I found this on another forum I read. Found it interesting so here it is.
Really, the process is not as complicated as one would think. The way women can be attractive is relatively simple: stay slim, work out, smile, and have great hair. It isn't as complicated, or so I believe, to be attractive for a female as it is for a male. It is a good deal more difficult, but the requirements are simple.
With men it is MUCH harder to figure out what women like. It can go so far as the material your pants are made of. Each woman likes different types of men, but I'm going to go out on a limb here and explain to you why the hottest guys in showbiz have achieved this status.
I shall start with one of my current favorties, who happens to also be the "Latest Thing" in Hollywood. Ladies and gentlemen, Colin Farrell
Thank you, Corbis, for producing the perfect picture.
Obviously, this is not the Colin Farrell we know and love. Here, he looks like an ordinary guy. Nothing wrong with that. But looking like that will not land you Britney Spears.
So what happened? Granted, Colin Farrell is a good looking guy, whether he's wearing Walmart (see above) or Armani. But this is not a requirement.
So, now I will begin with the three things we shall focus on in today's lesson.
a. Hair
b. Face
c. clothes
_
The hair here is almost perfect, but a little too long and a little too combed. Go long or short - there is no inbetween. Right now the style is messy, so go with it. Wash your hair, but don't comb it. mess it up, spritz a little spray, and let it lie. It's pretty easy.
DO NOT SHAVE YOUR HEAD! Do not, under any circumstances, cut your hair all off. Dye it, highlight it, whatever, but do not go bald. Women like hair on a man's head. No crew cuts.
The preppy look is out, boys. We no longer find blonde tips, combed straight with a sheen of hair gel attractive.
That was the easy part. Cute hair will cost you a 20 dollar trip to the salon... yes, I said salon. Not barber. Unless you want to look like your father...
_
The face. Some men have good facial structure. Nice cheek bones, a good nose, a solid, firm jaw line. Nice lips. (See Tom Welling for the jaw) Some men are not so lucky, but this can be remedied, my friends!
The solution? Facial hair! Now, do not go grow a beard. Tree huggers (see Al Gore) tend to be associated with beards. Tree huggers, while noble in their cause, are not cool. Keep your facial hair light. Really light. A two - three day stubble is usually the best course of action. Shave/trim only once every three to four days.
Now, facial hair is tricky. To know where to have it to best compliment your face is the most difficult thing to figure out. I do not know your face, so I can not give you the perfect answer, but here are a few guidelines.
Round - some men are over weight... other men simply have round faces. Yeah, it sucks, but facial hair can help. Do not, I repeat, do not exend the facial hair past the goatee. that's the slight mustash connected to the chin thing. It will bring attention to your chin (and your mouth) which will thin down your face.
Square - shave it, baby. Jaw lines like yours need to be seen! Maybe a little stubble, but never go over three days without shaving/ God gave you a gift - show it off.
In between - ah, the cursed. Well, fear not my friends! Both Elijah Wood and Colin Farrell have inbetween faces. So what do you do? Extended sideburns that go all the way to your chin. Hair should be sparce, but there. Do not have a rug along your jaw, nor peach fuzz. A healthy medium looks best. And do not do the pencil thin beard that white rappers do to look cool - it doesn't.
Here is the perfect example. I give you, Elijah Wood.
Without this mini beard, he looks about 12 years old. So even he can look hot, with the right use of facial hair. Mustaches are a big no no. No no no no no. What? just a little? No.
I shall now go up to the eyes, which are important. As you can see, Elijah Wood has great eyes. Great shape, great color. The shape can't be fixed, unless you pay big money for a plastic surgon. The color, however, is much easier to change. Colored contacts. And make sure they are your original eye color.
People often make the mistake of wanting to change their eye color, so others are surprised when pretty green eyes go to brown. Don't change, just improve upon what God has given you. The tough thing with colored contacts is making sure that your eyes look realistic. That is a decision you will have to make on your own.
One more thing. Stand up straight. Slouchers remind women of cave men, and no one finds them attractive.
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Colin after these two adjustments
_
Clothes
Mix. Mix Mix Mix Mix Mix. Avoid The Gap, Structure, and Abercrombie like they were under SARS quarentine. Where to shop, then? Armani, Nordstroms... and Goodwill. Yes, I said Goodwill. Spend good money on things like your jeans. It is all about the pants. Flat front, but make sure it hugs your behind. Girls like a nice butt. Do not wear all Armani, or all Goodwill. Mix them. Wear dark colors.... blues, greens, and blacks; or grey. Do not wear advertisements. You are not a billboard. No writing, either.
Make sure your jeans LOOK tailored. Avoid Walmart pants at all costs. Do not wear khakis, or shiny material. You are not gay. You can not go wrong with the right jeans.
