How to be Great in Bed

[Epicurus]

This guys having a one way conversation with himself while I brace for a hurricane.

Btw, does everyone want to know how to be alpha as fvck?

Be a HURRICANE!!!! They are even more dominant than frat guys and drug dealers from the hood.

I live in south Florida cupcake

 

[Trump]

Girth is more important than length but keep in mind too that a woman's canal varies in depth just like a man's member varies in length. There IS such a thing as too long. Too long can be pokey and uncomfortable for the woman. So physically the ideal is to have good physiological compatibility. That means you are sized such and she is sized such that y'all can enjoy each other without you having to worry about going "too hard" or hurting her by bottoming out at her cervix.

In my 20s I had a 5 year LTR with a great guy who had plenty of girth and length, but he was actually a little too long for me and we had to be a little careful in certain positions or it was pokey.

Communication is key. Some women are completely bashful about telling you what they like or what gets them satisfied, but encourage them to let you know in a non-judgemental way. There is a certain vulnerability and exposure to being naked with another human being. Essentially you are entrusting another person with your unvarnished physical being. Women get worried about whether or not a man sees all the physical flaws that she sees, although a man probably is simply enjoying the presence of a naked woman. Just like men get worried about their member and it's width, size, curvature, etc. Communicate gently what you enjoy. Help her please you. If she isn't an expert at the blow job help her by encouraging her to do what you prefer.

Also keep in mind that what most turns a woman on initially is your desire for her. Pay attention to her while you are in bed together. Look at her, compliment her. Be present in the moment (that means do not be so busy trying to hold back your climax that you fixate in the pattern in the drywall or an algebra equation or some other unrelated thing.) Let yourself enjoy her and allow yourself to climax. If you think you didn't last long enough tell her that your desire FOR HER got the best of you, and know that you'll have another go after you recover for a little bit.

What turns a woman on most as you become more established lovers is your KNOWLEDGE of HER in addition to your desire for her. And over time a comfort level and an emotional intimacy should begin to get established as well as physical intimacy. As that intimacy gets established things have the potential to get really awesome in bed.

Men who can create the illusion of this sort of emotional closeness and intimacy on a first encounter are the Casanovas running around. It is very difficult to achieve great lover status on a first encounter. Unless you have already made the investment into knowing something about the woman emotionally, you have already built some sort of connection. You've created sexual tension, which women love.

Men may think "Sheesh, can we get to the fvcking already?" but women aren't wired that way. Women need the get warmed up to the idea. Women need that emotional engagement. If you can slow it down and enjoy the seductive process (Art of Seduction by Robert Greene spends pages and pages on this concept) then you will build sexual tension and also enhance your own anticipation of the physical conquest.

Don't be in such a big fat hurry!!

Holy cow. BeExcellent the OP got you going with the question. Good advice. The only tiny issue is it's putting the cart slightly before the horse.

To meet a younger, single, decent looking, not money hungry, somewhat educated, family orientated, younger girl and attract her, call her, date her, seduce her, have her willing to come back to your place, go to your bedroom and take off all her clothes is the hard part.

The sex part is easy.

 

[BeExcellent]

You don't read. Get your girlfriend (or a hooker), get some Viagra and go at it.

It's not exactly rocket science.

The sex part is easy.

The above statements are fine if all you care about is your own gratification. And some here do care only about that. But this is NOT great or even memorable in bed.

Men climax from physical stimulation under normal circumstances. Meaning unless a guy has some weird hangup he is going to be able to climax with penetration, and/or blow job, and/or hand job, and/or may even climax just from dry humping or heavy petting or less. Maybe he only needs to see something visually arousing...That's all physical stimulation. Men are pretty simple that way.

Add to this that it's very easy for women to figure men out physically. Look hot, get close, be suggestive, kiss a little bit, touch the external equipment, and bingo, the man is really to go. Maybe only one of the things on that list is sufficient. Interest indicator gets erect. Brilliant.

Women need emotional as well as physical stimulation in many cases to climax under normal circumstances. There are some women who have never experienced orgasm, some who have only experienced climax digitally, some only by themselves, some with a vibrator, some with penetration vaginally, some with penetration anally, some are all the above, others are none of the above and some are some combination of the above. Women don't have to climax to reproduce. Men do.

