Hey guys... havn't been here in awhile but its time for a refresh...
long story short.. we've been together through alot of **** together for about two years... I'm 24 right now and shes 26.... its getting really good now that we've figured each other out... but the problem is... I still want to travel and do crazy ****... not in a screw alot of chicks thing but other stuff... like skydiving and going to thailand to do some kickboxing and ect...ect...
shes seriously in love with me.. and its not a secret between us that her feelings are much stronger for me that mine are for her... but she still talks about marriage and "our kids" and stuff like that... but I have no plans to marry anytime soon.. much less have kids... shes like 26 and shes feeling that biological clock tick away and feels she "has to get married soon" and all that crap... I'm more of the life-time partner kinda idea without the legal contract thing... I mean if i feel like getting married one day to a chick, I have no problem doing it... but I think two people should stay together if they want to.. and shouldnt stay together just because they are "married"...
and I don't really have a reason to break up with her other than I want to be on my own again... for no other reason to just do other stuff I feel I wouldnt be able to do if I was with her... I guess I'm just guilt tripping myself because I'm gonna feel like **** if I do break it off... and even crazier is that things are awesome right now between us!!..lol..
the only salvation I have is that I'm working in Canada right now (I'm american and shes canadian) under the table.. but I have to get a work permit to stay here and get another job... if that doesn't happen then I will have to go back to the US..
any advice or tips of breaking it off smoothly... and without her hating me in the process..?
Best,
Jin
long story short.. we've been together through alot of **** together for about two years... I'm 24 right now and shes 26.... its getting really good now that we've figured each other out... but the problem is... I still want to travel and do crazy ****... not in a screw alot of chicks thing but other stuff... like skydiving and going to thailand to do some kickboxing and ect...ect...
shes seriously in love with me.. and its not a secret between us that her feelings are much stronger for me that mine are for her... but she still talks about marriage and "our kids" and stuff like that... but I have no plans to marry anytime soon.. much less have kids... shes like 26 and shes feeling that biological clock tick away and feels she "has to get married soon" and all that crap... I'm more of the life-time partner kinda idea without the legal contract thing... I mean if i feel like getting married one day to a chick, I have no problem doing it... but I think two people should stay together if they want to.. and shouldnt stay together just because they are "married"...
and I don't really have a reason to break up with her other than I want to be on my own again... for no other reason to just do other stuff I feel I wouldnt be able to do if I was with her... I guess I'm just guilt tripping myself because I'm gonna feel like **** if I do break it off... and even crazier is that things are awesome right now between us!!..lol..
the only salvation I have is that I'm working in Canada right now (I'm american and shes canadian) under the table.. but I have to get a work permit to stay here and get another job... if that doesn't happen then I will have to go back to the US..
any advice or tips of breaking it off smoothly... and without her hating me in the process..?
Best,
Jin