Nothing wrong with being popular. There is an article in the DJ Bible which I thought was outdated a little. I took some aspects and changed them and made up others. Don't question me on if I am popular – I guess you will never know. Believe me I am but you sitting here on a forum and me sitting on a forum does not prove anything. I have been popular all my life (currently last year high school). Up to you if you believe me. Any questions hit me up. Maybe this could be added to DJ Bible. Catch ya'll.
a) Good attitude
Want to know my best asset? I've got a good attitude. I get on with everyone. I know EVERY persons name in my year. I could walk up to them and have a conversation with all of them infact I think I have talked to everyone. Just have a good attitude. I'm not talking about being C & F here I'm talking about keeping positive. I know this girl (about a 7) ...people would like her so much more if she wasn't so negative. Don't WHINE! One of my mates whines now and the rest of the group are getting pissed off. Be funny, be able to hold a conversation and smile. Its that simple. Pay interests in things, dont be too sarcastic and be fun to be around.
b) Dress yourself nicely
So your a goth and you want to be popular? Chances are not high. Look. I'm not saying be preppy and buy A&F (like me lol) but at least look smart. Wear nice clothes, have a sense of style. Have nice aftershave even. Abercrombie is a good look because it is a POPULAR look. I recommend it if you think it fits your style. Watch movies, watch music videos, watch TV. Keep up with the style. This way at least people won't talk about you in a negative way. Don't have a stupid haircut and if you can't do anything with it get a low shave so it at least looks respectable.
c) Make yourself something
Ok. Why are people popular? Or better put, why do the popular kids generally stick together? Its not because *******s stick together. Take a look at the popular group tommorow at school. Notice something? They ALL have something. Ok I'll point out my group at school. You have the best athletes in the school, you have the funny guy, you got the typical model-looking guys, you got the players that get all the *****, you got the leaders. Notice it? They all are something ...and its all something good. Now I'm not saying playing chess isn't good (lol) but chess isn't something associated with being cool. And being cool usually equals popularity. So what am I saying? BE SOMETHING. I don't care what it is as long as it is something. Myself I play sports, I'm quite big (through strenious gym hours) and I'm a school leader. I have always been popular. But a reason is because I'm something. Just BE SOMETHING! Be good at sports, be an allround nice guy (to everyone that you aint don juaning, be funny, be smoothe with the ladies, join a sports team, start working out. Get known!
Why are the geeks ...geeks? They play computer games at break. They talk about gaming and not woman. They play chess. Distance yourself from this! Change yourself. There is no excuse to not look good for instance. You CAN get BIG and CUT. It takes a few years to get a good body but hell at least your changing yourself (this doesn't happen in a day). At least you will be known as the guy with the nice
body. You have to be ONE THING AT LEAST. Something that the group doesn't have will most likely bring you in.
d) Keep your ears open
Keep updated - listen at school! Is there a party on? Thats something you can talk about. Thats something you can go to. That’s where you can meet people (but don't go there alone, shows your a loner). Just keep your ears open with whats happening in the day to do running of the school. Turn up to events that popular people would (football trainings, etc.). Start watching the popular sports on TV and research them (whats happening in the NBA at the moment?).
e) Target a few people and go after them
No I don't mean DJ them. I mean find a few popular kids in your class and start a conversation with one of them. Through one kid you will be introduced to the next and as long as you play it cool then you will be fine and they will accept you. Talk to a popular kid at school that you can most relate to (if theres any?) and try get a conversation going. Don't laugh when you don't need to. Don't laugh at all their jokes. Don't be a dork. Talk about things that are happening (cool movies, hot girls, Sports Illustrated Bikini Edition). Show that you two have similar interests. Don't be needy. Let the process happen slowly. If things are going good then keep it that way. Once your freinds with the guy he will no doubt introduce you to the others.
a) Good attitude
Want to know my best asset? I've got a good attitude. I get on with everyone. I know EVERY persons name in my year. I could walk up to them and have a conversation with all of them infact I think I have talked to everyone. Just have a good attitude. I'm not talking about being C & F here I'm talking about keeping positive. I know this girl (about a 7) ...people would like her so much more if she wasn't so negative. Don't WHINE! One of my mates whines now and the rest of the group are getting pissed off. Be funny, be able to hold a conversation and smile. Its that simple. Pay interests in things, dont be too sarcastic and be fun to be around.
b) Dress yourself nicely
So your a goth and you want to be popular? Chances are not high. Look. I'm not saying be preppy and buy A&F (like me lol) but at least look smart. Wear nice clothes, have a sense of style. Have nice aftershave even. Abercrombie is a good look because it is a POPULAR look. I recommend it if you think it fits your style. Watch movies, watch music videos, watch TV. Keep up with the style. This way at least people won't talk about you in a negative way. Don't have a stupid haircut and if you can't do anything with it get a low shave so it at least looks respectable.
c) Make yourself something
Ok. Why are people popular? Or better put, why do the popular kids generally stick together? Its not because *******s stick together. Take a look at the popular group tommorow at school. Notice something? They ALL have something. Ok I'll point out my group at school. You have the best athletes in the school, you have the funny guy, you got the typical model-looking guys, you got the players that get all the *****, you got the leaders. Notice it? They all are something ...and its all something good. Now I'm not saying playing chess isn't good (lol) but chess isn't something associated with being cool. And being cool usually equals popularity. So what am I saying? BE SOMETHING. I don't care what it is as long as it is something. Myself I play sports, I'm quite big (through strenious gym hours) and I'm a school leader. I have always been popular. But a reason is because I'm something. Just BE SOMETHING! Be good at sports, be an allround nice guy (to everyone that you aint don juaning, be funny, be smoothe with the ladies, join a sports team, start working out. Get known!
Why are the geeks ...geeks? They play computer games at break. They talk about gaming and not woman. They play chess. Distance yourself from this! Change yourself. There is no excuse to not look good for instance. You CAN get BIG and CUT. It takes a few years to get a good body but hell at least your changing yourself (this doesn't happen in a day). At least you will be known as the guy with the nice
body. You have to be ONE THING AT LEAST. Something that the group doesn't have will most likely bring you in.
d) Keep your ears open
Keep updated - listen at school! Is there a party on? Thats something you can talk about. Thats something you can go to. That’s where you can meet people (but don't go there alone, shows your a loner). Just keep your ears open with whats happening in the day to do running of the school. Turn up to events that popular people would (football trainings, etc.). Start watching the popular sports on TV and research them (whats happening in the NBA at the moment?).
e) Target a few people and go after them
No I don't mean DJ them. I mean find a few popular kids in your class and start a conversation with one of them. Through one kid you will be introduced to the next and as long as you play it cool then you will be fine and they will accept you. Talk to a popular kid at school that you can most relate to (if theres any?) and try get a conversation going. Don't laugh when you don't need to. Don't laugh at all their jokes. Don't be a dork. Talk about things that are happening (cool movies, hot girls, Sports Illustrated Bikini Edition). Show that you two have similar interests. Don't be needy. Let the process happen slowly. If things are going good then keep it that way. Once your freinds with the guy he will no doubt introduce you to the others.
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