How to blow her mind on the phone?

[Don Serbe]

Ive tried to search for a post about blowing a girls mind on the phone when you call her up however to no avail (short comings of the search function)

Anyway I wish to know how one goes about blowing her mind when you call her up. I think this is important because its so easy to screw things up on the phone and the excitement she might have felt when she first gave you the number compared to speaking to her on the phone i suspect would be significantly less in the latter case.

Ok i know that probably the first principle is that you need to be confident. (Ticked off the checklist)

....but what else should one do or say. Is there a way to flirt on the phone and how?

I had an experience with one girl who answered the phone as if she had all the energy sucked out of her. Ok who knows what her problem was however it was a bit of a turn off. Naturally i remained bouncy and bouyant in my tone. (So much for the classic female propaganda that they need a guy with energy. I think we have more energy then they know or care to admit)

I am happy to hear any suggestions or experiences

 

[GropeDope]

Yeah I was looking for something like this the other night too. I'm not too good w/phone conversations. I force myself to make them short (3 - 5 min). Problem is, sometimes if she's hot enough I actually do want to have a good 7 - 10 minute conversation where I mess around with her head and make her laugh, but whenever I try that I fall into some "20 seconds of awkward silence" crap cause she doesn't respond the right way or because I just start looking for bs to talk about that I don't care about. So it would definitely be nice for someone to post some advice (or link to a thread) that has information on blowing her mind or really raising her IL just by phone call.

 

[sux2bu]

The only way you can blow a girl's mind, is in the bed. Sorry.

 

[MindNsoul]

You're not suppose to blow her mind on the phone. The phone is nothing more than a tool you use to make appointments and to get her excited about seing you.

As a man you're not suppose to spend hours on the phone talking to some girl you've just men. If you're a true DJ and you've got lots going for you and you've got places to go and people to see she hasn't earned your time on the phone yet.

You're suppose to "blow her mind on the dates" taking your chances of trying to "blowe her mind" on the phone will put too much pressure on you and prevent you from even getting a 1st date.

Keep conversations short untill you've had at least 2-3 dates with this girl to see if she truly deserves your time and fits the bill or on your list of MUST HAVE qualities. Untill then I don't see why you should be talking to her for no more than 5-10 minutes each time, and even if she wants to keep talking say you have to go somewhere (make it sounds exciting).

REMEMBER YOU'RE A DJ, YOUR TIME IS VALUABLE AND YOU DON'T HAVE TIME FOR PHONE TALKS WITH DITSY CHICKS THAT HAVEN'T PROVEN THEIR WORTH YET..

 

[Dee-Zy]

tell her to be open minded and blow in the receptor of your phone!

 

[MindNsoul]

Originally posted by Dee-Zy
tell her to be open minded and blow in the receptor of your phone!

lol
Dee-Zy you're a crazy mofo! lol

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. use inclusive words such as (we, our, us together). Ho's love this shyt makes them spin outta control.

2. women's greatest sexual organ in their brain. the pu*ssy and the brain are connected. stimulate the brain using the above style and she will fall in love with you or become infatuated.

3. stay in control of the convo and lead her. don't put her on a pedistal and she will crave you

 

[legolas]

1. Find her current mood

• Ask her to make up, and tell you a story of what comes to her mind right at that moment.
• From the story discover what she is thinking about and either amplify it, or find a way to bring about an erotic thread.
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  Example:
  
  You(after some fluff talk): Hey let's play a game. Why don't you come up with a short story of what's going on in your mind right now, and tell it to me.
  
  Her: Okay. So I'm sitting here on the couch, and out of nowhere my cat comes into my lap. He looks me in the eye, and I can tell he wants some attention. So I start to slowly stroke his back, and he puts his small head on my leg, crawls up like a small bundle of fur and starts purring. How was that?
  
  You: Wow!! I felt like I was the one stroking the little kitty. lol
  Her: Lol Really?
  
