tell she was BPD, so i played along, just to get all of the sex I wanted, she was perfect for my rotation because she didn't push to see me more than once a week (she thought i was busy with work, a general manager does have a tough job to do after all!)
My 3rd starter was amazing for a #3, she was a self proclaimed feminist, who fell for my sweet charming act, and we were having sex by the third date.......and i got her to the point where she paid for meals (women are rich, they have more money then men, they can pay for men, go feminism!!!), and just drove over to my parents' house (since i lived with them at the time), and i would take her to my room, drink with her, and fvck her brains out......she also told me she loves me, i said it back of course, got all the sex i wanted twice a week from her
my closer was ideal, she was a freshman at the college i went to (she was 18 and i was 22 at the time), any time i was free at midnight or on a weekend afternoon, if i needed a job to be finished (maybe I had sex only 3 times with my ace, and was horny on a saturday afternoon), i just picked her up (5 minute drive for me), took her to my house, and did what I wanted......then drove her back to her campus - there was NO love talk with this one, she was the exception.
this period lasted for 2 months - best 2 months of my dating life (other times i had 2 or 3 girls at the same time, but never 4).............and eventually, they all fizzled out........all the "love" talk was fraudulent in the end, and LIKE A SMART RATIONAL PLAYER, i never took the love talk seriously.......THAT IS HOW YOU PLAY THE GAME
THAT IS HOW YOU PLAY THE DAMN GAME
Many of you have the wrong mindset, and end up playing the game wrong (thus the posts I see on sosuave about girlfriends, heartbreak, cheating, wrongdoing, insecurity, lying, sketchiness, everything tied to all of that useless committment crap).
It's time for you young don juans to evolve, and realize what kind of girls you are dealing with in the 21st century.........adapt to the situation, and start dating CORRECTLY
no more committment (tell them what they want to hear, but in your own mind, do NOT commit)
no more heartbreaks
no more analyzing - if one flakes/says no, you have 4 others........if 4 say no/flake, you still have one that says yes
no more sexual inexperience - JUST DO IT, the more you have sex, the more you know, the more you will be ready for the HB9's who want to get railed like CRAZY in the future of your dating life
no more bullsh1t - you are HAPPY to walk away from any bytch, because you are happy to have the chance to replace her
STEP UP YOUR GAME DON JUANS, IT IS TIME FOR ALL OF YOU TO CHANGE THE GAME IN YOUR FAVOR
I did, and I did it proudly, and I sit here telling you about it - do you want to tell someone about your ridiculous success in the game?
TIME TO TAKE THIS TO THE NEXT LEVEL
there is ZERO reason that you need to have some committed "girlfriend" who is controlling what you can and can't do - the last thing you as a MAN need is to be sapped of your freedom by some typical societal expectation bull**** where you are committed to just one girl, even though you aren't going to be marrying her - and this expectation pollutes your mind, heart and soul, to the point where you FORCE YOURSELF to commit to just one girl, even though it is not what you TRULY want.
When will young guys learn this??? THERE IS NO POINT IN COMMITTING TO JUST ONE GIRL WHEN YOU ARE DATING, EVER.
feel free to tell her what she wants to hear so you can continue getting what you want from her, but you owe her NOTHING, because she will have no problem dropping you as soon as her "feelings" change (and they will, they always do). Yes, there is the rare exception where the girl will love you for life, and you will get married and be happy together, BUT THE EXCEPTION PROVES THE RULE - THE RULE BEING THAT WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY WHEN THEY TRY TO BE EXCLUSIVE WITH YOU.
I speak only from experience here, i can say there have been about 15 girls overall who told me how much they loved me one day, and it was as if i didn't exist a week later........and luckily for me, after the first one who did that (who i was faithful to 100%), i didn't fall for the L word again, and I ended up with 5 solid years of experience, mostly without any heartbreak at all.........how much can a guy care that a girl dumps him, if he has 2 other girlfriends already? My thought when i got dumped were "great, now I have time to find a better 3rd girlfriend for my rotation"
Let's talk some baseball here
my pitching staff once would have been able to win the World Series
I remember in late 2006, i had 4 women that I was seeing at the same time, 1 was a fvck buddy and 3 were "girlfriends", and that was such an amazing time for having fun and getting to know myself (aka HAVING GOOD SOLID EXPERIENCE) in the dating game, i had the best rotation, AND a top notch closer!!
The ace of my "staff" cooked for me, paid for me, massaged me anytime i wanted, and had sex with me any time i wanted, no matter when (love those midnight fake-rapes where she pretends she's sleeping but really she's into it).....lots of i love you stuff, all fake on my end of course, but she heard what she needed to hear, and as a result she gave me top notch results (just like a General Manager promises his best pitcher an amazing contract in the future, so that his pitcher pitches his ass off in the present)
My 2nd ace was a vetetan, someone I was seeing for 6 months already........sex anytime, and lots of "i love you" talk, "i wanna marry you" talk - i could tell she was BPD, so i played along, just to get all of the sex I wanted, she was perfect for my rotation because she didn't push to see me more than once a week (she thought i was busy with work, a general manager does have a tough job to do after all!)
My 3rd starter was amazing for a #3, she was a self proclaimed feminist, who fell for my sweet charming act, and we were having sex by the third date.......and i got her to the point where she paid for meals (women are rich, they have more money then men, they can pay for men, go feminism!!!), and just drove over to my parents' house (since i lived with them at the time), and i would take her to my room, drink with her, and fvck her brains out......she also told me she loves me, i said it back of course, got all the sex i wanted twice a week from her
my closer was ideal, she was a freshman at the college i went to (she was 18 and i was 22 at the time), any time i was free at midnight or on a weekend afternoon, if i needed a job to be finished (maybe I had sex only 3 times with my ace, and was horny on a saturday afternoon), i just picked her up (5 minute drive for me), took her to my house, and did what I wanted......then drove her back to her campus - there was NO love talk with this one, she was the exception.
this period lasted for 2 months - best 2 months of my dating life (other times i had 2 or 3 girls at the same time, but never 4).............and eventually, they all fizzled out........all the "love" talk was fraudulent in the end, and LIKE A SMART RATIONAL PLAYER, i never took the love talk seriously.......THAT IS HOW YOU PLAY THE GAME
THAT IS HOW YOU PLAY THE DAMN GAME
Many of you have the wrong mindset, and end up playing the game wrong (thus the posts I see on sosuave about girlfriends, heartbreak, cheating, wrongdoing, insecurity, lying, sketchiness, everything tied to all of that useless committment crap).
It's time for you young don juans to evolve, and realize what kind of girls you are dealing with in the 21st century.........adapt to the situation, and start dating CORRECTLY
no more committment (tell them what they want to hear, but in your own mind, do NOT commit)
no more heartbreaks
no more analyzing - if one flakes/says no, you have 4 others........if 4 say no/flake, you still have one that says yes
no more sexual inexperience - JUST DO IT, the more you have sex, the more you know, the more you will be ready for the HB9's who want to get railed like CRAZY in the future of your dating life
no more bullsh1t - you are HAPPY to walk away from any bytch, because you are happy to have the chance to replace her
STEP UP YOUR GAME DON JUANS, IT IS TIME FOR ALL OF YOU TO CHANGE THE GAME IN YOUR FAVOR
I did, and I did it proudly, and I sit here telling you about it - do you want to tell someone about your ridiculous success in the game?
TIME TO TAKE THIS TO THE NEXT LEVEL
