I bought John Alexander's book: "How to Become an Alpha Male" last week and I have to say that it's a pretty decent book.
Anyways, there is a chapter where he discusses being an alpha(dominant) male when you are in a group. He argues that to be the alpha male you should be the one doing the talking and to do so as much as possible. He also says that you should have a relaxed and somewhat spread out pose(Don't sit there all scrunched up with your arms folded). He says that this type of behavior is what women find attractive because he says you appear to be dominant.
I want to get all of your opinions on this piece of advice. I always thought that the men who appear physically relaxed and in a physically spread out kind of manner, but basically pretty quiet(until they have something very interesting/funny/important to say) were that ones that looked the coolest and most in control and therefore most dominant. The guys who do all the talking regardless of how interesting it is always appeared to be overly chatty and eager. But I'm a guy so maybe this looks different to me than it would a woman. I want to hear everyone else's opinions on this.
Anyways, there is a chapter where he discusses being an alpha(dominant) male when you are in a group. He argues that to be the alpha male you should be the one doing the talking and to do so as much as possible. He also says that you should have a relaxed and somewhat spread out pose(Don't sit there all scrunched up with your arms folded). He says that this type of behavior is what women find attractive because he says you appear to be dominant.
I want to get all of your opinions on this piece of advice. I always thought that the men who appear physically relaxed and in a physically spread out kind of manner, but basically pretty quiet(until they have something very interesting/funny/important to say) were that ones that looked the coolest and most in control and therefore most dominant. The guys who do all the talking regardless of how interesting it is always appeared to be overly chatty and eager. But I'm a guy so maybe this looks different to me than it would a woman. I want to hear everyone else's opinions on this.
