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Don Juan
Most guys take online dating way too seriously when they shouldn't. Online dating should only be used for acquiring extra women that co insides with you going out to meet new women. It kind of goes hand in hand. with dating. You use the online women for an extra source, in case of a flake or when you just want to get laid. Relying solely on online dating is not the way to go, because you will end up more frustrated than not. With the large amount of low quality looking women that frequent the sites, you will end up scratching your head most of the time. Don't spend too much time online and only use it as an extra alternative.
Some guys will go to great lengths to come up with the perfect profile. They will try to write an overly funny profile and will end up looking like a clown. Others will bore the sh*t out of women by writing their entire life story. The rest will show themselves as an AFC looking for the "perfect woman" as they drone on about being a nice guy. Avoid all that nonsense because most chicks don't give a sh*t anyway. Get to the point and have confidence in what you say about yourself. Do you think a chick cares if you just learned to play the guitar or that your brother is your best friend?
Pictures are the most important part of your profile. Women will judge you on looks and that will be the image they have of you even if they decide to meet up with you. Some guys will take the constipated looking selfies or the awkward lonely pose in which you appear as a loner. Some will pose with a Hooters Girl or some model chick from an event that's out of their league. The cropped pictures always seem to make an appearance as well. All of those types of pictures should be avoided at all cost.
Online dating gurus or amateurs giving online dating advice will always swear by telling you to use your best pictures. Well, I'm here to say that you shouldn't use your best pictures. What? Why do I say that? Because you don't want to appear to look better online than you actually do in person. If you look worse in person than you do in your pictures, then your date wont go over too well. Most importantly, you won't get laid by the chick you were trying to game.
People forget that you still have to meet up with the chick on the date if you want to get laid. Nothing is guaranteed over the internet until you show up as the same guy you were online. Women have that same online image of you imprinted in their minds. And if you show up not looking the same as they picture you as, they will be turned off.
Men will try to cover up their imperfections in the photos they choose. They might crop out their beer gut or conceal their thinning or balding head. Some will use older photos trying to appear younger or photo shop themselves into looking better than they are. Sometimes you might look better in a picture than you do in person. Using pictures that don't represent what you actually look like will do more harm than good.
What you want to do is look better in person than your pictures, so that your date is a guaranteed lay when the chick sees you as better than what she thought. The last thing you want is to be rejected, when you surprise the chick by showing up not looking like your online photos. You spent all your time getting the number, and the date, so make it successful by getting what you want, getting laid. Don't hide or conceal what you truly look like, because you won't be very successful. If you look like you actually do, then there shouldn't be a problem, unless the chick turns out to be not looking so hot.
The most important part of online dating is the actual date itself. You can't sit behind the computer and have real sex, the computer won't f*ck you, nor will a virtual chick come through the screen to bang you. All online interactions go out the window when you actually meet up. Then it becomes face to face where you have to use your actual game. Using other people's openers or copy and pasted material won't help you if you aren't the funny and witty guy she knows you as. This is where a lot of guys fail because they invest way too much into the online portion without thinking about the actual dating portion. This is why, the dating portion should be the most important part, because that is where you will actually get laid.
To be successful in online dating you should not take it too seriously, not spend too much time with it, write a decent about me, use pictures that represent yourself, don't invest too much with the online part, focus on the dating part of it, get laid by the numbers and not rejected for looking worse in person than your pictures.
Some guys will go to great lengths to come up with the perfect profile. They will try to write an overly funny profile and will end up looking like a clown. Others will bore the sh*t out of women by writing their entire life story. The rest will show themselves as an AFC looking for the "perfect woman" as they drone on about being a nice guy. Avoid all that nonsense because most chicks don't give a sh*t anyway. Get to the point and have confidence in what you say about yourself. Do you think a chick cares if you just learned to play the guitar or that your brother is your best friend?
Pictures are the most important part of your profile. Women will judge you on looks and that will be the image they have of you even if they decide to meet up with you. Some guys will take the constipated looking selfies or the awkward lonely pose in which you appear as a loner. Some will pose with a Hooters Girl or some model chick from an event that's out of their league. The cropped pictures always seem to make an appearance as well. All of those types of pictures should be avoided at all cost.
Online dating gurus or amateurs giving online dating advice will always swear by telling you to use your best pictures. Well, I'm here to say that you shouldn't use your best pictures. What? Why do I say that? Because you don't want to appear to look better online than you actually do in person. If you look worse in person than you do in your pictures, then your date wont go over too well. Most importantly, you won't get laid by the chick you were trying to game.
People forget that you still have to meet up with the chick on the date if you want to get laid. Nothing is guaranteed over the internet until you show up as the same guy you were online. Women have that same online image of you imprinted in their minds. And if you show up not looking the same as they picture you as, they will be turned off.
Men will try to cover up their imperfections in the photos they choose. They might crop out their beer gut or conceal their thinning or balding head. Some will use older photos trying to appear younger or photo shop themselves into looking better than they are. Sometimes you might look better in a picture than you do in person. Using pictures that don't represent what you actually look like will do more harm than good.
What you want to do is look better in person than your pictures, so that your date is a guaranteed lay when the chick sees you as better than what she thought. The last thing you want is to be rejected, when you surprise the chick by showing up not looking like your online photos. You spent all your time getting the number, and the date, so make it successful by getting what you want, getting laid. Don't hide or conceal what you truly look like, because you won't be very successful. If you look like you actually do, then there shouldn't be a problem, unless the chick turns out to be not looking so hot.
The most important part of online dating is the actual date itself. You can't sit behind the computer and have real sex, the computer won't f*ck you, nor will a virtual chick come through the screen to bang you. All online interactions go out the window when you actually meet up. Then it becomes face to face where you have to use your actual game. Using other people's openers or copy and pasted material won't help you if you aren't the funny and witty guy she knows you as. This is where a lot of guys fail because they invest way too much into the online portion without thinking about the actual dating portion. This is why, the dating portion should be the most important part, because that is where you will actually get laid.
To be successful in online dating you should not take it too seriously, not spend too much time with it, write a decent about me, use pictures that represent yourself, don't invest too much with the online part, focus on the dating part of it, get laid by the numbers and not rejected for looking worse in person than your pictures.