Buy nice shoes - never sneakers. Converse, hiking boots - dress shoes if you're planning to go to a nice place. I am quoting from a book by the author of First Wives Club when I say that "Do not wear sandles, unless you think Jesus had a hot social life."
Shirts are difficult. But one thing I can say for certain - t shirts are attractive only if they fit just right. The line between two baggy and two tight is a very thin one, so walk it carefully. And do have a variety. Do not wear T shirts all the time, please. Take pride in how you look. This is one thing Colin Farrell really hasn't got going for him most of the time.
A good jacket can help. Don't buy Armani - hit Goodwill. If you don;t find anything at first, keep trying. If you have a blck blazer, make it work for you, but wear it sloppily. Leather jackets are all well and good, but don't go looking like a biker. Be unique, when it comes to your jacket selection. And don't be afraid to wear them in July.
_
The end result. Ta da.
Much improved, and as hot as the sun.
_
This is the end of my little rant, for now, anyway. Forgive all typos are mispellings: I am not an English major. I will say this: Everything above is based solely on physical appearance. We all know while this will get you attention, it is your attitude that will land you the girl.
Some girls like bad boys - especially young women. It is difficult to mimic this attitude, and I will not tell you to try. It is most unfortunate that women do not like men who act like themselves. Most of the time, we like arrogant jerks. Why? Because to us it seems that if they want us, if that they love us and have picked us out of all the other girls out there, that we must be something special.
Now, this is not me. I am not saying ALL women like guys who work on their looks or are *******s. It is, however, what the vast majority of what young, college women prefer. From about 16 to 28.
But one of these days, these girls are going to grow up (so will you), and if you have no work ethic, no real personality, and no kindness in you, they will start looking for someone who is much more stable.
I would tell you to be yourself, but in truth, it just doesn't work. Looks matter, and anyone who tells you different is lying. From first hand experience, I have learned this, and it is a hard reality to face.
There is something respectable, however, about the man who is truly himself. Confidence is key, if you do not wish to try and change who you appear to be to everyone else. If nothing else, be confident. Not condescending, not arrogant - confident. Don't let any female take advantage of you - don't let yourself be used. Don't be clingy or desperate. Don't be aloof, either. If you like yourself, the rest will come as second nature.
It might not get you a date now, but don't give up all hope. We all come around. eventually. some faster than others.
And eventually, these girls will come to appreciate it.
Really, the process is not as complicated as one would think. The way women can be attractive is relatively simple: stay slim, work out, smile, and have great hair. It isn't as complicated, or so I believe, to be attractive for a female as it is for a male. It is a good deal more difficult, but the requirements are simple.
With men it is MUCH harder to figure out what women like. It can go so far as the material your pants are made of. Each woman likes different types of men, but I'm going to go out on a limb here and explain to you why the hottest guys in showbiz have achieved this status.
I shall start with one of my current favorties, who happens to also be the "Latest Thing" in Hollywood. Ladies and gentlemen, Colin Farrell
Thank you, Corbis, for producing the perfect picture.
Obviously, this is not the Colin Farrell we know and love. Here, he looks like an ordinary guy. Nothing wrong with that. But looking like that will not land you Britney Spears.
So what happened? Granted, Colin Farrell is a good looking guy, whether he's wearing Walmart (see above) or Armani. But this is not a requirement.
So, now I will begin with the three things we shall focus on in today's lesson.
a. Hair
b. Face
c. clothes
_
The hair here is almost perfect, but a little too long and a little too combed. Go long or short - there is no inbetween. Right now the style is messy, so go with it. Wash your hair, but don't comb it. mess it up, spritz a little spray, and let it lie. It's pretty easy.
DO NOT SHAVE YOUR HEAD! Do not, under any circumstances, cut your hair all off. Dye it, highlight it, whatever, but do not go bald. Women like hair on a man's head. No crew cuts.
The preppy look is out, boys. We no longer find blonde tips, combed straight with a sheen of hair gel attractive.
That was the easy part. Cute hair will cost you a 20 dollar trip to the salon... yes, I said salon. Not barber. Unless you want to look like your father...
_
The face. Some men have good facial structure. Nice cheek bones, a good nose, a solid, firm jaw line. Nice lips. (See Tom Welling for the jaw) Some men are not so lucky, but this can be remedied, my friends!
The solution? Facial hair! Now, do not go grow a beard. Tree huggers (see Al Gore) tend to be associated with beards. Tree huggers, while noble in their cause, are not cool. Keep your facial hair light. Really light. A two - three day stubble is usually the best course of action. Shave/trim only once every three to four days.
Now, facial hair is tricky. To know where to have it to best compliment your face is the most difficult thing to figure out. I do not know your face, so I can not give you the perfect answer, but here are a few guidelines.