Women are much harder for men to figure out than men are for women. Partly because WOMEN haven't figured themselves out in many cases. Women climax for the pleasure of it IF they know how. What the hell is a G-spot? Where the hell is it? It's up in there somewhere...What is climax supposed to feel like, etc. Then on top of all this trying to figure out how to work equipment that you can't readily access and examine...you have the psychological aspect of being insecure and self-conscious which creates emotional barricades to intimacy and can absolutely block a woman from being able to let go, enjoy the moment, and allow herself to climax.

Confounding things that much more is that while most men work the same way (meaning once you've learned how to work one, you pretty much have got the instruction manual down)...women have much more variability. What works with one woman might not work with another. Her g-spot is in a different place, the angle a guy has learned for one woman may not do it for another woman, some women climax easily, some not at all, and everything in between.

This is why communication is so important.

There are things women learn to do (fake climax, tell the man how awesome he is, etc.) that happens ALOT because no woman with any decency is going to tell you you were terrible in the sack...but they will vote with their feet and never fvck the guy again if they know what satisfying sex is supposed to be.

This is why you cannot believe what women SAY to you in bed. They are going to tell a man what he wants to hear because they don't want to be rude, make him angry or deal with the fallout.If she is DTF again you were good enough to have another roll in the hay.

Next post I'll give some advice about what physical things a man can do to arouse a woman. Hint: SLOW DOWN

 

[zekko]

....A woman also said that I was "having sex like a lesbian"....

What the heck is that supposed to mean?

If you want to improve and experiment as a lover, then you read... what exactly?

I think the most commonly recommended book on the topic I've seen around here is Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. I've read a good bit of it but his constant descriptions of his sexual exploits kind of grossed me out lol.

 

[highSpeed]

The above statements are fine if all you care about is your own gratification. And some here do care only about that. But this is NOT great or even memorable in bed.

Men climax from physical stimulation under normal circumstances. Meaning unless a guy has some weird hangup he is going to be able to climax with penetration, and/or blow job, and/or hand job, and/or may even climax just from dry humping or heavy petting or less. Maybe he only needs to see something visually arousing...That's all physical stimulation. Men are pretty simple that way.

Add to this that it's very easy for women to figure men out physically. Look hot, get close, be suggestive, kiss a little bit, touch the external equipment, and bingo, the man is really to go. Maybe only one of the things on that list is sufficient. Interest indicator gets erect. Brilliant.

Women need emotional as well as physical stimulation in many cases to climax under normal circumstances. There are some women who have never experienced orgasm, some who have only experienced climax digitally, some only by themselves, some with a vibrator, some with penetration vaginally, some with penetration anally, some are all the above, others are none of the above and some are some combination of the above. Women don't have to climax to reproduce. Men do.

Women are much harder for men to figure out than men are for women. Partly because WOMEN haven't figured themselves out in many cases. Women climax for the pleasure of it IF they know how. What the hell is a G-spot? Where the hell is it? It's up in there somewhere...What is climax supposed to feel like, etc. Then on top of all this trying to figure out how to work equipment that you can't readily access and examine...you have the psychological aspect of being insecure and self-conscious which creates emotional barricades to intimacy and can absolutely block a woman from being able to let go, enjoy the moment, and allow herself to climax.

Confounding things that much more is that while most men work the same way (meaning once you've learned how to work one, you pretty much have got the instruction manual down)...women have much more variability. What works with one woman might not work with another. Her g-spot is in a different place, the angle a guy has learned for one woman may not do it for another woman, some women climax easily, some not at all, and everything in between.

This is why communication is so important.

There are things women learn to do (fake climax, tell the man how awesome he is, etc.) that happens ALOT because no woman with any decency is going to tell you you were terrible in the sack...but they will vote with their feet and never fvck the guy again if they know what satisfying sex is supposed to be.

This is why you cannot believe what women SAY to you in bed. They are going to tell a man what he wants to hear because they don't want to be rude, make him angry or deal with the fallout.If she is DTF again you were good enough to have another roll in the hay.

Next post I'll give some advice about what physical things a man can do to arouse a woman. Hint: SLOW DOWN

In some ways, I can appreciate your post. The fact of the matter is though, from the sounds of your post, it once again falls on the man. Women just bring the hole along and that's all that needs to be done. I think it is extremely unfortunate for men that the burden of the relationship falls largely on them. Lead, make a great income, work out, dress well, smart, funny, good looking, all the woman has to do is bring the hole and look good, maybe not even look good if the guy is horny enough. I understand those who say, prostitutes and/or use women, not the way I want to do business but it sure is easier than all of the work put in for simply some s*x but hey, maybe I'm wrong. And with the changes to society, with all of the SJW nonsense, the trend is most likely only going to continue towards the needs and wants of women, at least until the muslims take over. Then you women will be begging for western men back.

