how to be unattractive?

[upandown101]

alright I have been using this stuff for awile and studying and now am decent at most of it, but because of this I have a problem. I accidentally used it on my friends girl friend and now she is obsessed with me. I do not like her like that and would not want her to go to far with me since shes my friends gf. How do I keep her liking me as a friend without goin too afcish?

 

[Teen Spirit]

What does it matter whether she likes you or not? If you don't want to do anything with her, then don't. What are you afraid she's going to rape you?

 

[white cloud 8]

What does it matter whether she likes you or not? If you don't want to do anything with her, then don't. What are you afraid she's going to rape you?

ahhhh....the tables have turned .

 

[SomeRandomGuy]

lol....never expected a person to want this. But....who cares..let her like you...shell eventually get tired and maybe stop liking you. I mean.....just like upansdown101 said....."What are you afraid she's going to rape you?".

And what the heck is your friend up to, for him to lose his girlfriend to you when you did it "accidentally".

 

[Vincent]

I found that if you accidentally got a girl you weren't attracted to attracted to you the best way to get her to get over you is to be a complete ass to her.

It's kinda harsh but it works. Only use it on girls who's relationship with is purely her and she doesn't know anyone else that knows you.

If its a girl who has relationships with people who you know, then I wouldn't advise taking this advice. The best thing to do in this situation is to show little interest untill she gets the idea.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

this was no accident

your actually learning the ways of the dj, and thus you become a sexy dog in real life. your not "using" it on her, your just being what you are beginning to become

though this comes with a curse. you have to beat the chicks off with a stick.

you have been warned, turn back if you don't want those girls to like you. else, take up the mantle of dj.

remember, with great power comes great responsibility

 

[upandown101]

actually she has come pretty close to rapin me lol. Shes always all over me any time im around her. Ive tried being a complete ass to her she always thinks im just teasing or playing with her. Should i just avoid her? that just seems kind of wimpy to me. What do i do? lol

 

[Qmanchoo]

I love it.

You could try this route...

Talk about things you're really afraid of around her, look scared at something that shoudln't be scary, talk about being lonely and that girls don't like you because you smell bad, talk to her about boring **** ALL THE TIME, talk about not having any friends, talk about the great time you had playing dungeons and dragons the other night while watching star trek and starwars on your special 2 TV system you hot wired and explain all the BORING technical details about how you set it up, talk about how you just can't handle life or girls and that you're a boy toy. rofl.

It's easy to look like a complete loser and turn her off if you think about it!

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

you realize that this will hurt his chances in the future with other girls right

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

At least you're being a man about it. Taking another man's woman is wrong, specially your friends women. Have some honor and resist her advances. The only question is how long will you be able to resist her? just make sure when you are around her it is always a public place. Make sure you don't end up somewhere more private/secluded where she might end up seducing you.

 

[upandown101]

lol qmanchoo I like your ideas but I want to look good around the other girls.

I always see her at bowling on Tuesdays while my friend thats dating her is there. Yesterday when she was about to leave she tried to come over and kiss me. I resisted it like you said but it just made her more crazy about me. I really dont know what to do about this. I'm used to girls liking me, but it usually stops or I stop going to the places that their at, but im on a league and must go. Someone tell me if it was the right thing to resist her kiss I think I did it wrong because I did it in a teasing manner not wanting to hurt her feelings really.

 

[Qmanchoo]

Pimp - Sure, it can have an indirect impact I completely agree. I think it's pretty obvious that they aren't things you say in a crowded public scene, the opinion of you that you create in her mind will circulate to other girls, but I personally don't believe that this girls opnion will make or break him in any way if he's expressing strong social value to other people.

I've seen people with horrible reps rebound and become quite popular with strong social value simply because somwhere along the way they became extremely extroverted and fun and expressed this well in groups.

In any case, it's half joking / half serious, if you note my "rofl" at the end of the paragraph. I think he's smart enough to recognize that.

Some of what I said will work great though. Be boring around/towards her. Then be not boring around the one you want...

 

[Testify]

Be honest with her. Tell her straight up. "Look, this isn't right. You are with my best buddy and I don't want him getting hurt. I don't feel the same way about you so get over it." The worst that can happen is she'll get offended and then she'll leave you alone. I don't think by saying that she will get turned on by it. So you should be out of it then. And that doesn't make you look bad to other girls or her either really.

You might wanna mention this to your bud too. If she's all over you. Can she be trusted by your friend?

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

let me think, why not try bieng forward about it and talk to her rather then thinking how can i stop her from liking me.

 

[upandown101]

alright thanks everyone for the help

My friend is afcish and will probly be going out with her for quite a while, but im trying to teach him in the ways of a Don Juan. I told her straight up she got mad, but I don't really think it made me look bad. Hope he breaks up with her soon though because its really aqward being around her now.

thanks, upandown101