Round - some men are over weight... other men simply have round faces. Yeah, it sucks, but facial hair can help. Do not, I repeat, do not exend the facial hair past the goatee. that's the slight mustash connected to the chin thing. It will bring attention to your chin (and your mouth) which will thin down your face.
Square - shave it, baby. Jaw lines like yours need to be seen! Maybe a little stubble, but never go over three days without shaving/ God gave you a gift - show it off.
In between - ah, the cursed. Well, fear not my friends! Both Elijah Wood and Colin Farrell have inbetween faces. So what do you do? Extended sideburns that go all the way to your chin. Hair should be sparce, but there. Do not have a rug along your jaw, nor peach fuzz. A healthy medium looks best. And do not do the pencil thin beard that white rappers do to look cool - it doesn't.
Here is the perfect example. I give you, Elijah Wood.
Without this mini beard, he looks about 12 years old. So even he can look hot, with the right use of facial hair. Mustaches are a big no no. No no no no no. What? just a little? No.
I shall now go up to the eyes, which are important. As you can see, Elijah Wood has great eyes. Great shape, great color. The shape can't be fixed, unless you pay big money for a plastic surgon. The color, however, is much easier to change. Colored contacts. And make sure they are your original eye color.
People often make the mistake of wanting to change their eye color, so others are surprised when pretty green eyes go to brown. Don't change, just improve upon what God has given you. The tough thing with colored contacts is making sure that your eyes look realistic. That is a decision you will have to make on your own.
One more thing. Stand up straight. Slouchers remind women of cave men, and no one finds them attractive.
_
Colin after these two adjustments
_
Clothes
Mix. Mix Mix Mix Mix Mix. Avoid The Gap, Structure, and Abercrombie like they were under SARS quarentine. Where to shop, then? Armani, Nordstroms... and Goodwill. Yes, I said Goodwill. Spend good money on things like your jeans. It is all about the pants. Flat front, but make sure it hugs your behind. Girls like a nice butt. Do not wear all Armani, or all Goodwill. Mix them. Wear dark colors.... blues, greens, and blacks; or grey. Do not wear advertisements. You are not a billboard. No writing, either.
Make sure your jeans LOOK tailored. Avoid Walmart pants at all costs. Do not wear khakis, or shiny material. You are not gay. You can not go wrong with the right jeans.
Buy nice shoes - never sneakers. Converse, hiking boots - dress shoes if you're planning to go to a nice place. I am quoting from a book by the author of First Wives Club when I say that "Do not wear sandles, unless you think Jesus had a hot social life."
Shirts are difficult. But one thing I can say for certain - t shirts are attractive only if they fit just right. The line between two baggy and two tight is a very thin one, so walk it carefully. And do have a variety. Do not wear T shirts all the time, please. Take pride in how you look. This is one thing Colin Farrell really hasn't got going for him most of the time.
A good jacket can help. Don't buy Armani - hit Goodwill. If you don;t find anything at first, keep trying. If you have a blck blazer, make it work for you, but wear it sloppily. Leather jackets are all well and good, but don't go looking like a biker. Be unique, when it comes to your jacket selection. And don't be afraid to wear them in July.
_
The end result. Ta da.
Much improved, and as hot as the sun.
_
This is the end of my little rant, for now, anyway. Forgive all typos are mispellings: I am not an English major. I will say this: Everything above is based solely on physical appearance. We all know while this will get you attention, it is your attitude that will land you the girl.
Some girls like bad boys - especially young women. It is difficult to mimic this attitude, and I will not tell you to try. It is most unfortunate that women do not like men who act like themselves. Most of the time, we like arrogant jerks. Why? Because to us it seems that if they want us, if that they love us and have picked us out of all the other girls out there, that we must be something special.
Now, this is not me. I am not saying ALL women like guys who work on their looks or are *******s. It is, however, what the vast majority of what young, college women prefer. From about 16 to 28.
But one of these days, these girls are going to grow up (so will you), and if you have no work ethic, no real personality, and no kindness in you, they will start looking for someone who is much more stable.
I would tell you to be yourself, but in truth, it just doesn't work. Looks matter, and anyone who tells you different is lying. From first hand experience, I have learned this, and it is a hard reality to face.
There is something respectable, however, about the man who is truly himself. Confidence is key, if you do not wish to try and change who you appear to be to everyone else. If nothing else, be confident. Not condescending, not arrogant - confident. Don't let any female take advantage of you - don't let yourself be used. Don't be clingy or desperate. Don't be aloof, either. If you like yourself, the rest will come as second nature.
It might not get you a date now, but don't give up all hope. We all come around. eventually. some faster than others.
And eventually, these girls will come to appreciate it.