Communication is a joke, what does that mean exactly? That someone validates your feelings? Holy crap, if I had a nickel for all of the times that my various significant others could give a rat's behind about my feelings or validating them, I'd be retired already. Women operate mainly on emotion, but it's usually a one way street. Care about my feelings, screw your feelings/needs. I don't want to come off as ignorant but I'm so tired of hearing what women want. Guarantee you this, the man who falls all over themselves trying to validate and care for her emotional/communicative needs is only running in a circle and that circle starts and stops with, "I'm not happy, here's what you need to do to fix it."

 

[BeExcellent]

Ever wonder why this site and others promote kino? Because a man needs to touch a woman to show her sexual interest. But there is more to it than that. A woman needs a man's touch to become sexually aroused. She needs his physical closeness, his verbal cues, his non verbal cues. His direction, however subtle. Sex is far more mental/emotional than physical for women. The reverse is true of men. This is complimentary. It allows the masculine and the feminine to complete the circuit. A woman needs to be aware of the man's desire in a multifaceted way.

OK. So what does that look like? How does a man act?

Y'all are going to but read a romance novel. Seriously. Louis Lamor or one of those. Read the steamy passages. Notice the way the encounters are described. There is great attention paid to the FOREPLAY that happens before sex occurs. There is great attention paid to the tone of the voice, to the eyes and the way a man looks at his lover. It is an interaction of many layers. Even 50 Shades of Gray emphasizes this. Don't be so dismissive...romance novels and 50 Shades of Gray were enormous hits with FEMALE readers. Aren't females your targets in seduction gentlemen?

You don't need to be Christian Gray (full disclosure I have not read the book nor seen the movie) or the romantic hero...but what if you could arouse women like they do? You'd have incredible success with women if you arouse women. They won't leave you alone.

There is also a blogger out there named Susan Bratton. She has a blog and a website that is geared toward sexual expression and learning how to be a great lover in the sense of the sex act itself. She is an older woman (older than BE, lol) and is happily (in a sexual sense) married. Her material will make you blush folks.

I hope some of the more seasoned men will share things that they find bedroom success with. As one lover (who was less well endowed) said to me years ago...

"It's not the size of the ship...it's the motion of the ocean." He was a great lover because he knew how to create arousal on many levels.

 

[Floydispink01]

I've had quite a lot of bad (for her) selfish sex, tbh.

It hasn't seemed to matter as much as what I've read about on here. In some cases, it made the girl try harder actually.

I've tried improving that aspect. I watched a series called "2 girls teach sex", and I did learn a few good things which stuck - but generally didn't think much to the series. A lot of it was rediculous porn star flashy moves. Gymnastics sorts of stuff.

....A woman also said that I was "having sex like a lesbian"....

I'd be interested on reading a good book on the subject, and experimenting again. Any common suggestions?

I mean, if you want to learn about the sexual market, you read "the rational male".
If you want to improve your daygame, "daygame mastery" is the supplement.
60 years of challenge is the nightgame bible (imo).

If you want to improve and experiment as a lover, then you read... what exactly?

Mills and boon.

 

[BeExcellent]

In some ways, I can appreciate your post. The fact of the matter is though, from the sounds of your post, it once again falls on the man. Women just bring the hole along and that's all that needs to be done. I think it is extremely unfortunate for men that the burden of the relationship falls largely on them. Lead, make a great income, work out, dress well, smart, funny, good looking, all the woman has to do is bring the hole and look good, maybe not even look good if the guy is horny enough. I understand those who say, prostitutes and/or use women, not the way I want to do business but it sure is easier than all of the work put in for simply some s*x but hey, maybe I'm wrong. And with the changes to society, with all of the SJW nonsense, the trend is most likely only going to continue towards the needs and wants of women, at least until the muslims take over. Then you women will be begging for western men back.

Communication is a joke, what does that mean exactly? That someone validates your feelings? Holy crap, if I had a nickel for all of the times that my various significant others could give a rat's behind about my feelings or validating them, I'd be retired already. Women operate mainly on emotion, but it's usually a one way street. Care about my feelings, screw your feelings/needs. I don't want to come off as ignorant but I'm so tired of hearing what women want. Guarantee you this, the man who falls all over themselves trying to validate and care for her emotional/communicative needs is only running in a circle and that circle starts and stops with, "I'm not happy, here's what you need to do to fix it."