  You: yeah. You know when I was a kid, I had there was this girl in the neighborhood who had a lot of cats. She always loved how they purred if you took care of them, and we would spend countless hours, me and her caressing the little kitties. But one day she wanted to play a game. She said that she wanted to become my kitty, and I was to caress her slowly until she purred.
  
  Her: No way!!
  
  You: I'm serious! She asks me to put my hand on her back, puts her head on my lap and asks me to slowly move it up and down until she felt like purring. Well after while we really got into it, and the back was not enough anymore. Damn I loved how she purred under my control.
  
  Okay this is total BS, but you get the idea

 

[GropeDope]

Originally posted by MindNsoul
You're not suppose to blow her mind on the phone. The phone is nothing more than a tool you use to make appointments and to get her excited about seing you.

As a man you're not suppose to spend hours on the phone talking to some girl you've just men. If you're a true DJ and you've got lots going for you and you've got places to go and people to see she hasn't earned your time on the phone yet.

You're suppose to "blow her mind on the dates" taking your chances of trying to "blowe her mind" on the phone will put too much pressure on you and prevent you from even getting a 1st date.

Keep conversations short untill you've had at least 2-3 dates with this girl to see if she truly deserves your time and fits the bill or on your list of MUST HAVE qualities. Untill then I don't see why you should be talking to her for no more than 5-10 minutes each time, and even if she wants to keep talking say you have to go somewhere (make it sounds exciting).

REMEMBER YOU'RE A DJ, YOUR TIME IS VALUABLE AND YOU DON'T HAVE TIME FOR PHONE TALKS WITH DITSY CHICKS THAT HAVEN'T PROVEN THEIR WORTH YET..

Now that I think about it, this thread deals more with SS than DJing. I guess the PUAs would have better responses to this thread than the DJs since the PUAs are so used to spewing out tons of bs to whoa a chick over. Your post, MindNsoul, pointed that out to me.

 

[confus4ever]

I think MindNsouls reply was the best.

Make em' wonder....

 

[felony]

To make them wonder about you, all you do is call up, keep it brief and request their company on a date.
After doing this simple yet effective normal action which doesn't require any BS anaylsing and BS thinking and BS worrying she will more than likely be wet about you all day.

Guys use phones to arrange to meet and communicate.
Chicks use them as a conversation tool.
YOU are too BUSY to chat on the phone!

Chatting on the phone only reduces the quality of conversation when the two of you are together.

Cheers,
felony.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Oh my god, seriously guys.

You don't blow her mind on the phone, you do that in REAL life as in one on one mano to mano (well maybe not exactly lol)

The phone is not to chit chat. It's to set up the dates.

ALL INTERACTIONS ARE LIVE

not through the phone, internet or answering machine.

U might as well ask: "hey guys, how can I leave a message on her answering machine so she will be ALL wet for me?"

 

[MindNsoul]

Just in case some of you guys have not learned it yet..
FOR THE LAST TIME.. LONG PHONE CONVERSATIONS ARE BAD FOR GIRLS YOU'VE JUST MET AND ARE TRYING TO DATE OR SCREW..

Over time, you'll find that chicks which are in high demand don't like to spend tons of time on the phone either, they are use to being stimulated in person. But needy insecure women tend to prefer and feel comfortable with the phone.

I've found that any HB7 or higher spends little time on the phone. the once which are 6.5 or lower love it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by sux2bu
The only way you can blow a girl's mind, is in the bed. Sorry.

Yeah, why the hell would you want to waste the effort over the phone, what do YOU get out of it? Use the phone to set a date/time to get together and THEN blow her mind in person!

 

[Craig Reeves]

Reply...

FOR THE LAST TIME.. LONG PHONE CONVERSATIONS ARE BAD FOR GIRLS YOU'VE JUST MET AND ARE TRYING TO DATE OR SCREW..

ROFL! What you said was true, but that was funny!