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Don Juan
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The natural reaction of most here will probably be to next her. Ordinarly I would but I have to deal with her for over a dozen hours a day from Monday-Friday so I might as well try to salvage something. I am pretty sure she is into me, i.e. she laughs at anything remotely funny I say and I get a good vibe. However, whenever I do something to take things to the next level she becomes cold or rebuffs it. Then, I get cold in response, ignore her and then she tries to win me be back. So she clearly likes me and wants me to like her but there is something that is keeping her from taking it to the next level. Despite us being together nearly daily for a month, she didn't even give me her number yesterday (I hadn't asked for it before because I was taking things slow)! I thought I may have been LBJF'ed but this strongly suggests otherwise. If I were just a friend why wouldn't she give me her number??? It seems she is afraid of getting into something with me. I see two possible reasons for this: 1) She had a bad previous relationship and is reluctant to enter another one 2) Ethnicity (she is Jewish, I have a Muslim background). I had previously thought she was just an attention ***** but that doesn't seem the case. She doesn't even talk to anyone around us other than me and actually seems to have some social problems with being afraid to talk to anyone other than me, and I built comfort with her early via humor and kino. Perhaps she was a typical "nerd" in her past.
How can I gradually break through with her? I will see her nearly daily until May. I am planning on continuing what I have been doing and asking her to come to things I go to, i.e. a party or something. I won't ask her to do anything just with me. The idea is that over time she can get over whatever hang up she has.
How can I gradually break through with her? I will see her nearly daily until May. I am planning on continuing what I have been doing and asking her to come to things I go to, i.e. a party or something. I won't ask her to do anything just with me. The idea is that over time she can get over whatever hang up she has.