I appreciate your frustration. It's NOT all on the man... once arousal kicks in it absolutely should be a two way street. Men hate the starfish and women hate the disconnected jackhammer.

Communication means listening and paying attention. It also means expressing what you prefer in bed, and it includes her expressing what she prefers in bed. It includes dropping assumptions and exploring together. The motion of the ocean lover I mentioned? He had a fumbling idea how to navigate a woman's body until a woman showed him how. That woman was me. Decades later he still takes the liberty of telling me how my willingness to be vulnerable and both show him and tell him how to handle my body helped him gain confidence and sexual prowess in the bedroom. These days he can get anybody to sleep with him, and he typically keeps plates half his age. So he's doing something right.

It's not all on the man but yes the men have a role that they should strive to fill (leadership, initiation, the fulfillment of the male role). Women have a role too...to be pregnant and give birth (in the fulfillment of the female role)...I'm trying to address something that a man does NOT experience himself, and I'm trying to give you guys tools that will improve your outcomes with chicks. And laziness in bed is just that, laziness. The best women in bed are NOT starfish as I and many others here will assure you.

 

[zekko]

Y'all are going to but read a romance novel. Seriously. Louis Lamor or one of those. Read the steamy passages. Notice the way the encounters are described. There is great attention paid to the FOREPLAY that happens before sex occurs. There is great attention paid to the tone of the voice, to the eyes and the way a man looks at his lover. It is an interaction of many layers. Even 50 Shades of Gray emphasizes this.

It seems to me that the common denominator in such scenes is that the man is consumed with his desire for the female. Is that what you are describing? I ask because on this forum they always push the idea that the male should be emotionally detached, nonreactive, not impressed or overwhelmed by the woman's beauty, IDGAF, etc etc etc.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I appreciate your frustration. It's NOT all on the man... once arousal kicks in it absolutely should be a two way street. Men hate the starfish and women hate the disconnected jackhammer.

Communication means listening and paying attention. It also means expressing what you prefer in bed, and it includes her expressing what she prefers in bed. It includes dropping assumptions and exploring together. The motion of the ocean lover I mentioned? He had a fumbling idea how to navigate a woman's body until a woman showed him how. That woman was me. Decades later he still takes the liberty of telling me how my willingness to be vulnerable and both show him and tell him how to handle my body helped him gain confidence and sexual prowess in the bedroom. These days he can get anybody to sleep with him, and he typically keeps plates half his age. So he's doing something right.

It's not all on the man but yes the men have a role that they should strive to fill (leadership, initiation, the fulfillment of the male role). Women have a role too...to be pregnant and give birth (in the fulfillment of the female role)...I'm trying to address something that a man does NOT experience himself, and I'm trying to give you guys tools that will improve your outcomes with chicks. And laziness in bed is just that, laziness. The best women in bed are NOT starfish as I and many others here will assure you.

Here's the last two girls I met online that came over just for a hookup...

Girl 1: Met on fling.com. I picked her up, drove her to my house, talked about some boring stuff along the way. She came over, she got on my bed. I ate her out. She came. She gave me head for a little bit. Then, I ****ed her and she got off again. There was no special magical emotional connection. I don't even remember her name.

Girl 2: Met on Tinder. She was at work when we started talking. I asked her to send me pics of her boobs and stuff like that. She said she would come over after work, but it took I think 2 days before she came over. She came to my place, I started to eat her out, but didn't finish because I didn't feel like it. Then, I ****ed her and she orgasmed. Then, she gave me head and I got off. She said her only complaint was that I didn't finish eating her out.

Both of these girls contacted me at a later date to want to do it again.

Girl I talked to from Feb-June of this year. We stayed together for a week. She would want to have sex way more than me. I was content with once per day. She wanted it much more. When she wanted to do it, she would just say "okay, pump your d1ck" (referring to my implant) and we would do it. If she did not like it, she would not have been wanting to do it multiple times per day.

I don't know if you're doing it on purpose, but I believe you are trying to CONFUSE PEOPLE into thinking that female bodies are some magical wonderland. They are not. There is nothing complicated about them. And if you are telling the guy how to "navigate your body" then wtf kind of sex is that anyway.

