I wouldn't do day game or night game at all. I would work on my life in general, try and have a good time, be helping to people and ready to learn new things and girls will be everywhere you go. Just enter conversation with them there, forget about cold approach.
I think game and DJ lifestyle coincides with what you just said. The problem is that, these days, most men reek of low testosterone, frail, skinny jeans, and are pedaling to the feminine biological strategy.
How many men are going out on their shield, pursuing their dreams, and getting girls all the while not playing into the feminine biological strategy? It's few and far between.
Even Chad's won the genetic lottery. By default he plays into it but his dumb ass thinks he's pimp. He likely gets cucked and resources extracted.
I would say, Dan Bilizarin is among the few that come to mind. There's some on pickup that do just that. Most are getting married, raising Chad's bastard kids, and playing house with cratered smv.
I've come across a lot if reformed sluts and or church girl gone *****. Marries and has kids. See 'hookup culture' and goes full retard.
Make no mistake. I fully agree with you. I just think, most men aren't getting forged in the fire. I bet a mini fraction in pickup and even here or RooshV forum have got guys beyond AA which is absolutely pathetic.
Definitely don't trash life chasing skanks. I think online and dating apps allow for amateur hour passive dating. Give the illusion of success without actually stepping up. It's documented quite nicely that said apps are full of 1. Attention *****s and 2. Low hanging fruit (cratered smv, plummeting smv, single moms, etc)!