Certain women try to confuse men into thinking that sex is some difficult thing that is hard to figure out. It's not. The male gender is already extremely demasculated thanks to generations of feminist propaganda. We don't need any more bs.

Girls who want to "tell guys" how to navigate their body and maintain control of the whole thing are awful in bed.

 

[Thorninmyside]

The above statements are fine if all you care about is your own gratification. And some here do care only about that. But this is NOT great or even memorable in bed.

Men climax from physical stimulation under normal circumstances. Meaning unless a guy has some weird hangup he is going to be able to climax with penetration, and/or blow job, and/or hand job, and/or may even climax just from dry humping or heavy petting or less. Maybe he only needs to see something visually arousing...That's all physical stimulation. Men are pretty simple that way.

Add to this that it's very easy for women to figure men out physically. Look hot, get close, be suggestive, kiss a little bit, touch the external equipment, and bingo, the man is really to go. Maybe only one of the things on that list is sufficient. Interest indicator gets erect. Brilliant.

Women need emotional as well as physical stimulation in many cases to climax under normal circumstances. There are some women who have never experienced orgasm, some who have only experienced climax digitally, some only by themselves, some with a vibrator, some with penetration vaginally, some with penetration anally, some are all the above, others are none of the above and some are some combination of the above. Women don't have to climax to reproduce. Men do.

Women are much harder for men to figure out than men are for women. Partly because WOMEN haven't figured themselves out in many cases. Women climax for the pleasure of it IF they know how. What the hell is a G-spot? Where the hell is it? It's up in there somewhere...What is climax supposed to feel like, etc. Then on top of all this trying to figure out how to work equipment that you can't readily access and examine...you have the psychological aspect of being insecure and self-conscious which creates emotional barricades to intimacy and can absolutely block a woman from being able to let go, enjoy the moment, and allow herself to climax.

Confounding things that much more is that while most men work the same way (meaning once you've learned how to work one, you pretty much have got the instruction manual down)...women have much more variability. What works with one woman might not work with another. Her g-spot is in a different place, the angle a guy has learned for one woman may not do it for another woman, some women climax easily, some not at all, and everything in between.

This is why communication is so important.

There are things women learn to do (fake climax, tell the man how awesome he is, etc.) that happens ALOT because no woman with any decency is going to tell you you were terrible in the sack...but they will vote with their feet and never fvck the guy again if they know what satisfying sex is supposed to be.

This is why you cannot believe what women SAY to you in bed. They are going to tell a man what he wants to hear because they don't want to be rude, make him angry or deal with the fallout.If she is DTF again you were good enough to have another roll in the hay.

Next post I'll give some advice about what physical things a man can do to arouse a woman. Hint: SLOW DOWN

I appreciate the thought that went into that. It's probably important if you want to keep a women or actually love one, but for the average lay - no way. The average girl hasn't earned emotional stimulation or so much primary consideration about her gratification. I think if a dude has a trick bag that works most of the time with most girls, stay with it and find a girl who digs that. No point in going back to sex-ed just so one girl with hangups a weird body can squirt knowing that you care so much about her that you practically did a thesis on her release button.

 

[Trump]

The above statements are fine if all you care about is your own gratification. And some here do care only about that. But this is NOT great or even memorable in bed.

The point was it's much much harder to find the decent type of girl to have the sex with, than to learn the techniques of the sex to satisfy her.

The techniques can be learned in 23 seconds. To FIND a decent girl to do the techniques WITH, could take 2.3 years. It's like you are teaching us how to drive a Ferrari when we can't afford one.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

phvck her hard and kiss her deeply in her mouth.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is a post in reference to a different post by @BeExcellent

How to be great in bed?

I've had girls tell me I was good. Never had a girl tell me I was bad. I'm not claiming I'm super good. Not claiming I'm the best in the world.

I can keep my d1ck hard for infinite periods of time. I can fvck hard, although I'm not gonna lie I do get tired (cardiovascularly) sometimes in just 30 minutes, but I can usually push on to at least 50 minutes or longer.

Eating pu$$y is easy.

Easy for you since you have a bionic c0ck

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Easy for you since you have a bionic c0ck

Exactly!

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I do seriously think this is a worthwhile discussion topic.

To be great in bed you have to emotionally engage your partner. That is for starters.

Jackhammer a girl for an hour and she will be bored silly thinking of what color to get at her next manicure.

I'll add some thoughts after I get some sleep but it really has everything to do with emotion first & technique second.

A good lover is a giver in bed. Not a supplicator, a giver.

Hope this becomes an insightful thread.

The best is a taker though

The above statements are fine if all you care about is your own gratification. And some here do care only about that. But this is NOT great or even memorable in bed.

Men climax from physical stimulation under normal circumstances. Meaning unless a guy has some weird hangup he is going to be able to climax with penetration, and/or blow job, and/or hand job, and/or may even climax just from dry humping or heavy petting or less. Maybe he only needs to see something visually arousing...That's all physical stimulation. Men are pretty simple that way.

Add to this that it's very easy for women to figure men out physically. Look hot, get close, be suggestive, kiss a little bit, touch the external equipment, and bingo, the man is really to go. Maybe only one of the things on that list is sufficient. Interest indicator gets erect. Brilliant.

Women need emotional as well as physical stimulation in many cases to climax under normal circumstances. There are some women who have never experienced orgasm, some who have only experienced climax digitally, some only by themselves, some with a vibrator, some with penetration vaginally, some with penetration anally, some are all the above, others are none of the above and some are some combination of the above. Women don't have to climax to reproduce. Men do.

Women are much harder for men to figure out than men are for women. Partly because WOMEN haven't figured themselves out in many cases. Women climax for the pleasure of it IF they know how. What the hell is a G-spot? Where the hell is it? It's up in there somewhere...What is climax supposed to feel like, etc. Then on top of all this trying to figure out how to work equipment that you can't readily access and examine...you have the psychological aspect of being insecure and self-conscious which creates emotional barricades to intimacy and can absolutely block a woman from being able to let go, enjoy the moment, and allow herself to climax.

Confounding things that much more is that while most men work the same way (meaning once you've learned how to work one, you pretty much have got the instruction manual down)...women have much more variability. What works with one woman might not work with another. Her g-spot is in a different place, the angle a guy has learned for one woman may not do it for another woman, some women climax easily, some not at all, and everything in between.

This is why communication is so important.

There are things women learn to do (fake climax, tell the man how awesome he is, etc.) that happens ALOT because no woman with any decency is going to tell you you were terrible in the sack...but they will vote with their feet and never fvck the guy again if they know what satisfying sex is supposed to be.

This is why you cannot believe what women SAY to you in bed. They are going to tell a man what he wants to hear because they don't want to be rude, make him angry or deal with the fallout.If she is DTF again you were good enough to have another roll in the hay.

Next post I'll give some advice about what physical things a man can do to arouse a woman. Hint: SLOW DOWN

I bet you a million bucks I can make any girl in the world *** with just my fingers. Those girls who've never had an orgasm before? Send them my way please.

 

[Dingo]

Just got this text... "Babe, you are the lover of a lifetime"....

Be a great lover and they always come back... Be a two pump chump and you will never hear from them again...

 

[ubercat]

They hang around for a while. I've had plenty of chicks hang around for a couple of months for the sex. After that they wander off. I'd be offended if I wasn't too busy with other chicks.

 

[ubercat]

What I am curious about is the from behind phenomenon. Lots of chicks don't enjoy that to start with and then after you've been sleeping with them for a while that's all they want. Same guy same d1ck what the hell changed?

 

[The Duke]

Every thing BeExcellent said is spot on, but I'm tired of giving women special treatment. They certainly don't give us a free pass if we can't perform, lol. Hell no they don't, they are ruthless. Yet we are expected to prop them up and coddle them so it makes it easier for them to climax??? We are supposed to take the blame if they can't get off. How about figure it out on your own time. Letting women blame everybody else for their problems is how we got in this big mess to begin with.

The best type of woman to have secks with is one that doesn't need all sorts of mental/emotional foreplay before hand. She will have multiple orgasms every time with out all of that and yes they do exist. I've had several. The best women can come klitorally, vaginally, and anally and what a pleasure they are to have secks with. Her pu$$y will be wet before you even drop her panties, she will turn into your personal little p0rnstar. She will know her body well and won't have many insecurities. She will be confident walking around with her clothes off. And they will have watched a few adult videos in their life.

A lot of women would do themselves a favor if they watched some p0rn....yeah that's how we like to have secks. I'm tired of every thing being about them! What I've noticed about older women(over 35) is they tend to get this. They finally understand men better and don't need as much emotional/mental stimulation to climax.